Ok I have a problem.
I really like this guy. I mean I REALLY like him. The more I get to know him the more I like him. He's showed all the signs that he likes me, (offering me massages, staring at me in class, telling me I look pretty, cheering me on at pep rallies, and so on...) but he's pretty much on this every other day plan. He'll talk to me and pay attention to me one day and then the next he'll completely ignore me. I might move to Virginia. The odds are I probably will. But, I really like this guy. He's everything that I would want in a guy. I don't know if he has a g/f or not (he doesn't act like he's a b/f when he's around girls or anything.). What should I do? This whole like me one day ignore me the next thing is driving me crazy! Should I just give up?
2006-11-07 08:34:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give up. You are young, odds are, it wont last anyway. If you are moving, that will only complicate things. Long distance relationships don't work, ever. Find a guy that will show you the attention you need everyday, not just when it is convenient for him.
2006-11-07 08:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell the young man you are probably moving. Tell him you'd like to spend time with him before you go. See what he says.
Even if this is a temporary relationship make note of the qualities that attract him to you. Seek out these qualities in the guys you date. I tried to carry over the qualities I like to see in a man. And avoid the quialities I don't like. It took awhile but I found a man with all the good qualities I wanted, and avoided the issues I didn't want to deal with. It was well worth the wait.
2006-11-07 08:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont go for it if your moving, sorry, but whats the point your name is cali girl? so im guessing you live in california? well i live in Va, its not that bad, there are some pretty great guys here too. But you dont wanna go for it, then break your or his heart, by moving arcoss the us to va, long distance relationship rarely work its like a 1/10 ratio.
But if you stay where you at, ask him out... or if wants to at least just hang out. Talk to him, dont be afriad to. Tell him how you feel.
Good Luck. (and if you do move to Virginia, i promise, its really not that bad! but be prepared, its pretty cold! and there are some fine @ss country boys... and skaters and... mmm...)
2006-11-07 08:49:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,,if you are moving to Virginia then you need to forget him and concentrate on your move to your new home and then find someone there....Believe me there a re plenty more guys out there who will probably be as nice as he is. Good luck to ya.
2006-11-07 08:40:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he obviously just likes to play games and that is not of interest to most of us. Be up front with this guy and tell him what you want out of your current relationship, either move forward or move on! Don't waste your time playing games.
2006-11-07 08:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by Jeremy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are playing into his hands. He is flirting then backing away because that is how guys get girls to chase them. Just make your move, he is expecting it.
2006-11-07 08:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step to him dont wait for him to make the first move. Go for what you want
2006-11-07 08:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by sw312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutly not!!! if he shows that he likes you then ignores you the next day,tell him why do yo do that but very nicely then he wont think your mad at him..and if it's for no reason ..... theres always a reason tell him that and if he wont tell you he's not worth it..
2006-11-07 08:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.... if hes that way now, he will always be.
besides your moving.... just enjoy it for what it is now.
if a guy is going to be into, its right away and its every day....
2006-11-07 08:51:37 · answer #9 · answered by coco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋