me and my girl friend was in bed the other night and i started to finger here im 16 she is 16 too, she has never lost her viginity and she dont pleaseure her self when i touche her and staarted to poke her, she said itr hurt and she feels put off, what i can use to help it not hurt her so much nd how can i make her feel that its should not put her off sex and stuff??
2006-11-07 00:54:17 · 12 answers · asked by Doc. Austen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stop and think and listen! That's all you can do if you still want to be with her, cause if you keep pushing (no pun intended) you'll lose her!
2006-11-07 00:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by Chris Dean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not doing it right and probably havnt got a clue what to do in the first place, your 16.
2006-11-07 10:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by mrsnoname 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to respect her. She is only 16, she's still young and so are you when shes ready she will let you know!
2006-11-07 09:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you try to force her to have sex, the more she isn't going to want to. If she doesnt want to, then leave her alone. Let her make the first move.
2006-11-07 08:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by melfromhell001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she is a virgin her hole is tight its hard. and getting fingered can hurt believe me and maybe you anit doing i tright. she obvisly dont want to ayve sex with you so just wait intil she is ready and dont rush her. becasue thatll just make her think you only like her because of sex and shell leave you.
2006-11-07 08:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not waste your time in sex games get serious with your life achieve something in your life you can play sex games till 60yrs of your life ok sunny boy
2006-11-07 08:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by Indra P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're messing around with her. If you respect her, don't pressure her for sex. If you don't respect her, leave her alone.
2006-11-07 08:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by shakespear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the problem with America's youth--sex and improper grammar. =]
2006-11-07 08:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget it and wait until your married.Then it wouldn't be fornication . It's the Bible that says that .
2006-11-07 08:58:37 · answer #9 · answered by tiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, is she catholic? does she believe in old-fashioned "laws" about sex? try to turn her on first before you make your move. if you just do whatever you want when you are in mood, she would refuse to whatever you want to do to her. let her welcome you instead you forcing her to do and accept things.
2006-11-07 08:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋