my ex best mate text me the other day saying she wanted to be mates agin, i said ok and then she tried to hurt me again today by saying stuff about my ex it didnt work cos im over him, i sent her a text saying that i knew what she was plannin and she text back say wtf, is she trying to hurt me on purpose or am i parnoid
2006-11-07 08:30:20 · 10 answers · asked by sarah_squidge 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she is really hurting you, leave you mate. I don't think your paranoid. Maybe tell your mate how you really feel.
2006-11-07 08:36:01 · answer #1 · answered by Malana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her as an ex. Does not really sound like best mate material.
2006-11-07 16:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See her face to face, text messages have a way of being mis-interpreted sometimes. Is this person worth it? Only you know the answer to that. Good luck!
2006-11-07 16:35:09 · answer #3 · answered by boots 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd need more details to know...but yes it sounds like you're paranoid. There's a diff between telling you stuff you don't want to hear (but probably need to) and trying to hurt you.
2006-11-07 16:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by chelleedub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ex-best mates are better left as ex-best mates.
2006-11-07 16:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did she know that you aren't okay with bad mouthing an ex? she may have just said that to show you that she is on your side. you may be acting too harshly.
2006-11-07 16:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe you are the rebound boy! sorry to say it like that but find someone new! i think it would be best for you! BEST OF LUCK!!!
2006-11-07 16:35:24 · answer #7 · answered by ♥la chica♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt and if she wanted u back then sho would never have pulled that stuff...it sounds like head games to me.........be careful
2006-11-07 16:42:45 · answer #8 · answered by featherlover2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just don't talk to her, act so if she is not there. That is my best advice!!!
2006-11-07 16:39:49 · answer #9 · answered by Wolf Apple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, you don't trust her.
2006-11-07 16:35:16 · answer #10 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋