He told me that he met his cousin together with her bf at his brother’s marriage. He had not seen her for a while so he’s quite shocked when he saw her cousin had blossomed into a very beautiful young woman! Furthermore, she had dressed very sexy that day. She seemed to have all the right curve and so showed her voluptuous body everywhere…. My friend told me that he wasn’t able to let his sight away from his very own cousin ever since that. Now, he told me that he started thinking and fantasizing her every time… despite the fact that he’s already had a gf which he always loves and cares so much.
2006-11-07 00:50:13 · 12 answers · asked by Professor Franklin 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why should I care about this all then? First of all, he’s my best friend. Second of all, his gf is MY own little sister! He told me that he knew that what he’s done were all totally wrong and so confessed that all to me. He hasn’t told about this all toward his gf (read: my sister!). Seriously, I already have the thinking to kill him… or at least break his neck plus his nose plus his legs altogether!
Now tell me then, what’s the best thing for me to do now… as a good brother and a loyal friend here? Please, I’m all serious and NOT joking here!
2006-11-07 00:50:42 · update #1
I wouldn't do anything. He's not sleeping with his cousin, he's fantasizing about it. Everybody has fantasies, not everyone lives out those fantasies. He'll get over it eventually. If he has a good relationship with your sister, then leave it alone. What really matters is that he's treating her right. Who knows, she may be benefiting more than you think because of his imagination. I would just tell him in the future, to not share those kinds of thoughts with you, because it puts you in a weird place that you don't want to be in.
2006-11-07 01:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is thinking and fantasizing, he's not doing. If he cheated, then you have every right to beat his ***. Every person fantasizes about having sex with other people, no matter how happy they are in a relationship. It's just one of those thing nobody ever talks about because it feels so wrong when we fantasize. If he's not cheating on your sister, leave it alone.
2006-11-07 00:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Baby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your 1st duty is to your sister, don't forget that.
Having said that, make sure that your friend knows that his cousin is stricktly out of bounds. If he agrees, then he's just a guy, let him have his fantasies. If it were me though, I'd tell him. "Eeeeww Keep your sick fantasies to yourself Dude"
2006-11-07 00:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow~! thats some SH*T!!!!! I dont think of i ought to try this! to boot my uncle might kill me! a number of my cousins are particularly sturdy-finding! plus, one had continually had form of the hots of me! regardless, i'm unsure I had the tummy to bypass there! YIKES!
2016-10-15 11:43:31 · answer #4 · answered by cully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh thats kinda weird but just let them fall in love, no matter what, and just make sure you tell them not to have kids because my dads a doctor and hes had patients that married their cousin, sister, brother and all them and their kids have birth defects ... if u dontknow what that means it means theres a problem with the baby... as in mental ones.... so just make sure their safe!
~Xsolast_summerX~
2006-11-07 00:54:09 · answer #5 · answered by xsolast_summerx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not your business unless he asks for your advice.
Don't get involved because either way some one will fall out with you, either your sister or your friend
2006-11-07 00:53:40 · answer #6 · answered by stevehart53 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think u should tell ur sister about what he said and talk to him about how it is wrong for him to think that way about his cousin and focus on ur sister. Tell him to think about what ur sister would say and do. How he would hurt her and how u would have to beat him up.
2006-11-07 00:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by sexylove 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that the family comes befiore any thin g. i think that you should tell your best firend to get it togther because you cant bare to see your sister hurt and you gone to have tell your sister and shes gone to break up with him
2006-11-07 01:03:19 · answer #8 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a loyal friend and a good brother. just talk to him abt this! well it was horrible listening to your story. i feel so sorry for you!NOT JOKING!
2006-11-07 00:53:47 · answer #9 · answered by love....me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that what he is doing is wrong you do not get involved that way with family
2006-11-07 00:53:10 · answer #10 · answered by ntu 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋