y'day my mom came to me and said forget that muslim girl..b'caz there will be a lot of difficulities and she started crying. I lov her so much..bt i lov my beloved also and cant liv without her. i know my lov is not a lie so i want that we should marry...but i cant see tears in my mom's eye...What should i do?
2006-11-07 08:34:39 · 5 answers · asked by mukuljack 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just do her. Don't tie the knot.
2006-11-07 08:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help your mother to understand how you feel.
If you left ur girl just cuz mom wants you to, do u think u'll be happy with anyone else? Sure you'll make your mom happy but your risking your happiness.
We cant have everything we want in life and sometimes we have to give up one to have the other. That's just how life goes. The question you need to ask yourself now is do you think you'd be better off making your mother happy or making yourself happy and marrying the one you love?
2006-11-07 17:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by Aisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man... I am a Muslim and I don't understand the difficulties your mum mentioned...
I think your mum doesn't know about Muslims. You let your mum know your girlfriend better and try to tell her that everybody have the freedom of religion and it is not use of crying. We all believe in one GOD.. The two religion orders to be good , help people, pray god... You named it GOD we named it ALLAH but he is the same one don't worry
2006-11-07 16:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by volkanpirincci 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just listen to your mom, Yeah its going to be hard for you, Unless you are 100% ready to be with her. If her parents are involved, they will never let you be with her unless you become Muslim to. Marriage is not valid until you change your religion also from your heart. So think about it and decide from your heart.
2006-11-07 16:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by ALMAS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her, stay with her BUT dont let your mom stay upset. Sit down and have a longg talk with your mom about it. Convince her. SHow her how good of a girl she is. Good Luck
2006-11-07 16:41:39 · answer #5 · answered by Truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋