I wrote before about wanting out after 20 years of a controlling, verbally abusive marriage and now I am getting my "ducks" in a row, job, car, etc. My husband knows I am thinking of leaving and told me he will "leave" and go far away if I want out as he would end up in "jail" if he stayed here. I questioned him on this comment and he said he couldn't see me around with anyone else, or he'd end up in jail. Said he'd never hurt me when I told him "don't threaten me". Last week when we were talking, I told him he couldn't read my mind, he said "If I could read your mind, I'd probably kill you", when I called him on that comment, he said he never said that. Our son heard him, and he said he didn't really mean it that way. WOW, I just want out, with my skin intact and I told him he scares me with all this, he continues to say he'd never hurt me. I have a 16 year old, and 1 in college. I feel like running, but have little money- we'll have a business and house to sell. Comments?
2006-11-07
00:43:59
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