what should i do, i am so lost?

Question

ok my ex bf asked me out again, telling me he felt the same way for me like i did, and he loves me and missed me everysecond. and then next day he asked me to do his paper. so i did his paper for him, coz i had nutting better to do. but then today he is just so busy i got home caled him he is like im going to eat i will call you back but he didnt call me back, then in the afternoon i called him so many times he didnt pick up then fiinally he picked up and tell me oh i was with my parents sry i couldnt pick up then he was going to work so he talked to me for like 10 mins then he is like ok i have to go to work so i will call you in my break or when i get out, but he didnt call in break or when he got out, then i called him at 11 at night and he is like well i just got out of work and im goin to eat then going to cousins house to sleep so i will call you back but he ddint, i dont kno what to do, is he playing around? what should i do? help me out please, because i dont want to get hurt.

Answer 1

Getting your heart broken is ok. You are not glass, you will not break. No matter what happens, you need to believe: 1- life WILL go on. 2- you WILL learn from this experience. So let me tell you this: Sweetie, he's using you. He gets you to do his paper and then doesn't have time for you (and let me guess he will have time when he wants something else from you.) You need to get rid of him and use this experience as a learning experience. That's exactly what it is- even if he says he "loves" you. You will learn, a lot of guys out there are dogs that will use you. Next time it happens, you will be a little more intune to it and not allow a guy to treat you this way. You also need to realize you are a wonderful person who deserves respect and to hell with the guy who doesn't give it to you. Break this off ASAP- and it will hurt you... you may have some tears, but its ok. Time will heal and before you know there will be another guy around the corner. Someday you will find a wonderful man who will not be a dog and you will know this from the experiences you are learning now. IF anything, you should be more angry than hurt. He used you and how dare he treat you like this. DEMAND more respect for yourself and dump him.

Answer 2

Cut the ties, this one is only going to be an albastross around your neck. He is a user and it sounds like you are letting him use you again!!!!!!! Turn the page, get on to a new chapter... Wake up, the coffee is boiling over... he is a player, you knew that!!!!!
Go with your gut insticts, the red flag is up, you felt it, knew it, enough to ask this question.... Good Bye to him........

Answer 3

Hi, I think this sounds like he is not really sure of what he wants. He also might feel like he has nothing else to do so meanwhile he will ask you out again while he thinks of what he really wants. Dont let him hurt you again, talk to him and tell him this! No one deserves your tears. good luck my friend!

Answer 4

Beginning to sound like you have been 'had'.

Dont call him anymore. You have gone the second mile with him.

If he doesnt call back, then good riddance.

If he DOES, dont do any more of his schoolwork. That is his responsibility.

Answer 5

His going straight to Hell, and the only person who can save Him from going to that destination is you! By kindly dumping him and don't even think about Doing His REport! Your not helping Him ! You making Him dummer!

Answer 6

I wouldn't call so much, if i was being called all the time i would feel under pressure. Let him call you, the more you call the more he'll back away.

Hope this helps!

Answer 7

your not giveing him any space he needs his space ilke i do sometimes just leave him alone and he will call you when hes ready.

Answer 8

HONEY HE PLAYED YOU. HE WANTED TO DO HIS PAPER AND MAYBE HE SMASHED IT AND THAT WAS THAT. CASE OF THE EX!