I have gained weight after my son and cant loose the weight. I want to know someone will love me no matter what I weigh. Please dont be mean. This is very touchy for me to talk about.
2006-11-07 01:02:22 · 24 answers · asked by bescakasgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let me tell you something above everything you got to remember that god made all of us and he doesn't make mistakes. So you are just as you should be. No matter weight,looks or anything else always remember that there is somebody for everybody it might not be tomorrow and it might not be today but someone is gonna find you or you him and love you the way is supposed to be. And if somebody can't love you for who you are their not worth your time at all!
2006-11-07 01:13:11 · answer #1 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who only loves u for your body image is not a person worth loving anyhow. The most genuine people love a person for their heart and how u treat others and the outer person is secondary. The most important person though is u. You have to be comfortable and happy and confident within yourself and know u are a beautiful person no matter what if u want others to see that. Just remember that losing weight is at least something we can do something about if we are not comfortable with it. You could join a local gym or rec centre if that is what u want to do and get back to how u were........you will feel great just getting out and working on u. I have talked to many men who say they met this gorgeous woman with this great body but she had nothing to give from inside herself and they didn't stay with them. In the long term it's the inner person who wins no matter what our outside shell may look like. I wish u the best. :-)
2006-11-07 09:15:09 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes my boyfriend (well he was at the time) fell in love with me when we were not together and I was at my heaviest at 205 and I am exactally 5'2, so I was real big. we got together at my heaviest weight and he didn't change drastically when I got to 158, he loved me the same,noticed the weight lost and supported me but he loved me unconditionally. So of course, some people that doesn't matter to them. what matters to some is that you make them happy and you can still be pretty or attractive while being overweight.
I'm not sure if you're married but either way I believe you'd be loved and it's completely natural to gain a lot of weight after pregnancy. There will be people to love and support you no matter what you weigh or look like. Please don't feel bad.
2006-11-07 09:12:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Virtually everyone adds weight after childbirth all u have to do is work at shedding the weight if u are not comfortable with it
Be mindful of how u see yourself so that u wont end up having an inferoirity complex hereby leading to depression
Personally,i deal with people based on their character not on looks and that means that there are Certainly people who will love u just the way u are
Anyone who truly cares about u will love u anyhow,anyway
Catch your fun and dont feel bad about yourself.
Your happiness is one of the best gifts u can give to ur soul
2006-11-07 09:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by Tata 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. It's not about weight unless you're over 700, then it becomes impractical. What's most important is your personality and spirit - of course someone will love you no matter what you weigh. If I knew you, I'd hug you right now.
2006-11-07 09:07:24 · answer #5 · answered by Masta Batang Dollar Billz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is someone out there for everyone. As long as you are happy and healthy there is no problem, it is when the weight puts your health at risk when you really need to think about making a change.
2006-11-07 09:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by krazy_b81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it means nothing, in reality..........
except if your with a mean, superficial, *******, being perfect would be all that mattered, who needs those kind of people anyway???????
It gets boring on dates, just talking bad about people, because it wouldn't be limited to just you.
what if you were anorexic, and you got with a guy who liked you, and then you gained 5 pounds and he dumped you because he thought you weren't good enough anymore? My best friend is overweight, and her boyfriend thinks she is hotter than Pamela Anderson...beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
2006-11-07 09:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by kiss me under the mistletoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"being loved by someone gives u strength" "LOVE"- the most beautiful feeling of this wrld dnt depends on ur beauty,body or wallet.instead being a good person & beautiful by heart is wat it seeks for...well,,when tons of fat woman is loved in every part of this world thn u cant b an exception,,& if somday u truely realize u r not loved by anyone bcoz of how much u weigh thn always remember its their fault & not urs..so keep ur fingure crossed & weght for that angelic people in ur life..
2006-11-07 09:23:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physical beauty is important. However that shouldn't be the number one priority for you. Loving your body just like it is should be enough. You shouldn't try to please others to satisfy yourself. I think that there is no perfect weight. Its what's on the inside that counts.
2006-11-07 09:09:17 · answer #9 · answered by meamy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes someone will love you, i kept my weight on and i found a good man for me and my son
2006-11-07 09:05:06 · answer #10 · answered by wanda h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋