Ive been going out w/ my boyfriend for almost 4yrs now & it seems bit by bit our relationship is getting worse. We can be all good one min but then be fighting the next.
I luv & care for him but for a while now I keeping asking myself "why are we still together?" We have a few things in common but alot of things not in common. Is that we love eachother all that matters or should it be more?
2006-11-11 01:36:59 · 4 answers · asked by saint251083 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Before you give up, maybe change up the routine in which you do things. Many people get so used to someone, and doing the same thing that they dont even notice the other person anymore. So try something new. If you have a specific night you go out, make it a different one. Go somewhere you have Never been before. Do you surprise eachother anymore? Try that. Have you gone anywhere on a trip recently? or just overnight to somewhere? Anything to change what you are used to. If after all that is said and done. Then you should have a talk about where the relationship is going, and see what you should do.
2006-11-11 01:44:10 · answer #1 · answered by bryp1979 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you look at your relationship now and think about how it was when you started out.Think about the things that have changed such as things you used to do,friends,feelings,places that you liked to go and see if this has changed.It could be that both of you are in a slump and not enjoying your time together or it could also mean that both of you have reached that point in the relationship where theres a fork in the road.Remember that if you choose to stay with this person and you keep asking yourself the same questions then you should ask him how he feels because he is probably asking himself the samethings.Who knows this could be a new starting point.
2006-11-11 09:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about it and tell him how you feel. you need to do this asap so that you dont waste anymore time. i have been there before, you want to end it but you dont want to be alone. you just have to do it. and constant fights mean the end is near. find out why you are fighting so much. good luck.
2006-11-11 09:46:20 · answer #3 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you look at him and feel nothing or you have sex with him and feel like you just had mercy sex with him cause u didn't want to hurt his feelings and its part of the routine. then its time.
2006-11-11 10:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by Chillypepers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋