My girlfriend broke up with me for somebody else. She told me she wasn't the one for me. The guy was like 41(shes 17, and I'm 18) so I was real mad, so I met another girl. Her boyfriend had broken up with her recently as well. We had messed around a bit and I had called her and what not but as much as I tried to make conversations, she didn't seem interested. I had called her back one day and told her sorry if I disrespected her and that I would call her later. She seemed a bit happier but I became busy and couldn't talk to her for a day. When I did get to talk to her, she was on the phone and I told her to call me, but she never called back. Now after about 2 weeks I hear she has a boyfriend, and my ex girlfriend is trying hard to get back with me, and though I still care for her, I can't put myself back into it. What do you all make of my situation?
2006-11-07 01:11:26 · 22 answers · asked by ME2010 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you don't like being alone, and that is a huge problem. Nobody ever deserves to be alone and most don't want to be for the rest of their lives. However, there are periods in your life where you will and should be girlfriend free. Those free times give you time to just do what you want without having the responsibility of a relationship. Go party with your guy friends, pick up chicks, do guy stuff. It sounds like you have bad taste in women as well. The woman you are choosing obviously don't know what they want, and you seem like a good guy who would do anything for them. This in girl world means your either desperate or a doormat. No girl will respect you or take you seriously if she thinks you are one or the other.
Take some time for you and figure out what YOU want in a girl, not what girl you can get to tide you over.
2006-11-07 01:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Baby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love her then yes....but only if you truly feel that you truly love her. No one can give you a yes or a no and that's going to be the right answer....only you know.
You don't deserve to be alone forever. Just because you had bad experiences with these two...doesn't mean that every girl is like that...you're only 18...you have plenty of time to meet other girls!
Good luck!
2006-11-07 09:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by laurel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still young and have a lot of life ahead of you, find the right girl, don't settle for someone that isn't right just because you don't want to be alone. Being alone is a lot better than being miserable with someone.
2006-11-07 09:19:53 · answer #3 · answered by mudd_grip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somehow these girls just seem scatter brained and have no idea what it is they really want. So don't waste your time on them. You deserve better so I suggest you meet new people and see what kind of possibilities exist are out there. Good luck.
2006-11-07 09:16:34 · answer #4 · answered by dsd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young to have such serious relationships. Play the field. Things will change when you're older. Your taste in women and you'll mature more and treat women differently. Don't worry so much.
2006-11-07 09:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still young...
F.... your ex-girlfriends....
There are still many out there...
Be yourself and be confident...
Do not act like a wussy...
You believe in true love, you will get true love...
Be patient, when the time comes you will find your Miss Right...
She will care for you...
She will love you...
She will want to spend her time with you...
She will miss you when you are not with her...
She will think of you and dream of you...
She will marry you...
She will be the mother of your children...
She will be with you, always....
Now, do you want to swap this kind of girl with another one?
One who left you?
One who preferred another old guy?
One who does not care for you?
One who only looks for lust?
One who has not a place in your tomorrow?
When you meet Miss Right...
You will know it...
Your heart will tell you...
Listen to it carefully...
And when you look into her eyes...
You will be able to read what's in her heart...
When she will be miles and miles away from you...
You need not send her letters by post....
You need not call her by phone...
You need not e-mail her...
You need just to think of her...
Because, still, you are very close to each other...
Heart to heart...
I wish you good luck.
You do not deserve to be alone.
BUT YOU DESERVE TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO LOVES YOU
and who with someone who loves you not.
2006-11-07 09:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by the.buster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are jumping from girl to girl. STOP! Take some time out of the dating game and work on just you and what you want.
2006-11-07 09:13:44 · answer #7 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to do what is best for you,you are young and will meet lots of girls before you settle down have fun ,this is suppose to be happy time of your life don't get all hung up over 1 girl, have lots of friends
2006-11-07 09:20:05 · answer #8 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well man you got to get your head straight and find someone different and try to be happy or if you thimk the juice is worth the sqeeze then go back with your ex
2006-11-07 09:15:54 · answer #9 · answered by Isaiah C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you need to fidn someone that is right for you and doesnt treat you like dirt. you need to get that one person that wont step all over your heart but they will nurture your feelings and be that one person who understands who you are. but you are looking in the wrong places right now change your out look and then you will find the right one
2006-11-07 09:17:06 · answer #10 · answered by Jay B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋