Perhaps you saw my other questions about Jimmy, my 26 year old sugar daddy?
Apparently I'm a bad person for "using him" for presents.
Because he has a crush on me
Soooo...how do I tell Jimmy that we can't date because he's too old, but still I would like to get presents?
2006-11-07 08:51:57 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
here is a thought, how about just being honest with him........
2006-11-07 08:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should just tell him the truth, that you want a Sugar Daddy relationship -- i.e., an NSA relationship -- one with No Strings Attached.
There are many other people in the same situation as you. I have a Sugar Daddy too, and he knows we have no future together. In the meantime, we are having a lot of fun together. But every situation is different. I would suggest that you sit down and have a heart to heart talk with him. Tell him your concerns, and see what he has to say. Most relationship issues are solved with communication! :-)
For those of you who are really looking for a Sugar Daddy, I'd suggest a Sugar Daddy dating website. It's called www.SeekingArrangement.com ... wish you all the best!
2006-11-09 17:11:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you need to stop messing with this mans emotions. If you are under 18 and you are accepting this man gifts he is dead wrong. However if you are over 18 then you need to realize that people have emotions. He is probably trying to buy your affection and I personally feel sorry for the man. You gotta get your mind together. Tell him that you appreciate all the nice things that he has flourished you with thus far but you don't see how the two of you can ever be anything more than just friends. I figure if he's buying you nice things and you two are not dating then you offering your friendship will still allow you to have the benefits of friendship (ie. gifts). However I don't suggest you keep accepting these gift because he eventually is going to expect something in return and if your not willing to give him a gift (ie sex) in return you should stop using this man. Good luck!
2006-11-07 09:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by miss_peaches 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't.. There's no way around it. Just get a guy who you like and that likes you. Have him buy you presents. And Jimmy probably wants something in return. If you think 26 is too old it means you're young and he probably has no business messing with you anyways.
2006-11-07 08:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by B U Tiful 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him just what you told us. If he still buys you presents knowing that you don't see him THAT way then enjoy it for as long as he puts up with it. If he doesn't, then you are out a sugar daddy.
2006-11-07 08:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No its disrespectful! My boyfriend is 14 years older than me so he earns greater and has a greater physically powerful motor vehicle/residing house and so forth so he treats me a lot!! this is quite very very outstanding. yet I do loooooads back for him too. I cant locate the money for bit extravegant gestures like him (he took me to Cuba) yet I stuffed (and that i me stuffed) his residing house with love coronary heart shaped balloons final week for no reason different than i like him and rejoice with all he does for me! additionally the term sugar daddy assumes your basically with the guy for the money and that in the time of return you have intercourse with them relatively.... glorified prostitution!
2016-10-15 12:11:53 · answer #6 · answered by gennusa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't use a person like that tell him you do enjoy the gifts but you don't see him in the same way. Things like that is why guys go crazy and wind up killing people
2006-11-07 08:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by andyramvzb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. Come right out and tell him that you were using him for his daddy's money. You have no feelings for him you just want the gifts.
2006-11-07 08:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell him, but don't break his heart. And your wrong for using him like that. Your sugar daddy? what kind of crap is that, you call him that yet you don't want to be w/ him.
2006-11-07 08:59:07 · answer #9 · answered by Become a better person 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be like hey jimmy i think we would be better off as friends, but u know it wouldnt hurt if u still gave me some suga--- he will still give u gifts cuz he likesz u but u know it wont hurt to flirt stil.
2006-11-07 09:00:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say just keep it real cause if he really like you he will understand, plus you got to understand something what is meant for you will be and no one can stop that and do you even like or care about him? cause he should know that if you love something let it go and if it return to you then it is yours if not then it never was meant to be so keep all that in mind yours truly chocolust. hola if you need me again
2006-11-09 08:56:12 · answer #11 · answered by chocolust 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋