2006-11-08 02:27:18 · 27 answers · asked by crandle55 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A B S O L U T E L Y N O T! ! ! Go for it !
Actually - that's how I met my husband!
2006-11-08 03:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by family_matters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that for sure it isn't wrong.
The person asking you out on a date simply wants the pleasure of your company. You are accommodating him/her by going on this date. It does help, I feel, to get over someone by seeing others, and you never know, you may have a super time! The person you may end up going out with is not asking you for any type of commitment. This person is simply asking for a little of your time, in hopes that both of you will have a good time and have fun!
Of course, it would be entirely different if he/she were asking you to go with him/her or a more serious commitment. But this is not the case right now.
I say: "Go, have a super time, and don't even think about your ex!" If by chance you are still thinking of your ex while you are on this date, then try not to show it to your date. JUST DO YOUR BEST TO HAVE FUN!
And good luck to you!
2006-11-08 10:38:56 · answer #2 · answered by peekie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say it is the best way to get over the pain and not to think about the past . I would have done it and have many time is it the best thing not to sure the thing I have found out that it has happen many time and I seem not to learn anything from it by What I mean is that some of the problem are my fault and way was it that it happen and the bottom line is that I hate to be alone so I would go out with just about anyone and there where some bad apples and kissed a lot of bad ones too if you know what I mean. It is up to you only you can answer this. give yourself time to heel and then deal with your own life.
2006-11-08 10:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Heck no - this fella and you just might hit it off and decide to hook up permanently.
It can be risky to start seeing someone soon after a divorce - both guys and gals tend to experience "rebound romance". They seriously want to reassure themselves that they're still attractive and worthy of someone.
But yeah - nothing wrong with seeing a guy to help you get over a relationship gone sour. We all NEED others in our lives. We also need the distraction a date with an attractive other provides. Feeling lonely is natural; wanting to do something about it is natural. Just remember to take things slowly.
2006-11-08 10:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. The best way to move on is to meet new people. He probably is doing it too (as men rarely move on without backup or something in mind...unless you were psycho they are boring shites that refuse to let go just for the space) so why wait on the sidelines for your little heart to be mended with time? Exes mean something wasnt right...for you or him.
You dont know that the new guy isnt someone special until you find out who he is......so get to it. Ex is gone....and wont come back unless he's desperate...so take the hint already and keep looking.
2006-11-08 10:41:34 · answer #5 · answered by Scully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong in the sense that the person you're dating might see a future when really all your doing is thinking about your ex. However it's good because you have to move on and by going out and dating you're doing that. Besides you never know something good might come of it. Good luck!!
2006-11-08 10:29:54 · answer #6 · answered by waggy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If that is the sole purpose of the date - I'd actually say yes to this one.
Its more than just you on this date - there is another person involved. You have to take their feelings into consideration and my guess you aren't going to go out with someone and just say "hey, I don't really like you, I'm just trying to get over my ex."
And if you did, chances of them sticking around is next to nothing.
Go out, enjoy yourself and if you meet another person, it'll be on better terms than what you are planning.
Miss Cris
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2006-11-08 10:29:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes and no. Don't go out with someone you don't like or aren't interested in. You'll just end up feeling more miserable. However, it is good to get out and meet new people. I say, " Go for it!!" You never know what might happen. You might have a great time. I always tell my daughter: "You marry who you date."
2006-11-08 10:30:09 · answer #8 · answered by Michael D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Many years ago probably before you were born I read in Playboy (I think) that the best way to get over losing a woman is to find another.
Having done that and found it works, I suppose it works equally well for women.
Good Luck
2006-11-08 10:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Heck no, just make it clear to your date that you are not ready to settle down! How ya gonna get over your ex til you try moving on??? Good Luck & Have fun!!!
2006-11-08 10:28:53 · answer #10 · answered by Yahoo Answerer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, if you aren't interested in that person or give them any satisfaction from the dating...unless of course you both decide this is just for shids and giggles and have a blast together for the time it goes on!
2006-11-08 10:30:23 · answer #11 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋