Family & Relationships - 7 November 2006

My ex bf dumped me after five months of intense dating. We said we loved each other and wanted to spend the rest of our lives together, then he dumped me out of the blue to go back to his ex gf. Now after a month of them re-dating, they are getting married next month. they had so many issues between them I don't see how they are going to get married. I mean, he had a lot of things he didn't like about her and they fought all the time. Why rush?

2006-11-07 08:52:44 · 10 answers · asked by nursejuley 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay what does guys look for in a girls help thanks alot

2006-11-07 08:52:33 · 11 answers · asked by im a rebel not racial 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a exchange student and I have been here for 2 months!
Sometimes I can't find topics to talk to friends in the school so I always very quiet~ (I am not afriad of saying English.) I don't know to say what when I am getting along with friends!!

And how to let people think you are a funny guy?

2006-11-07 08:52:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Perhaps you saw my other questions about Jimmy, my 26 year old sugar daddy?

Apparently I'm a bad person for "using him" for presents.

Because he has a crush on me

Soooo...how do I tell Jimmy that we can't date because he's too old, but still I would like to get presents?

2006-11-07 08:51:57 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm looking for helpful suggestions on bridesmaid dresses and where the get them from since my wedding party lives in 3 different states! Any national retailers would be helpful.

2006-11-07 08:51:26 · 27 answers · asked by Chuck_N 1 in Weddings

whats or thought..... just started seeing this woman..... she has me by quite a few years... well we just started having sex and I've gotten 3 quaters of the time.... but she is yet too.... she saysd that im amazing but she's the reason that she's not getting off is because she thinking too much and if we discuss it she doesn't think she ever be able to get off...... so do i suck or is she telling the truth....get back plz

2006-11-07 08:51:13 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im just scared to tell him but i dont want him to think im not physically attracted to him. i know he is gonna ask me soon why i wont have sex with him. i jus wanna b honest without lookin foolish

2006-11-07 08:50:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am n school on a 4 year graduate plan for my masters and my bf is La in college..when he come back..will i feel like i dont need him? that he can just hang around cus i been without him and hes just a added person. we been together since tha 8th grade and he never cheated..why start now after a baby and proposal?

2006-11-07 08:50:08 · 6 answers · asked by miss_ghetto_star 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 08:50:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 08:49:51 · 19 answers · asked by I'm mad 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

and she hasnt asked me out yet. could this be because she doesnt like to ask guys out and she is waitin for me to ask her out? idk what to do...

2006-11-07 08:49:45 · 7 answers · asked by Curtis W 1 in Singles & Dating

What can I do to feel better??

2006-11-07 08:49:37 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

id told her that i had feelings for her.she had been confused about me too..she said that it would be better if we stayed friends.i had to accept it because i didnt want to lose her

SO we did not start going out.

3 days later..she calls me at 2 am and confronts me with a few lies id previously told her about my ex'.i had told most of the truth but then i messed up a few facts(first told her id did have sex with this girl, and then denied it).this is important to her.

so i had to confess that i did lie.id only lied because id thought shed look down upon me.

she said that what hurts is the fact that i lied.
and i agree that it is understandable.i broke her trust.and i think that maybe she was still considering going out with me and thats why shed called.

now i dont know what to do...i accept what ive done..ive let her down.

but i need to apologise.i truly love her and want her in my life..if shes not ill die of guilt

2006-11-07 08:49:20 · 3 answers · asked by all urs nytym 1 in Singles & Dating

I keep going out with my close female friend, we go to dinner, lunch together and for drinks in the evening. We also take roadtrips together to the coast and to the country for walks, usually followed by dinner and its just the 2 of us.This happens at least every 2 weeks, if not on a weekly basis. We’re attracted to each other, flirt with each other, we’re in touch practically everyday, can only open up too me,feels very comfortable with me, enjoys spending time with me,we trust each other etc

She doesn’t like it when I mention other girls that I’m interested in or ask her for advice concerning them.She always tells me that she never pulled when she went out,she’s not interested in anyone, don’t fancy anyone,etc

2006-11-07 08:49:12 · 15 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do women get so bent out of shape when men want to be intimate with you? Can you list reason why I shouldn't want to intimate with you?

I am not saying every man should get to nail you either, but I read many stories of women wondering why guys are so horny or why does he want to hook up or whatever. Why not? Take it for what its worth, because when we stop wanting to, ya biatch about that. Which way ya want it?

If you don't want me to step to you, stop smelling good, dressing nice, being intellegent, going to the gym and become an astronaut and relocate to the moon.

2006-11-07 08:48:59 · 4 answers · asked by BionicNahlege 5 in Singles & Dating

what i mean is, my husbands exwife keeps calling and trying to get him back. can i sue for alien of affections, and what can be the punishment? I remember reading something like that in another state.

2006-11-07 08:47:37 · 10 answers · asked by WOOMEEEE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-07 08:47:07 · 11 answers · asked by leena 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Who you girls date a fella who was smart, funny, and good looking but had a slight physical disability?

2006-11-07 08:46:55 · 6 answers · asked by American dude 2 in Singles & Dating

spooning means laying in the bed

2006-11-07 08:46:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Did you have a horrbile experience or a bad one?
Sadly, I had a bad one. I was dating a very handsome Latino guy for two years.My mom accpeted us, but my dad didn't. His mother hated me just because I was Black and that I loved her son. She tried to get a restraining order against me and tried to move my bf to El Salvador because she wanted us to break up.We did recently because his mother told him that she would disown him if he would be with me. I didn't want him to get kicked out because of me. I was so hurt by the whole situtation.

2006-11-07 08:46:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In City Of Angels, Seth (Nick Cage) who is an angel decides to give up his eternity and turn into a human, because he has fallen in love with Maggie (Meg Ryan), but he cannot feel it. If you had the chance to choose between eternity and being human (so that you can fall in love and actually feel what it is like), which would you choose?

2006-11-07 08:46:15 · 3 answers · asked by sweetsomething2003 2 in Singles & Dating

I'll try and give a detailed description to get the best response.......I had broken up with my girlfriend about a month ago, so in a bid to get a clean brake because she made it clear she didnt want to get back with me, I've decided to go to Australia for a year. Now I have been with this girl solid for 2 years, and I mean Solid. So i decided to try and at least patch things up with her before I go because she is still my best friend really. But she ended up saying she still loved me to pieces but she would never ask me to stay cos it's something I've always wanted to do. But the thing is I still love her to pieces but I need to get out of this country as its falling to pieces.

2006-11-07 08:46:06 · 11 answers · asked by Chris M 1 in Singles & Dating

What is something a guy can use that feels like a vagina to materbate with?

2006-11-07 08:46:06 · 3 answers · asked by Bloody Skull 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married almost 10 years. We separated a year ago and during that time I was in a relationship with another man. I broke off the relationship and my husband and I have been going to a marriage counselor. We are back together now, but he holds the "affair" over my head and uses it to get his way in arguments and to justify any bad behavior he does. He says he can't live without me and loves me more than anything, but he can't (won't) forgive me. I understand that infidelity takes a long time to get over. (I have dealt with the same from him) I just don't see much of a future if he can't forgive me. Should I seek divorce? He is using the past as an excuse to look at internet porn and join in cyber sex groups. I fear that this will eventually lead to him having an affair. He is destroying what little we have left and I don't know what to do.

2006-11-07 08:45:50 · 20 answers · asked by Texas girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

can you GUYSS!! help me find out what guys do when they like a girl?

2006-11-07 08:45:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 08:45:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This has been going on for months and I finally decided to confront him last night. He is 20 years older than me, secondly I feel so dumb, its not the first time he has lied. This time its something gross (I think so anyway). I really dont want to have to repeat it. Can anyone give advice with such little info.?

2006-11-07 08:45:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are you supposed to wear your engagment ring with wedding band on outside or inside. which one goes on first?

2006-11-07 08:44:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

If so, how did you cope?

2006-11-07 08:44:24 · 13 answers · asked by oasis 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Meet up with him 2 years ago. I was seperated at the time.He said he's always loved me and said he thought of me on a daily basic. However he's married and his wife has always known how he's felt for years about me. She is O.K. with this and we are best friends. But???Is this weird or what?

2006-11-07 08:44:22 · 6 answers · asked by Spanky 1 in Marriage & Divorce