because whenever me and my boyfriend have the opputunity to have sex he always making excuses its like whenever he feel like he wants to have sex thats when we have sex, but what about when i want to?we been together three years and when we first met we had sex 4 times a day now its like he doesnt enjoy my sex anymore, someone please help.
2006-11-11 03:16:11 · 17 answers · asked by cookie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have gave him a reason sweetie i'm sexy and beautiful..i told him i dont think we should be together and he started begging me to stay
2006-11-11 03:28:09 · update #1
when we first got into a relationship i was 15 years old he was 21 years old. now i'm 18 going on 19 and he is 24.DO YOU GUYS THINK THE AGE HAS SOMETHING TO DO WITH IT ?
2006-11-11 03:36:01 · update #2
HE DONT WANT TO BREAK UP AND I KNOW HE NOT USING ME BECAUSE I DONT HAVE MUCH TO OFFER HE TELLS ME HE LOVES ME AND WE SPEND ALOT OF TIME TOGETHER HE TAKES ME OUT AND HE BUYS ME THINGS, BUT SOMETIMES TREATS ME BAD...I DONT KNOW WHAT TO THINK?
2006-11-11 03:59:47 · update #3
LOL... Now you know how men feel. We get to have sex when women want to, not when we want to. This is the first time I've seen this question asked from a woman. LOL
Okay, seriously now. It sounds like the lust has worn off after three years. It just needs to be rekindled somehow. You two need to really talk about this, openly and without judgement of what the other has to say. Find out why he isn't feeling as lustful. It might not be you. It might be everyday life. Work might suck. He may have a bunch of other stress in his life right now. Maybe you've fallen into a routine and you need to spice it up a bit.
Remember, love is the thing that happens when two people who are sexually compatible find they like each other the rest of the time too.
2006-11-11 03:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he's not in love with you anymore. Coz only whenever he wants sex then he'll do with you but when you want it, he didn't offer you. So it goes to show something prominently, he doesn't like you anymore. If he still and truly loves you, he probably will have sex with you even though he's not in the mood and will not find excuses. This is because he cares about how you feel even he doesn't want to do it. My guess is he's sick of being with you for so long and need something or someone else. Either you can choose to have good talk with him, ask him what's the problem with him recently or just leave him immediately. Don't keep dragging, in the end you're making yourself suffer more.
2006-11-11 11:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had a guy like that after the first year it was like pulling teeth for the next 4 it was only after I left him for another guy and we fought that the truth came out you need to talk to him there has to be a reason either his or your problem or something you need to speak to him
2006-11-11 11:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ireally dont know what to tell ya on this one, you want sex and he dont?hmmmm,well tell him you want it and if he dont bend ya
over the chair guess youll have to wait, but if your forced to wait, grab your lil girls toy and stuff it up his *** when you get a chance and tell him he shoulnd have made you wait so long, or come visit me ill take care of ya lot more often than just 4 times a day hon
2006-11-11 12:47:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
do something different to intrigue his unfound interests, like a different position, or wear some sex outfit, kiss him in a different passionate way, or in different places,, treat him, like he is a shiek for a night and youre his harem,,,
hey it just might work
2006-11-11 11:22:10 · answer #5 · answered by John C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him a good reason to have sex with you.
2006-11-11 11:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
he could be messing around on you,most guys want sex often and you are willing and he's not.
2006-11-11 11:21:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
u know he cant feel u when u can stick a baseball bat up there
2006-11-11 11:23:03 · answer #8 · answered by native,pride 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well hes older and working and is busy thinking about work
2006-11-11 11:20:24 · answer #9 · answered by stephiepoohbearcats 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE HE,S BORED WITH YOU, HE,S NEEDS A LITTLE SPICE, TRY SOMETHING DIFFERIANT, OR MAYBE ITS TIME TO MOVE ON
2006-11-11 11:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by ThomasL 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋