I am friends with my ex-boyfriend who also happens to be my friends ex-boyfriend. We hang out together and get along, but just as friends. The problem is that my friend hates our ex and will not be around him. There is a lot more drama behind the story but it should not affect the outcome. Should i not mix my friendships or help them work it out?
2006-11-11 01:30:10 · 6 answers · asked by Double D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
let them sort it out but,,one of them may try to make you choose between them as they think the other should have the decency to disappear,,what is done is done,all you can do is judge who is being reasonable and who isnt.
2006-11-11 01:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is a good question....just what you have said is alot of drama...i hate to say that you need to make a choice...but you may need to, in the end..for now just spend time w/ each, at different times. don't put one over the other though. and never talk behind the others back, about anything
2006-11-11 09:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by CINTHIA C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't expect them to get along just because you're ok with him. don't try to help out because it's not that big of a deal. people have different groups of friend sall the time and sometimes they just don't mix for whatever reason. be friends with both of them and they should be cool with that. just don't try to get the two of them to hang out together.
2006-11-11 09:34:31 · answer #3 · answered by adman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you help them work it out? You know you'd feel a different high when you helped out in other people's problems. Try it and you'll experience what I mean.
2006-11-11 09:51:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first why they hate your ex. but if the cannot be mix you should separate them this is for sake of all.
2006-11-11 09:41:34 · answer #5 · answered by Mystery 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do what you know is best after all you the one directly involve
2006-11-11 09:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋