I feel SOOO UGLY!! There are SOOO MANY girls who are so much prettier then me! Help??

Question

What can I do to feel better??

Answer 1

Well, first, with a thought process like that, there may be nothing you can do to make yourself feel better. You have to search within your soul before you can think you aren't ugly anymore. Everyone has their own beauty, and if you aren't real beautiful on the outside, you need to concentrate on your internal beauty, because trust me on this- your inside beauty will get you much further in life as far as respect goes. And, your internal beauty is something that YOU CAN change. Outside, the only thing you can do is add fake stuff- makeup, hair products, plastic surgery- but those things will never make you beautiful inside. And just think how rude, obnoxious and cruel so many really beautiful on the outside women are- and remember that there are people that know them for who they are inside and think they are ugly! So you need to start with loving yourself, and you might want to start by going to church or something.

-EA

Answer 2

I have answered the same question just about 1 hours later! I repeat the same answer and I hope it would be usefull
well! I am going to answer your question in psychological way!
(by the way, I apologize for my bad english :P)

according to proofs, there might be some problems with you , for believing your own self! I mean, if you have posted this question, due to that you need to really know about your appereance through others opinion, thus I could definitely say that you suffer from and inner sickness... no stop! it's not that bad! all the people, without exceptions, in now-a-days world are suffering from several kind of mental illnesses!!!! and this has been proven.
and here is the thing I have to tell you as a consultation, that
"Always remember, ask others about your inner behavior, features, character and personality and be sure that the others opinion will help you find yout true INNER self! and what about Outerself of you, NEVER ask others about your appereance and about whatever others think about your appereance and always remember God has created us, we all are perfect, becuz God makes no mistake [Bon Jovi ;)] the other's opinion about your outerself, might not be true! look at the mirror and if you think you are pretty, then without no doubt you are :)
moreover, beautiness is a feature for a female, God has set this to you, i mean you all females... you only have to find the way to show it off...

Answer 3

No!!!!! Your not ugly!! Everygirl has her insecurities and just know that you are what u tell yourself. If you say that ur beautiful and you hold your held up high, then you are. But if you dont have any confidence and always try to hide yourself then you will only feel worse and no one can see who you really are (which is beautiful).

besides you can get all theplastic surgery you want, you can buy all themake-up in the world, and you can spend all your moneyon beauty products, but you will still be you no matter what.

It can be scary at first but try to gain more confidence. You can start by posting a picture of yourself up :]

Answer 4

Just because a girl is pretty doesnt neccessarily mean they are better than you in any way. Some can be gorgeous but have really bad attitudes and thats not a good thing. Always remember that looks arent everything and just a good personality and a good heart is what really makes you pretty. Dont worry about what anyone else thinks its not up to them anyway.

Answer 5

First thing is you need to like yourself. When you start liking yourself, it will show and that in and of itself will make you more attractive. Stop putting so much emphasis on the physical...sure, clean up, dress up and make your self look good, but a winning smile, a good laugh, a nice attitude will attract more people than a body alone ever will... Not only that, it will attract the kind of people that will like you for you and not just your body or face... besides, you are probably beautiful and just being your own worst critic.

Answer 6

Get some excercise. It helps with the stress. There is always going to be people who are smarter, better looking, richer, etc...Nobody is perfect unless surgery is involved. Anyway, look on the bright side, just think of all the people that YOU are better looking than. If that doesn't help, then your problems are in your own head and I'm not qualified to help you any further.

Answer 7

No one is ugly! Every person on this earth has at least one thing that is beautiful about them. Maybe you just haven't found that yet. Don't worry about other people. Do stuff that makes you happy. Get a makeover or maybe buy a new outfit.

Just remember you have your own beauty within yourself.

Answer 8

I seriously doubt your ugly! God made you the way he wanted you to be! Natural girls are way more prettier than Fake girls, and you know what i mean by fake. So don't let yourself get down about the way you look. Your just fine the way you are!

Answer 9

First quit beating yourself up, It doesn't matter what you look on the outside it is what is in the inside that counts, don't you know that girl?
Right now you have a little bit of low self esteem and you need to build yourself up...For example go and look at yourself in the mirror and think about this God created me for someone out there to be happy and I know that God created me to love myself, so I feel good and I know that I look good!
I do it every morning when I wake up first thanking God for letting me see another day, and look at myself and realize that I am a good looking woman in my 40's and I am not ashamed at all about it.
Just keep your head up and think about God and think I look good even if no one else thinks so I know I look good and that is all that matters...Keep your head up young princess! Good luck

Answer 10

Beauty comes from inside, but most people don't get that til out of High School!
I'm sure you look fine, but work on a sparkling personality---great conversationalist, witty, well read, and intelligent. Confidence goes a long way, too!