every night. It's been almost a year now. We used to have sex frequently. When I asked him why, he told me he has low libido.. One day I caught him masturbating in the bedroom. And he went on to sleep with my best friend. Why would he rather masturbate than have sex with me? I shower and I don't have bad breath. We get along very well and we're still together.
2006-11-08 02:45:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen closely DUMP HIM he is cheating on you. Men love sex and if they are not having sex with you they are having it with someone else. You said he slept with your best friend. That should make you dump him anyway. Besides girl don't you want to get laid by now.
2006-11-08 02:49:22 · answer #1 · answered by Venus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a problem. You don't get along very well, because the lack of sex is just a symptom. We are sexual creatures - we're made that way - and to go a year without it - when you're in a relationship is not normal. Talk to him about it - if he says low libido, don't take that as an answer. Tell him that you know he masturbates, and that sex is part of a relationship.
If he's not willing to address this issue, and acknowledge that it's a valid concern, then you need to decide if you can live with it or not. Many will think he's not looking for sex with you because he's getting it elsewhere - that may or may not be true. But you have the right to question, and ask for compromise here. Good luck.
2006-11-08 02:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can you say that you get along and you're still together after he slept with your best friend. It sounds like you have low self esteem and you think you don't deserve better than him. But you do! Why do you think he's not having sex with you? After him sleeping with your best friend, that should surely give you a clue! I would get rid of him ASAP. He is apparently getting it from somewhere and who knows what he will bring home to you!
2006-11-08 03:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by leigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either sex with you is not good, you have gained a lot of weight, you have complained about his sexual performance with you or you have done something such as cheating on him (or at least he thinks you have). If he had sex with your 'best friend' then he probably is into females. Take the initiative don't just lay there like you are only having sex as a favor to him. If he doesn't feel you desire it also why bother!
2006-11-08 03:04:52 · answer #4 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you with him after he slept with your best friend? What guy has a low libido? Sorry sweetie but he is either gay or is getting it somewhere else. Maybe your relationship has changed from a romantic type to a best friends type. I think you should really sit down and have a heart to heart with him.
2006-11-08 02:49:15 · answer #5 · answered by bree_1384 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What man you know says...I have low libido? Then, goes and sleeps with your best friend. It seems like he is sleeping with other chicks and just lost interest in you. You need to let him know that if he doesnt stop with his disrespect,then its over. he is straight up disrespecting you and hurting you by doing these things.
2006-11-08 02:53:47 · answer #6 · answered by yagurlbubblez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a question for him to answer. But what is all this about him sleeping with your friend? If he would have slept with my friend I wouldn't be worrying about why he wasn't sleeping with me. I would be finding someone new. You just need to talk to him about it and ask him whats going on. This sounds strange. But then again guys are strange. You need a guy to answer this. I don't understand them.
2006-11-08 02:49:17 · answer #7 · answered by kelsdaddy01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no guy has a low libido. you should ask him why he feels you can not satisfy his needs. he could prefer porn/masturbation and if you want sex, then obviously you need to break up. he should want to please you in every way, shape, or form. otherwise what is love? you need to check it out however...
2006-11-08 11:21:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 years? that is way too long. you should at least be engaged or married by now. after having you for 5 years, the excitement, sadly is no longer there.
2006-11-08 02:49:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anna D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need o ask him what to do in bed to make him happy. You should have done this about 11 months ago.
2006-11-08 02:49:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋