Family & Relationships - 8 November 2006

My boyfriend and i have lived together on and off for the past 2 years. My home is paid off, and therefore all that i pay is my utilities. He does not contribute anything to the bills, and has bought groceries twice since August that total around $300. He has had problems finding work, and seemed to have stopped looking. 95% of our outings like dinners etc etc..come out of my pocket, in addition to his expenses like bus fare, old tickets etc etc...In the last 4-6weeks i have given $600 cash for things that he needs. We need to get a car and he wants me to help. However, i'm the only with a job, and the only one saving anything. I really want to be there for him, but I'm finding that i cant even get things that i want for myself. Am I being selfish???

2006-11-08 02:45:23 · 19 answers · asked by chocolate beauty 1 in Singles & Dating

every night. It's been almost a year now. We used to have sex frequently. When I asked him why, he told me he has low libido.. One day I caught him masturbating in the bedroom. And he went on to sleep with my best friend. Why would he rather masturbate than have sex with me? I shower and I don't have bad breath. We get along very well and we're still together.

2006-11-08 02:45:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Write it in a sentence.

2006-11-08 02:45:10 · 5 answers · asked by Shecyle S 1 in Family

I'm 24 & 2 kids.. seperated from the dad 1 yr ago. I met a great guy, been official w/ him 4 a month 1/2. My mom will start assuming that everything i'm doing will have 2 do w/ him & not help me with the kids 'cause now i have a b.f. i met his fam. & freinds- he met my kids & freind..what do I do? I feel like a kid again! Please help!!

2006-11-08 02:45:02 · 10 answers · asked by jrzy 1 in Family

what do you do to be the dominant one-please be honest!

2006-11-08 02:44:29 · 7 answers · asked by Little Minx 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

why do i feel like everyone is against me.
you guys are so mean, all i wanted to do was get my question out there but nooo
someone had to delete it.
you make my spirits drop.
you make me get choked up and want to cry.
this is horrible and it makes me see the world in a bad way.
now i realise how mean and cruel the world can be.
and i would just like to say thanks to people. for making my life so miserable.

2006-11-08 02:44:12 · 14 answers · asked by ♥Londoners♥ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Would you stay with sum1 if they cheated on you while they were out of this world drunk and that they didnt even remember doin it...??

2006-11-08 02:44:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 02:42:54 · 12 answers · asked by lias 1 in Friends

Although, she is not dominating in general (other than in some aspects). I want to be dominated and may be overwhelmed by my lady. I want she will suspect me about other ladies and will want to control me like a man is supposed to do with her woman. Am I fantastic or disordered? Or, am I, like she says, a bit womanly?

2006-11-08 02:42:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in love with this girl, but know she doesn't love me. I can't tell her how i fill as, she will say she doesn't love me and it would all be a mess. She lives with some of my mates and i see her in passing most days. Therefore i can't tell her as it would be really awkward. I thik she like me, but really as an aquitance, not even a friend, as we are not that close. How can i let her know how i fill, without making myself look like an idiot, and also ruining any friendship we may have. Please Help, this is driving me insane!!!!!!!!

2006-11-08 02:42:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i can never see her again cause...she is in a different school....sob...sob

2006-11-08 02:41:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What are some things I could do to let him know that I'm interested without just coming out and saying that?

2006-11-08 02:41:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She didnt have a boyfriend til she was 20 and said she is just catching up on lost time. The one guy she has been with for two years,the other about 8 months,another one she is having a sexual relationship with at work and now she has met another guy who she's been seeing for a month. I know she has had problems with depression so i'm wondering if this has got something to do with her behavior?

2006-11-08 02:41:36 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this gorgeous girl at a barbacue at my cuzins 4 hours from were i live i went down in da summer. all my mates fancy her and i found out she liked me and wanted to go with me so that was ok i met her in town the next day and went to her house and she was all over me she said she loved me and kept sayin i was special and she never met anyone like me before she was movin a bit fast for me as i didnt have such strong feelings but i returned the comments anyway. the next day i had to go back home i said goodbye and we kept in contact throughout the year untill i went down to meet her again this summer she didnt seem as interested and i have fel in love with her i asked did she not fancy me any more and she said she thought i was really good lookin and we would probably go out if i lived down their but she said she was afraid of getting hurt because her last boyfriend cheated on her i was understanding and told her i would never do that to her.then i wanted to meet up again but for

2006-11-08 02:41:21 · 12 answers · asked by James E 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a college professor that I am very attracted too. I know you are not supposed to date your professor especially since I will be taking one of his other classes next semester but I'm so attracted to him that sometimes I flirt with him. I don't think he's interested because I'm his student but he sometimes flirts back. Is this wrong? Could I ever possibly go out with him or is it just attraction?

2006-11-08 02:40:03 · 11 answers · asked by Venus 3 in Singles & Dating

I know someone whom has been married for over 3 yrs to a guy from another country.She is a homemaker,and he controls everything.She is not allowed to have any money of her own,and she has to ask him for everything.He even controls what she buys and what she wears.She is suffering from a serious medical condition,and she frequently is depressed.He never takes her anywhere except the grocery store.And when she asks him to take her out he says "I DO NOT SEE THE PURPOSE OF GOING OUT IF U DONT NEED TO".they frequently get into really heated arguments where he gets physically violent with her she has a back injury and he has been known to severely push her or knock her down.He squeezes her arm and calls her ***** and fat a_s,puts her down frequently tells her shes childish,selfish,lazy and makes her apologize after every fight saying that shes the one to blame.She has hit him back on occassion and also punched him after he abused her to the point of tears,and then ignored her crying.

2006-11-08 02:39:46 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK-all this Bang talk got me awake and very excited-And i just went to check hair in mirror, and even know its raining-i look UFB good today. Who else?

2006-11-08 02:39:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother has been married for 30 years but they have been having problems for almost 20 years. They have been separated 12 times in that 20 years but are still married. They have two grown children who even think that they should get a divorce because things are so bad. He has tried everything to make their marriage work - he has tried talking to her about their problems, but she will not talk to him. He has tried taking her on trips, but she ignores him when they are away together and will not spend any time with him. She will not file for divorce because he makes a good living and she doesn't have to work so she know she has it made. My brother wants a divorce but is scared of what it will do to his life - mainly financially. Does anyone have any suggestions on how my brother can overcome this fear of divorce so that he can move on and have a chance to be happy? Thanks.

2006-11-08 02:38:48 · 5 answers · asked by aprylann28 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the youngest age...................and how do they usually re-act.......

2006-11-08 02:38:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im 46 and hes 52 we were seeing each other for a few years and about 6weeks ago he started seeing someone else.he says he dont know whats wrong with him but i know he cares i used to call him everyday but for the past two days i havent.even when he called i never answered and it hurt but i hurt more when i hear his voice. he says he loves my daughters and we have been thru so much together.if i keep ignoring him will that make him wonder about me i love him so much.i just want ikt to be right again .

2006-11-08 02:37:19 · 14 answers · asked by candissamber 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my girlfriend for over a year and things have been great. Recently (in the last month), I have noticed she is not as affectionate or sexual as she has been in the past and seems somewhat indifferent to me. She has just started a new job and I figured it was mostly due to stress.

Well I was with her last night and this morning she says she loves me, has a great time with me, I am her best friend, yet she is feeling like she is not in love with me anymore and doesn't feel the spark anymore. What can I do to make her attracted to me again?

2006-11-08 02:36:58 · 12 answers · asked by Red Kal 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 02:36:54 · 12 answers · asked by Richard C 1 in Singles & Dating

even though he's nice, sensitive, funny, charming and caring?

2006-11-08 02:36:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i do

2006-11-08 02:34:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i found a message between my boyfriend and a friend of his on his myspace account......saying that they both had a crush on each other and then he asked her if she'a taken and she doesn't know he has a girlfriend?

2006-11-08 02:33:20 · 18 answers · asked by drizztbabe 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a fetish. I get turned on when I see a girl playing with her shoes (slipping them on and off) or dangling her shoe. I don't know why it turns me on, but it does and I can't help it. Do you think this is weird? Should I tell my girlfriend this, or keep it a secret. What if your boyfriend told you this, how would you react?

2006-11-08 02:31:50 · 19 answers · asked by seanW 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my ex broke up around 5 mnths ago.. i moved away and he still lives there. we went out close to a year. when we broke up we still had contact, and were still always hanging out and having sex. he has a gf now, and we dont talk but only once in a blue moon. the last time i talked to him, he told me that he really did love me .. does anyone think that he might still think of me, all i want to kno or wonder is if i still run thru his mind?

2006-11-08 02:30:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

dating an ex-bf who I dated for 10 years we have been dating again 4, 5 months. Anyway everytime I hear his voice I just get so aggrivated even when he is trying to be nice, and the reason 4 that is bcuz, I feel that here I am involved in a relationship and sleeping with this person but when it comes down 2 it I feel like I have to do every damn thing by myself, don't get me wrong I am independent, but if I have to do everything myself, what do I need a man 4? 4 ex: recently I have been going threw a bit of a rough patch, ( need a job ect) well the brakes on my car went and the guy i am dating knows this, as a matter of fact I was doing most of my driving to his house and to look 4 work, He makes alot of money & I feel he should of offered to help me, even when me and him were not officially dating I loaned him money to get his liscence back, and he still has not given me all of it! he spends alot of money on stupid unecessary stuff, and I wrong 4 being angry?

2006-11-08 02:28:55 · 16 answers · asked by Thandie 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 02:28:11 · 26 answers · asked by Lucky Princess 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 02:27:18 · 27 answers · asked by crandle55 2 in Singles & Dating