i met this guy like a month and a half ago...we have been dating and whatever but it seems like he never has time i see him like once a weeki talk to every day during the week but on weekends he is nowhere to be found! he said he wants to take it slow and thats cool but it feels like hes got another agenda....i want to confront him and give him the choice to start being around more or i will move on if i did that would it be too much to soon? we have recently had "relations" so its not like u know i am being unreasonable u know...or am i??..p.s he works i am in school we both have to be up at 5am so when he comes on weeknights i dont get why not comeover on the weekend when we bth nothing to do? he is 25 and i am 20
2006-11-11 01:57:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why do you "have relations" and then ask these questions. He got what he wanted. There is no incentive for him to go through the dating niceties anymore.
2006-11-11 02:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to take it slow and you confront him with this nonsense he's going to run as fast as he can in the other direction.
If you want to see him on the weekends, then don't be available to talk to him very day. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, you know. Give him a reason to want to see you.
2006-11-11 02:04:36 · answer #2 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may have someone else! I could be wrong but been there and done that. He comes over during the week and the weekends he with her! All so familiar!
2006-11-11 02:11:56 · answer #3 · answered by HotMommi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you, if you cant reach him on the weekends it only spells trouble for me, i guess he got what he wanted and now isnt all that intrested in spending quality time with you, if he was intrested then he would be around more!
2006-11-11 02:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.....i hope he is not hiding something from you.....you'd been dating for less than 2 months....yet you met once a week only?wow....
the best thing to do is....talk to him before its too late....
2006-11-11 02:05:35 · answer #5 · answered by Adele 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is playing you. Dump him
2006-11-11 02:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by Mica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋