2006-11-11 03:08:32 · 8 answers · asked by ALICE B 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
tell him you didn't marry him to be his maid or mother. if i have to pick up after him I should stay single its like having another kid around ,i want a man not a boy! a marriage should be a partnership 50/50.
2006-11-11 04:48:16 · answer #1 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a marriage, the home is the female's. Any guy well worth his salt is familiar with this and provides his spouse finished reign to run the homestead as she sees in effective condition. that's a brilliant way for a guy to have an particularly rigidity loose existence. even though your husband isn't honoring this. His territory is all his previous stuff. He must be respecting your needs. yet do not foreheadbeat him. attempt this - it would desire to artwork. So he grew up undesirable - yet he isn't undesirable anymore - he's wealthy. He has a brilliant spouse, a job, a house, a destiny, and so on. each and all of the crutches, each and all of the failings that risk-free him whilst he grew to become into undesirable are actually not from now on mandatory. If he's keeping onto a gaggle of previous junk because of the fact he resides imprints that are ten or two decades previous, there is better than only muddle he needs to freshen up. greenback him up - make him experience solid approximately himself - stroke his ego, adult males LOVE this! locate an perspective the place him eliminating his stuff will truthfully income him. this is attainable. FP
2016-10-21 21:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by dampier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that you value a clean and tidy house. Show him how it is easy to pick up after yourself rather than cleaning later.
If he still does not change, let it go if its the only point of conflict. A cleaning lady can come in and solve this problem. Its not that major.
2006-11-11 03:23:48 · answer #3 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to insinuate that men ought to be trained like dogs, but you must give him some sort of treat, or reward for good behavior. Men are simple enough to be tempted by the prospects of treats. For bad behavior, just ignore him. Negative responses (such as nagging) actually make him not want to do what you say.
2006-11-11 03:22:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept it...you probably knew it about him before you married (if not, you married too soon)...but if that's part of who he is, it's not that serious...tidy the clutter if you like, and be glad he doesn't have any worse habits...
2006-11-11 03:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep fussing at him and keep picking up after him
when you must..
It could be a lot worse...
2006-11-11 03:55:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably won't change. Accept him as he is, especially if that is his worst habit.
2006-11-11 05:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by Beth T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave it all lay, he will get tired of seeing it
2006-11-11 04:18:40 · answer #8 · answered by wanda h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋