Family & Relationships - 7 November 2006

We've been together for sometime now and his paranoia is a joke, i feel like a prisoner in my own home. His mate has lost his job so is about while my partner is at work, i need to be able to justify my every move, it's tearing me apart and putting a big strain on our relationship. He knows he has paranoia but when it kicks in it takes over, i am and always have been a monogamist, he did find an ex in bed with his mate - should i be paying for her infidelity. Any suggestions much appreciated, i can't mentally take much more at the end of the day it's mental abuse

2006-11-07 01:18:11 · 11 answers · asked by kd61270 1 in Singles & Dating

How would you know if your boyfriend or girlfriend care about you?.

2006-11-07 01:17:37 · 5 answers · asked by ManImSadINeedAHug 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend errrrrrrrrrrrr.... should I say ex boyfriend is the Turk. He and I had a great relationship and then all of a sudden broke it off. No reason, no explanation, no nothing. I didnt do anything wrong. Should I leave Turkish men alone and stick with American men that know me well????

2006-11-07 01:17:28 · 9 answers · asked by bescakasgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 01:17:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

wat should i do he's stronger than me not faster but theres not enough room in the house and opening the door takes to long to open if someone running after u hes 13 im 11 and he just keeps hitting for stupid reasons like getting my ipod y hes on the computer and for sleeping in my bed which is both of ours cause we have a bunk bed. my mom watches him kill me not literaly but almmost so how should i stop him from being in evil stupid freak actually i cant help the stupid freak but he should still be nice

2006-11-07 01:16:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

On the contrast, your pain makes others laugh
Cold world
I am so down these days, I find nobody's there, friends misunderstand as if they speak a different language.
BTW, I saw my ex-gf is calling her new bf honey or something on the internet, on two blogs of hers, to the public, to all my classmates and friends who know me and my ex so well, I'm so hurt. I couldn't sleep.

2006-11-07 01:16:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I bearly met this guy like 3 months ago, he would talk to me and wouldn't say anything about her but one day i wrote on his hand and his girlfriend read it. they got into a big argument and now soposably they broke up but he doesn't say if they did or not. why?

2006-11-07 01:14:46 · 12 answers · asked by TiGgEr_LoVeR 2 in Singles & Dating

I met my close female friend at the wkn and I told her how I felt. She told me that we would never be together and would only remain friends. When I asked her for her reasons--she could not give any concrete answers. Some excuses were:

1)We have very different views and would not be compatible-I told her that is what makes our friendship so good and that we spend so much time together that it doesn't matter.
2)Her view of a relationship is what we already do(apart from physical), so I asked would it be that wrong to add the physical aspect to it.She said NO, but that it wouldn't feel right-what does this mean?
3)She said we wouldn't work out as a couple but said she does not know why--has got a feeling,would not even give it a try.
4)Said I'm attractive,but its just ME as a whole that she does not see herself being with.What's this mean?

Is not scared of commitment/relationship/ruining the friendship if we went further+failed.

What should I do?Really no chance EVER?

2006-11-07 01:13:29 · 20 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Friends

2006-11-07 01:13:26 · 8 answers · asked by ms.nita_757 2 in Weddings

2006-11-07 01:13:08 · 11 answers · asked by paabram60001 1 in Friends

Now if I can break the Meth problem, the hooker addiction, the Twinkie fetish, the deviant sex problem and the mint gum err, thingy, I'll be vice free. Cool, eh? I'm not giving up the beer, though. Sorry. That would be like asking me to give up air, or love. NO way!!

2006-11-07 01:12:44 · 14 answers · asked by TheOneVersion3.0 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend broke up with me for somebody else. She told me she wasn't the one for me. The guy was like 41(shes 17, and I'm 18) so I was real mad, so I met another girl. Her boyfriend had broken up with her recently as well. We had messed around a bit and I had called her and what not but as much as I tried to make conversations, she didn't seem interested. I had called her back one day and told her sorry if I disrespected her and that I would call her later. She seemed a bit happier but I became busy and couldn't talk to her for a day. When I did get to talk to her, she was on the phone and I told her to call me, but she never called back. Now after about 2 weeks I hear she has a boyfriend, and my ex girlfriend is trying hard to get back with me, and though I still care for her, I can't put myself back into it. What do you all make of my situation?

2006-11-07 01:11:26 · 22 answers · asked by ME2010 3 in Singles & Dating

I am involved with my child's father. We are not in a relationship,but we are currently sleeping together. I also have a guy friend that I love dearly and we were sleeping together but because I'm creeping with my baby's daddy I have no desire to be with my guy friend sexually. But I love him. He's an awesome guy. I feel like I owe sex to my child's father. What to do?

2006-11-07 01:11:26 · 13 answers · asked by klclmc1 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 01:10:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how i find a real g/f in jeddah? i am living from the last 6 year here and untill now i dont have any friend.

2006-11-07 01:10:00 · 5 answers · asked by sunny 1 in Singles & Dating

That make's them your Best Friend???

2006-11-07 01:06:37 · 19 answers · asked by Ã?â?¥Ã?ÄPixie Queen~* 3 in Friends

Its a male,lol.

2006-11-07 01:06:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and I are going thru a divorce. He is living with another woman and denies it to me and my 2 daughters. The problem is that I really feel as if my kids need an explanation from him as to why he chose to get a divorce. I also feel that they need to get therapy which he disagrees with. Emotionally this is taking a big toll on my kids attitute towards me. If i try to discipline them my oldest responds "iam going to call and tell daddy that you are yelling at me"
I really need some hel[p in dealing with theses issues any suggetions?

2006-11-07 01:05:50 · 13 answers · asked by millie a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what i mean by torture, is embarrasment, and humiliation. In school

2006-11-07 01:04:26 · 4 answers · asked by Lonez 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im on the pill, but I had a question on the effectiveness of it..

My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about a month. And Im not going to lie. We **** like rabbits. Almost every day. But weve never used a condom. We just didn’t feel the need to start. I was his first, and Ive been checked out before. Well when we do have sex, he always ALWAYS pulls out. I was wondering if that increased the chance of me not getting pregnant. Im also a smoker, but not too heavily. Only about half a pack a day. Only on my bad days do I smoke a pack. Any answers to this would be extremely helpful. Thank you!

2006-11-07 01:04:06 · 13 answers · asked by Emerence 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together for 7yrs. we have 2 children. he has a drug problem which has already gotten him put in jail and on probation for 3 more years. i told him he could either stop or get out, thinking he would just quit. he's packing his stuff today. I really don't want him to leave, but i can't raise my children around it. should i beg him to stay or hold my ground and let him go?
also, if i called his probation and reported him, would he go to jail, or would he just have to start going in once a month again? do you think it would even help if i did call his probabtion?

2006-11-07 01:03:58 · 27 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-07 01:03:53 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have gained weight after my son and cant loose the weight. I want to know someone will love me no matter what I weigh. Please dont be mean. This is very touchy for me to talk about.

2006-11-07 01:02:22 · 24 answers · asked by bescakasgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

And if so, does she luv it ?

2006-11-07 01:01:10 · 22 answers · asked by guffer 1 in Friends

2006-11-07 01:00:08 · 13 answers · asked by jeremiah da man 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-07 00:59:50 · 16 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

couldn't? How would you feel if she told you that because she loves her BF so much she must listen to him..would you feel hurt or angry?

2006-11-07 00:59:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have stayed with her for 13yrs and have not communicate n talk for 6yrs with my mother in law.we are force to live with her. i really hate her a lot she always bring trouble for me n husband. i have bad mood lately n get angry easily.how is the systherm of depression?

2006-11-07 00:59:15 · 6 answers · asked by mamil gold 2 in Family

If you could go back to being single what would you do that you find difficulty in doing now due to other commitments. Some say travel the world others would've prefered to study. Whats your personal reccomentdation?

2006-11-07 00:58:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

over time drinking to much can make you impotent? But cheer up, at that point you will be such a crazy drunk it won't matter.

2006-11-07 00:58:27 · 4 answers · asked by sweetsmile 2 in Singles & Dating