i found a message between my boyfriend and a friend of his on his myspace account......saying that they both had a crush on each other and then he asked her if she'a taken and she doesn't know he has a girlfriend?
2006-11-08 02:33:20 · 18 answers · asked by drizztbabe 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he hasnt even told her that he has a girlfriend, that is something wrong right there. That's just messed up.
2006-11-08 02:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by Barbi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't worry about anything in life, but you should ask him about it or atleast ask him how he feels about you and him. If you ask him about the message in "his" myspace account, he may resent you going into it. You sound like you're still young. If this relationship is not truly meant to be, try to let it go. It looks like he has interest else where. Maybe you and he should just be friends, not boyfriend and girlsfriend. This way you can both see other people and have crushes on whoever you what to have a crush on without feeling guilty about it. A lot of young people make the mistake of having boyfriends and girlfriends at an early age because it feels good. I know its hard and you must go through this as a young person. Try to be wise and free yourself from stress and worry over someone who is really just a "puppy love". Try seeing other people, I think that would help you a lot and you will feel so much better. At this point in your life there are so many other people to meet, other things to do, other places to go. Be cool and just enjoy life. Don't be so emotionally attached at this point in your life.
2006-11-08 02:43:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should be worried. Asking the girl if she is taken shows intent to move forward with her. If you confront him then he will just say he was playing around, but you will be able to tell if he is lying to you. And despite what others may think, it is OK that you look at his myspace...you his girlfriend for crying out loud....while some things are private like emails, voicemails, etc. a public forum like myspace does not constitute privacy. Anyone could have read his blog...even me.
2006-11-08 02:40:56 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry but I surely wouldn't let it go without notice. Its obvious he's trying to gently play the field (ego stroking, guys love it). He may not ever intend to cheat on you, but he definitely is wanting to know if he's attractive to this girl.
If its a private message though, this could backfire. He's going to see that you were going through his private messages and not trust you because you were "snooping" - and now you can't trust him because of the messages to another girl. Can we say vicious circle?
If they were public messages, then go with it - perhaps reply back with something like "yeah, I have a crush on you too, of course, I'm your girlfriend"... the girl knows he's taken and he knows you know.
Miss Cris
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2006-11-08 02:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he has crossed the line, you may want to stop and reconsider your options and your future. Clearly its not with this guy, he seems like a real loser, especially if he is doing this behind your back. My best advice is leave now, there are better men out there, heck I am better than that!!
2006-11-08 02:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know much about the site you are talking about, but if there was a way for me to get on it or a site where I could get him to "talk" to me I would let him hang himself...I'd flirt with him on line and then ask him why he didn't tell (whatever your screen name is) that you have a girlfriend...when he denies it...you tell him you are that person....see then he can't accuse you of snooping.
2006-11-08 02:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all sweetheart. Oh an by the way, what are you doing checking his account. Sounds like you are on insecure stalker. He should dump you and go for the other gal!
2006-11-08 02:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would worry, but first I would let him know that you saw the message and ask him to explain...he has to make a choice...don't let him get away with "I was just joking" or anything lame like that
2006-11-08 02:36:33 · answer #8 · answered by Emme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would worry a little but you need to talk to him about it. You need to know now if something is going on.
Tell him what you saw and ask about this girl.
2006-11-08 02:36:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you checking his my space account. Talk about invading someone's privacy...but I guess you found what you were looking for.
2006-11-08 02:37:40 · answer #10 · answered by geminig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋