I'll try and give a detailed description to get the best response.......I had broken up with my girlfriend about a month ago, so in a bid to get a clean brake because she made it clear she didnt want to get back with me, I've decided to go to Australia for a year. Now I have been with this girl solid for 2 years, and I mean Solid. So i decided to try and at least patch things up with her before I go because she is still my best friend really. But she ended up saying she still loved me to pieces but she would never ask me to stay cos it's something I've always wanted to do. But the thing is I still love her to pieces but I need to get out of this country as its falling to pieces.
2006-11-07 08:46:06 · 11 answers · asked by Chris M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The country falling to pieces is really irrelevant right now. You cannot do anything about a big problem like that so bugger off to Australia DONT phone or email for 2 weeks, get drunk tell everybody you love her - repeatedly - then phone her and get it sorted out.
2006-11-07 08:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that she is playing head games to you. Just think of her being honest with you, with herself, and what she truly feels about the relationship. Perhaps she needs to vent her frustration and admit that she loves you despite what happened to the two of you like "I love you but what went wrong?" You know what I'm saying? Now, you're leaving and probably it is breaking her heart to see you go. When you're on the verge of leaving (figuratively and literally), sometimes, the hardest part is letting go.
And then when you're alone and on our own, you will find solitude to weigh things, like what could have been done (not what might have been), and what needs repair. But some cases, it is better to start anew than to repair an old relationship, hard to put the pieces back together.
Don't burn the bridge though, for you might find yourself crossing it again. Maybe being apart from each other will help you realize what you really want and her absence will grow your heart fonder. Good luck!
2006-11-07 09:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by RERUNS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its sounds a bit like she is playing games with you, from what you are saying she knows you still love her and maybe cant stand the thought of you moving on. Even though you may still be in love with her you have to do what you want to do. She made it clear a month ago how she felt so ask yourself why she is suddenly saying this now. Good Luck.x
2006-11-07 08:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't she go with you? Just be sure that you want to go for yourself
and not because you are running away from anything or anyone. IE Never run from your problems. Seems a shame to throw 2 years away if you both still love eachother. Would probably need to know your age, living arrangements and other circumstances but if you're meant to be together then please get back together!
2006-11-07 08:54:23 · answer #4 · answered by hornyheluk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same situation once myself (country was Israel) when and got back with them after return, think like myself you are loving having someone lust after you. But from that advice you will get angry enough to decide for yourself what the situation actually is, advice is like that
2006-11-07 08:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by northcarrlight 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go.. and if you both feel the same when you get back then try and sort things out.. i think thow like you said she doesnt want to get back together so dont change any plans.. shes just jealous.. she just wanted you to sit pining for her but instead youve got on with yr life... you go and enjoy it.. x
2006-11-07 08:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by cathrin j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Australia, if she still loves you she will be there when you get home.
2006-11-07 08:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by Lucy K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she does really love u . cause she knows ur going away it has hit her that she want ever be with u if u go away thats my anwser hope everything goes ur way if u feel it not going to work go away u dont want to miss out you will just regret it
2006-11-07 09:06:19 · answer #8 · answered by caddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to go with you if she really loves you and wants you back she will go with you. it only a year good luck
2006-11-07 08:54:30 · answer #9 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is letting you down gently, go and dont look back
2006-11-07 08:51:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋