Whats wrong with this girl?

Question

I met this gorgeous girl at a barbacue at my cuzins 4 hours from were i live i went down in da summer. all my mates fancy her and i found out she liked me and wanted to go with me so that was ok i met her in town the next day and went to her house and she was all over me she said she loved me and kept sayin i was special and she never met anyone like me before she was movin a bit fast for me as i didnt have such strong feelings but i returned the comments anyway. the next day i had to go back home i said goodbye and we kept in contact throughout the year untill i went down to meet her again this summer she didnt seem as interested and i have fel in love with her i asked did she not fancy me any more and she said she thought i was really good lookin and we would probably go out if i lived down their but she said she was afraid of getting hurt because her last boyfriend cheated on her i was understanding and told her i would never do that to her.then i wanted to meet up again but for

weeks she told me she was at her cuzins and she would txt me when she got back but when she did txt back it was too late i had to go back home she said she was sorry but she was busy i said thats ok and started txtin her wen i got home. she replied with kisses but she never txts me anymore i have to txt her all the time and all she does is reply and say ill txt u soon but she never does i always have to txt her i dont no wats happenin last summer she was txtin me every day and i waz txtin her now this summer she says she is baby sitin and cant meet up even though im only down thre for about 3 weeks she keeps puttin me last and im sick of oit what shoul i do

as many answers as possible would be appreciated so i can work this out

Answer 1

I think it's time you move on.

Answer 2

Sound like you 2 are still in school. The problem with relationships at that age is exactly what you're describing. One minute you think you're in love, then the next you minute, you see someone else and think your life will be over if you don't have that person instead. Girls and guys both do the same thing. Couples rarely stay together after school lets out, much less when you don't even go to the same school.
You don't really know each other, so I suggest you move on because from the way she is acting now, she is not interested anymore. It sucks and your feelings will be hurt for a little while but you will find someone els shortly and forget about her before you know it. Once you let yourself move on, you will be much more content.
Blessed be!

Answer 3

I guess it was a summer fling for her.
Although, it's understandable cuz you two are far apart. Long distance thing never work if you have never been in a strong relationship before starting the long distance.
She must be seeing other guys, and you should start seeing someone around your neighbour.
If you really want to be with this girl, try to meet her in person, twice every month at least, for the begining of relationship.
Looks care less when relationship lenghtens. You should make an effort to care stay together, if you really want this. And she should understand this too.
I think she's just making an excuse, and she's not interested in you any more...but anyways. Hope the best for you.

Answer 4

see with women they dont no it but they love control so if she tells u that she cant see u have to act as though its ok dont panic moan or scare her jus say ok act as if she was a friend not someone u fancy or love u start thinkin like u love her ur judgement gets cloudy trust me i went through a similar situation with a girl jus play it cool try too keep in contact but if she plays hard to get act like it is ok she will only do the same in each situation but at least u hold all the cards this way and with the secrecy the rolls might well reverse

Answer 5

I think if this girl and you had intercourse it could have been that she just wanted to have sex with you. She may have kept in contact with you just to be nice thinking that you was messing around with other girls and you would so forget about her and ya'll wouldn't see each other again. When you returned she may have made up a lame excuse for not wanting to go out with you any more! this is something many girls do!

Answer 6

maybe she wanted to have fun or maybe she realised how fast she was going and slowed down a lil and now its ur turn to keep the fast pace up. she prob burnned herself doing it fast and is exhausted. now she got u, she wants u to do all the burning now lol :D

Answer 7

Time for you to move on, when you feel you are ready,
hopefully you will find someone new who will be as equally involved in committing time to be with you.

"good luck"

Answer 8

Ask her if shes seeing someone else, thats what it sounds like "sorry"

Answer 9

Let your thoughts give you the answer you need

Answer 10

listen man that is what chicks do .No one understand them . Good luck anyway .