whats or thought..... just started seeing this woman..... she has me by quite a few years... well we just started having sex and I've gotten 3 quaters of the time.... but she is yet too.... she saysd that im amazing but she's the reason that she's not getting off is because she thinking too much and if we discuss it she doesn't think she ever be able to get off...... so do i suck or is she telling the truth....get back plz
2006-11-07 08:51:13 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls can be tough sometimes man. I know many girls that think too much and some women have a hard time having orgasms. There are plenty of reasons...too many to go into here. Take it slow and try 3rd base stuff rather than sex. Find out what she likes, don't get discouraged and keep communication open between you and her. Find out if she masturbates. If not, she may never even have had an orgasm yet. If she has, she may be able to direct you better. It can take a while especially with new relationships sometimes. Another option is to buy a vibrator to help her along. Most are relatively cheap. Good luck!
2006-11-07 09:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by student_doctor_chris 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 12:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by gennusa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen a older woman some times has a bit of trouble getting off how ever don't stop pleasing her because believe me you are she may need to get more comfortable with you before she has the bigO
I think you are sweet to wonder that is cool,by the way I think if you sucked she would tell you most older women dont hold back on what they want and like.............
2006-11-07 09:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's telling the truth, dude.
I know most guys don't like to hear this, but most of you are only thinking of yourselves when you have sex. I suggest that you plan -in secret- a night when you are going to please her, and only her. It might be hard, I know, but this will work...
Here's what I would suggest you do: make her comfortable and -if she agrees- blindfold her. (this will ensure that her other senses work better) Then you take your time in pleasing her, until she's hit the big one. Only after that can you do your thing.
It's only a suggestion, though. Use it, or don't use it!
Good luck to you anyway!
2006-11-07 09:20:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible she's really tensed during sex for whatever reason. try and get her to relax probably by massage, prolong foreplay, get her mind off sex but let her body be totally aroused, then suck. especialy the clit. let ur love making be an art rather than an assignment. that should do some magic. if it doesnt work then she's probably just frigid.
Good luck.
2006-11-07 09:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by joanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's telling the truth. It's difficult for the majority of women to actually orgasm without clitoral stimulation.
2006-11-07 09:14:11 · answer #6 · answered by dreamer_1788 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not having had sex with you, I don't know if you suck, lick, poke, or anything else...or if you are good, bad, or mediocre...
If she's happy and says she's diggin' it then go with that...some women don't orgasm easily...if she didn't like having sex with you, I imagine she'd either tell you or break off the relationship...
Relax and go with it...think of new things to do that may help get her off, if it's concerning you...
2006-11-07 08:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
For girls, it's kinda hard. We really have to almost concentrate on having an orgasm, but if you try too hard then it doesn't work. You can try some extra imaginative stuff, but don't worry. As she gets more comfortable with you, then it will '***'.
2006-11-07 08:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude...this is a guy thing. She's into you, your age, abilities....and she's just nervous. Women arent like us. The mood, setting etc...has to a certain way sometimes. Sounds like you're pretty lucky. Older women are great.
good luck
2006-11-07 08:57:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you have to ask this question then maybe you should not be with this person.?You should be able to trust your partners word no matter the age difference, male or female.
2006-11-07 09:02:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋