Hey everyone.
I just recently broke up with my boyfriend of about a year and a half, and I'm not sure if I did the right thing. He was a big stoner, and he always made me pay for the things that he needed to support his habits, he had a bad temper and he always called me names. But when he was sweet, he was the sweetest thing ever. I don't know if it was worth it to dump him.
When I did dump him, he flipped out like he always did and told me he was going to kill himself. Now he has done this before, and that is one of the reasons why I couldn't dump him because I was scared he would actually do it.
I guess he was my first love, any suggestions on how to get over it would be nice.
2006-11-07 08:40:59 · 8 answers · asked by beautifully--unstable 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
awwww.gurl..i wish there was like a pill that can make you forget about an ex-boyfriend...u did the right thing though..and u were strong for that..if u would have still stayed with him his temper was just going to keep on getting worse..and thats something about guys that u cant make them stop smoki..yeah he did make u happy,but how many times were u not?a lot i bet..a relationship does have its ups, and downs but there is a limit also..gurl i bet there are a lot more cutiez waiting for u...
2006-11-07 08:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by Lovely Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank your lucky stars that you saw the light, even though it took you a long time to do so. Don't ever put up with someone on drugs. You are just asking for trouble. Also, don't ever put up with someone with a bad temper who calls you names. Don't you deserve better than that. No one who really cared for you would do that.
2006-11-07 08:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by rec 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The operative be conscious is boyfriend. this could nicely be a boy who hasn't matured right into a guy. genuine adult men do no longer verbally abuse ladies. some stay as boys all their existence. Do your self a desire early in existence and are available across a real guy. they're available.
2016-10-15 12:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by gennusa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look really your man has problems....if he wants to go and kill himself because you are going to leave him should not be your problem....i mean i understand that you 2 been together for over a year but still come now...thats like sooo pathetic dont you think? "I AM GOING TO KILL MYSELF" how dumb is that.....i really dont think that you should have payed for all the things he wants for his pot head habbit you know....it should be that he should buy and pay for your things you know.....i say you just let him go and have some one else deal with him.....you deaserve better than that.....all of us females do.
2006-11-07 08:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u not first or last
2006-11-07 08:43:51 · answer #5 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your money and wait till you get with someone that loves you more than his habit
2006-11-07 08:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by cwb63ss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too much drama!!...move on..the 1st love always sucks to get over
it all gets better with time..so RUN
2006-11-07 08:44:40 · answer #7 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time will help you out...Remember we cant live in fear of what Might happen or might not..
2006-11-07 08:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋