I am involved with my child's father. We are not in a relationship,but we are currently sleeping together. I also have a guy friend that I love dearly and we were sleeping together but because I'm creeping with my baby's daddy I have no desire to be with my guy friend sexually. But I love him. He's an awesome guy. I feel like I owe sex to my child's father. What to do?
2006-11-07 01:11:26 · 13 answers · asked by klclmc1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all you never 'owe" sex 2 anyone. I cant tell you who 2 chose but im sure your heart can tell you. Which guy do u want 2 be with? I mean physically and emotionally. You dont owe any man anything, giving your body 2 a guy only cause u have a child 2 him is 1 of the worst reasons i have heard. Sorry, dont mean 2 bag u out but u need 2 follow your heart. If it is your friend u wanna be with tell your babys father how you feel and tell him 2 deal with it... he will respect you more and so will your friend. I have been in a similar situation and wished more than anything that the girl had just come out n told me she wanted 2 be with someone else.
2006-11-07 01:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by harleyrigid80 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make up your mind. Everything else being equal, go for the father of your child. For the baby's sake, try to being together in the long haul. Sexual desires are not everything in a relationship. Good Luck.
2006-11-07 01:15:07 · answer #2 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well something had to went wrong for your baby daddy and you to break up. you don't owe him sex. you need to choice the right man that will be a good father to your child. even if your baby dad is around . if he isn't willing to get back together with you for you and him to raise his child you need to move on . if he just want sex from you, you need to move on to the other guy. it seem like your baby daddy just want to make a booty call.
2006-11-07 01:21:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex and love are two different things.. there's always sex in love.. sex will not lead you to love.. but when its sex in love u feel so light.. u'll feel its right.. its always right to have met all your needs from one person.. i also feel that u know very well that your physical relationship with your baby daddy is wrong.. sex with brother or sister isn't right.. right ??
2006-11-07 01:20:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the baby daddy if he is willing to pay child support. if he is not willing to commit to this then dump him, and go with yo guy friend
2006-11-07 01:16:07 · answer #5 · answered by charityw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i have to say is just pick the person that you feel comfortable with. And someone that your child is comfortable around.
2006-11-07 01:31:48 · answer #6 · answered by kk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
,Sounds like you are getting confused about love and lust , quit jumping in bed, nice way to get a disease,. Your baby deserves better, she maybe just a baby but think about her instead of your pleasures.
2006-11-07 01:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by tiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to choose one man to sleep with .You can have alot of men in your life but just sleep with one.
2006-11-07 01:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becareful you dont catch an uncurable disease. People dont seem to learn. Your not being fair to your friend or yourself. Good luck!
2006-11-07 01:19:23 · answer #9 · answered by ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby daddy.
there are too many broken homes in this country, don't add yours to the list
and stop screwing around.... guys are like martini's. one isn't enough and two are usually too many
2006-11-07 01:17:32 · answer #10 · answered by Heath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋