he was once a womanizer, tried my best to make him realize its wrong, now hes threatening me hes gonna do it again... he also had been into drugs long ago and i tried to help him rehablitate him, i did everything for this guy. we swore well grow up until we die. but as i see now... i wanna escape from it, but the only problem is i really love him still. theres so much sacrifice n my part that i cant let go.
2006-11-11 01:48:53 · 12 answers · asked by chikqie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are a good human being,and good soul.try to forget him.and forgive him too.and best thing is to start a new love life...otherwise
you will be ruined...you have to understand what is love and what is life........and be practical.
2006-11-11 02:07:25 · answer #1 · answered by asoke k. m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need closure. Tell her all this and ask her what went wrong. But...I get a niggling feeling that something else has happened here. It was all going fine, there were talks of marriage, then she dumps you, and four months later she's got a new boyfriend. Are you sure that she wasn't with this other man whilst you two were together? I hope this wasn't the case, but it seems to me that she was cheating then realised the magnitude of what she was doing and how serious you two were getting and decided to break it off. People don't just come of of a 3 year relationship (dumper or dumpee) only to dive straight back in. She left you because she wanted to be single presumably, so why go back into that? You'll only move on if you find out the truth from her, and may I suggest that you don't see her as much/anymore, because you will be reminded of what you once had and that will hold you back. You're not a piece of ****, and to be honest, with the way that she's so abruptly and without decent reason dumped you, I don't think that she deserves you. You don't need her, move on to bigger and better things. :)
2016-03-19 06:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love comes and goes and if he is treating you like @#$% now just imagine how much better it will get! NOT!
Its hard to walk away but by the sounds of it there are way better fish in the sea.. if this guy truely loved you he wouldn't treat you like this. he sounds like an abuser and will not get any better especially if you have already tried to help..
Get out now before there are kids involved and they are the ones that end up paying the real price.
Good luck
2006-11-11 01:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by fishin_girl72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can only help someone who wants to be helped and as he is holding the past over you and even telling you he may do it again he certainly doesn't care for or respect you so why should you carry on flogging this dead horse of a relationship,,,,the only person in-charge of your life is you,,you cannot expect others to sort your life because you don't have the strength,,,it is standing up for yourself that gives you this strength to say enough is enough,,i will not be treated like this.if you do nothing,stay with him,taking his crap you are just saying to him," you can do anything you like and i still wont leave you" do you really want to be that person?
2006-11-11 01:59:27 · answer #4 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can take horse to the water but u cant make it drink ... you have done your best to help ur man and if he has not improved in 4 yrs the chances of him chnging now is very very remote ... i dont doubt that you love him ... i have seen friends falling head over heels in love with guys with a bad boy image ... the only way you can let go of him is to love yourself more than you love him ... hes not gonna change - thats given - do you want to move on in life with the hopes of meeting the great guy who treats you right ?? thats your decision to make ... try taking that one step to move away from him .. you wont regret it ..
2006-11-11 02:54:57 · answer #5 · answered by edifiz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems that you do not matter to that scum.Do not wait for him to give you a disease.To heck with this 'love'-he has little respect for you.The situation will get worse if you dont get out now.
2006-11-11 01:58:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a sacrifice but love also can mask the real way you feel towards someone. You need to talk to him and if he doesnt accept the way you feel towards what hes doing then you need to let go and find someone else who likes you for who you are. find someone who truly loves you and wants to do whats best for both of you. he also needs to love you and only you.He also needs to respect you and not want to hurt you and someone who you do not feel threatened around.
2006-11-11 06:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by chiklet1509 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try again.don't give up.make him realize that life is only once for us.do not spoil with our bad things.try to live with love with each other and make your life full of happiness.bcoz life can not give u extra chances to correct your mistakes
2006-11-11 02:06:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don`t love him you`re just afraid that he might do something 2 u. get some help and u should end up with the relationship before things get worst.
2006-11-11 01:56:03 · answer #9 · answered by CHIKA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no words. i get tears how can i make that man alright being 1000 of miles away. you do what you like to do. you just wait, i cant suggest you what to do can you still increase your patience may time will solve your problem.
2006-11-11 02:24:51 · answer #10 · answered by The Prince of Egypt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋