how do i get him back?

Question

i was dating this guy for about 3 months long distance. he was a nice guy but hed really only call me at like 1030 pm after he was hanin out with his friends like twice a week . anyways i could sense it was coming to an end when he started calling less, and his friends were always with him more.....i asked him if hed consider moving to the next town closer to me because h had a job offer there and he wouldnt. i donno we kind ahd an argument he said that he didnt mind living in sepereate towns cuz this way he coudl see his friends....and not just me all the time like his last girlfriend. w e had sort of a fight which i didnt consider breakup but i ended up driving home. he asked me to come over that night and i wouldnt. he was cryin a bit. he had introduced me to his friends as his gf that night .i tried making up a few days later but he said he was moving away for work temporarily and that we cant be anything but friends. now he wont take my calls or anything??? im devistated what id

i know 3 months seems like a really short time, but i was dating this guy for like 9 months before and i dont even feel like i liked him as much as the new guy. i think this new guy was my first love....and ive called a million times but every time it does it just breaks my heart? should i do it again...or just wait for the call that will never come??

(because everytime i call he sends it to ignore, or his mailbox is full so i cant even leave a message.......its over i guess

Answer 1

Why would you wan him back? There has to be others near you who would be decent, attentive, and so on. Sadly a long distance thing is hard to hold together. In his case he has a lot of distractions from friends, and for all you know, you were never more than a casual interest.
I think I would pick up the pieces and keep moving along. Another will cross your path sooner or later. Yes, I know it hurts right now, but a new guy, one who really cares will undoubtedly help you overcome the hurts and heartaches! A big hug for now, honey, you deserve better than that bloke.

Answer 2

Okay, most people want to break up long before they do so...so when they finally have the guts to do it, respect their decision and consider it final. It didn't sound like much of a relationship anyway. Move on and find someone who doesn't live far away.

Answer 3

Gurl tell him how you really feel deep down and if he cared about how u feel and he feels tha same way he would stay. If he doesnt then he wasn't tha night n shinning armor that you thought he was. Yes itz going to hurt but you'll get over it. a break up is a step closer to tha man thatz really for you. i say that everytime and i end up comin back fine. trust me whn you find that one..he's going to come back and he will feel what u did.

Answer 4

I love the fact that the worse a guy treats a girl the more she wants him. Yeah, keep chasing him. WHen he gets horny he'll give you a call then ignore you again. Then you will post another question wanting to know what to do......Do you see a pattern here?

Answer 5

Dating long-distance for 90 days didn't mean as much to him as it did to you. Sounds like he decided the distance wasn't worth it. Stop calling him. He's just not that into you.

Answer 6

Do you really want the drama in your life?.... you're only dating 3 months and he's acting like this?... could you imagine being with this guy longer?.... girl, give your self a favor RUN as far as you can...YOU'RE ASKING FOR TROUBLE... but again it sounded like you enjoy it.... well then... have a fun ride.

Answer 7

you dont get him back it serves you right live with your mistake and next time think things through before you do them. HA! im not looking for best answer here so dont even think about giving it to me

Answer 8

Ah, forget him. He sounds like he wanted things his way or the highway. You'll find someone else.