Family & Relationships - 7 November 2006

Okay, this is how my sugar daddy situation came to be.

I'm 18 and a student at a university. One of my teacher's assistants is this guy Paul. One night I went out with Paul for drinks and his friend Jimmy came along.

Jimmy paid for all my drinks, and even though I wasn't attracted to him, I let him.

We started talking about stuff & I found out that he is 26, his dad owns some big Fortune 500 company, and he's VERY rich. Jimmy doesn't really work, but he's trying to find a job (doesn't wanna work with his daddy)

So he's rich, and I was like "SCORE!!" haha. So we started hanging out more. And I think Jimmy really likes me because he's always trying to kiss me and tells me how much he cares about me. I only put up with this because he buys me cars (yep, more than one), jewelry, clothes, food, presents for my family, whatever I need.

I'd never seriously date him, he's far too old and far too ugly. However, I do enjoy getting presents.

And I figure he'll die before me....

2006-11-07 08:44:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend whos parents are separated but not divorced. his dads new gf that he has been with for 4 years is his x-best friends x-wife. she has two teenagers and he has one. they have all known eachother for about 11 years. his son and her daughter have created a relationship that started out as a friendship. they now consider themselves "together" and do everything that regular couples do. they say they have been together for about 3 1/2 years now. everyone else considers them together also. no one seems to have a problem with it including myself. it still raises the question tho. what are your thoughts and opinions?
p.s. no the parents of the couple are not married or even engaged, but they all live together now.

2006-11-07 08:43:23 · 6 answers · asked by t_200774 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-07 08:42:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 08:42:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im trying to find my boyfriends son. Hes adopted name is Eric Criag Heck. Hes just turn 16. He was born on Sept 10 1990. Hes last birth name is Maier.

Well, My boyfriends ex gave all the 4 kids up for a man when they was at the age 11 and 6. Two of the kids is his. He tried to get his step kids but they wont let him because the birth fathers wont sign thier rights. So, My boyfriend put the kids in his exs dads home because he runs a foster home and my bfs exs dad adopted all of them.

Now, My bfs 2 step kids and his daughter is in the same town as we are. His step daughter live across the street from us and she has 2 kids. His daughter come by and call almost eveyday.

Anyways, 2 years ago Eric ranaway from his grandmas because his grandmas wife beat him. His grandmas is in a old folks home becuase his wife put him there. So, The foster care moved him from the home. When he went to another foster care his mom and his sister follow the lady to find out where he is. A Year ago the lady wanted to adopted Eric but he dont want to change his last name. I know his old enough to make up his mind but I think his family had alot to do with it. They put stuff in his head. Eric is kinda slow. So, He dont know what to think everyone is telling him what to do. Well, A couple of months ago The lady just gave him up and not telling his family where he is. She probably dont know where he is. She must had a reason to do that. Maybe because his mom put stuff in his head. I dont blame her. He needs to think on his own. Plus His mother is not allowed around him until hes 18. My bf and I dont talk to him but I did wrote him a couple of times. So, I know its not us doing harm. Hes 16 and he knows where his moms is. He will find her when hes 18. We lived like 3 blocks away from his mother.

He knows he has a brother but I dont know he knows he has a new baby sister. I sent pictures not to long ago and I didnt got it back. So, He probably got the letter.

2006-11-07 08:41:08 · 6 answers · asked by kimmy_raven2 2 in Family

Three years ago I told my boyfriend that I would not buy a new house with him (we currently live in a house that I rent) unless we were married first. He has never questioned that. Well he has found a house that we both love, and can afford. And its a shame that we cant get it cuz were not married. He got angry with me when I told him to not even worry about calling about it cuz i wasnt moving. Hes known this for years, that I wasnt going on a mortgage with a boyfriend and that I wasnt gonna just let him buy it and split the mortgage cuz I get no credit for that. And now hes angry with me. Weve been together for 4 years, and he still doenst want to get married yet, but he wants the perks of a wife. Am I wrong for standing my ground? Am I wrong for looking out for myself? Too many of my girlfriends have come cryign to me in the middle of the night needing a place to stay cuz they have no legal ownership of the house they live in cuz they werent married to the guy. Opinons?

2006-11-07 08:41:01 · 35 answers · asked by Let ME be President! 4 in Singles & Dating

Hey everyone.

I just recently broke up with my boyfriend of about a year and a half, and I'm not sure if I did the right thing. He was a big stoner, and he always made me pay for the things that he needed to support his habits, he had a bad temper and he always called me names. But when he was sweet, he was the sweetest thing ever. I don't know if it was worth it to dump him.

When I did dump him, he flipped out like he always did and told me he was going to kill himself. Now he has done this before, and that is one of the reasons why I couldn't dump him because I was scared he would actually do it.

I guess he was my first love, any suggestions on how to get over it would be nice.

2006-11-07 08:40:59 · 8 answers · asked by beautifully--unstable 1 in Singles & Dating

He says he doesn't like just throwing that word around. I don't want to waste time on someone who doesn't love me. I feel it is something that should come natural and if he can't find it now how will he in the future.

2006-11-07 08:40:51 · 37 answers · asked by Carleyheart 2 in Singles & Dating

Its ironic no one has the balls to speak their mind, or wonder if they should stay with a cheating boyfriend. Go home take sum courage and come back, then we can talk about singles and dating. O for i forget for the 5 pts what is the average age that answers.

2006-11-07 08:39:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

o.k my friend i are really close... and everybody thinks we should date.Today we were siting really close... and when he talks to me he looks at me with his cute hazle eyes.. i know deep inside i like him.. so should i go for it? please help me.

2006-11-07 08:39:38 · 5 answers · asked by Victoria S 1 in Singles & Dating

my friends dont like him because in the pas the has treated girls badly not like beat them or anything like that bu ti really like him...i dont know what to do. HELP!!!!

2006-11-07 08:38:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok there is a girl who likes me a lot at my school.This i learned from a coulpe of girls at my school. But i have no clue what her name even is! what do i do? should i even do anything at all?

2006-11-07 08:36:57 · 10 answers · asked by Allen C 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 08:36:53 · 55 answers · asked by Tryingtofigureitout 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I would like to buy some small token gifts (about $15 each) for 7 of my friends who babysat my daughter for me in an emergency situation. They are all moms with babies the same age as mine. Any suggestions? Thanks so much.

2006-11-07 08:36:37 · 6 answers · asked by ladolce.vita 1 in Friends

Would love to hear your stories of engagement

2006-11-07 08:34:57 · 15 answers · asked by Jenna S 2 in Weddings

y'day my mom came to me and said forget that muslim girl..b'caz there will be a lot of difficulities and she started crying. I lov her so much..bt i lov my beloved also and cant liv without her. i know my lov is not a lie so i want that we should marry...but i cant see tears in my mom's eye...What should i do?

2006-11-07 08:34:39 · 5 answers · asked by mukuljack 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok I have a problem.
I really like this guy. I mean I REALLY like him. The more I get to know him the more I like him. He's showed all the signs that he likes me, (offering me massages, staring at me in class, telling me I look pretty, cheering me on at pep rallies, and so on...) but he's pretty much on this every other day plan. He'll talk to me and pay attention to me one day and then the next he'll completely ignore me. I might move to Virginia. The odds are I probably will. But, I really like this guy. He's everything that I would want in a guy. I don't know if he has a g/f or not (he doesn't act like he's a b/f when he's around girls or anything.). What should I do? This whole like me one day ignore me the next thing is driving me crazy! Should I just give up?

2006-11-07 08:34:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have two cars, both of which need repairs. We will get one back (hopefully fixed) this week. My husbands' brother's car just broke today. It's completely shot, and he doesn't know what he's going to do. They work opposite shifts, at the same place. My BIL wants me to get up at six, drive him to work, then pick my husband up at eleven at night. His girlfriend lives with him, but she can't (or won't) take a week off work to drive him to and from. If she takes him on her way to work, he'll be getting there at six. He's too lazy to do that. We've gone a month with one car, and they refuse to go a week without our help. Am I wrong for refusing to take him to work? Plus, I'm a SAHM, and I'd have to get my baby out of bed early in the morning and late at night to do all this.

2006-11-07 08:33:42 · 12 answers · asked by teeney1116 5 in Family

Is a 8 inch long 3 inch wide unit considered big

2006-11-07 08:32:48 · 7 answers · asked by superbad91 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 18 and he's 26 and he's my sugar daddy.

He buys me everything. EVERYTHING. His name is Jimmy. His dad owns this giant corporation and Jimmy doesn't work at all, he just gets money so he doesn't mind spending it on me.

He's bought me cars, clothes, jewelry, and lots of other stuff. My friends say I'm bad for using him?

2006-11-07 08:32:11 · 110 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i been off and on with my boyfriend since middle school (im now 15 and i a junior in high school) and i never been kissed. We always kiss each other on the cheak and stuff but im tired of doing that i want to kiss him. i dont know how and i dont know when is the right time! help!!!!!!!!

2006-11-07 08:32:04 · 32 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Are there women who like to ........... with their dog

2006-11-07 08:31:33 · 13 answers · asked by titiwhaa 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 08:31:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok im crazy about her...i sit with her everday on the bus ride, ive like her for 5 years now. I cant get her out of my head.. I told her how i feel yet she doesnt really seem to care. she always talks about these other guys on the bus and it makes me feel like crap yet my favourite time is being with her. is shes really worth it?

i have tried to move on but i cant.. HELP ME

2006-11-07 08:31:15 · 8 answers · asked by dwickleworth 4 in Singles & Dating

She's a great person and I know she'd be there for me no matter what happened, but I wrote her an e mail today and let her know that her depression is bringing me down and that's the reason I don't want to spend time with her anymore. I felt bad for doing it, but I tend to be brutally honest about things. She has many reasons to be depressed, and is on medication, but she's a zombie sometimes when it comes to meds.
She wrote back and said that she understood, was a bit shocked, and has taken the initiative to completely end our friendship. (No more e mails, no phone calls, NO CONTACT AT ALL!) Knowing her, I know she has the best intentions; she doesn't want to bring me down anymore, but it still troubles me that she's done this.
How could this have been handled better? Is a friendship worth saving when a friend only ever brings you down?

2006-11-07 08:31:03 · 12 answers · asked by TermiteChokinOnASplinter 2 in Friends

Wouldn't the package size determine your mate? If this holds true then looks and personality could go out the window too, yea?

2006-11-07 08:31:01 · 8 answers · asked by da1yomamawarneduabout 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 08:30:55 · 6 answers · asked by ajbdssabdlj 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex best mate text me the other day saying she wanted to be mates agin, i said ok and then she tried to hurt me again today by saying stuff about my ex it didnt work cos im over him, i sent her a text saying that i knew what she was plannin and she text back say wtf, is she trying to hurt me on purpose or am i parnoid

2006-11-07 08:30:20 · 10 answers · asked by sarah_squidge 1 in Friends

i was dating this guy for about 3 months long distance. he was a nice guy but hed really only call me at like 1030 pm after he was hanin out with his friends like twice a week . anyways i could sense it was coming to an end when he started calling less, and his friends were always with him more.....i asked him if hed consider moving to the next town closer to me because h had a job offer there and he wouldnt. i donno we kind ahd an argument he said that he didnt mind living in sepereate towns cuz this way he coudl see his friends....and not just me all the time like his last girlfriend. w e had sort of a fight which i didnt consider breakup but i ended up driving home. he asked me to come over that night and i wouldnt. he was cryin a bit. he had introduced me to his friends as his gf that night .i tried making up a few days later but he said he was moving away for work temporarily and that we cant be anything but friends. now he wont take my calls or anything??? im devistated what id

2006-11-07 08:30:18 · 8 answers · asked by krista22here 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so my boyfriend is having a birthday this week and I want to cook him dinner only I don't know what to cook. So hopefully there are some of you out there to give me an idea. I am talking about a three course meal. A candel light dinner. Thank you so much!

2006-11-07 08:30:05 · 33 answers · asked by mandy 2 in Singles & Dating