Family & Relationships - 5 November 2006

2006-11-05 13:57:03 · 10 answers · asked by Julie 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been feeling a bit alienated lately...looking for someone who can pehaps relate to what I'm going through. Feeling a bit flat most of the time...unhappy with my lot in life. I'm told it's a midlife crisis...very common I believe, but perhaps no one's talking about it because I can't find anyone else who (even remotely) understands how I feel. The marriage is not good and I find myself feeling pretty worthless about everything I'm involved with. Spend most of my free time porn-surfing the web, trying to seek out some form of pleasure. Contemplated throwing the marriage (of 25 years) in; and use my 'frequent fliers' to head over to Bangkok for one of these middle-aged sex romps. Feeling like I'm not achieving in my career. My wife is a religious zealot, which adds to the mix. I've go a household full of teenagers (1 boy, 2 girls)...and have no life to speak of (at least not of my own). Long bouts of depression; and a desire to reclaim some of my lost youth. Is anyone out there??!

2006-11-05 13:56:26 · 5 answers · asked by r-u-t-1-i-need-2-talk-2 1 in Singles & Dating

People say im arrogant, i think I'm just confident in myself and things people say don't effect me. What is the line between arrogance and confidence, and how do I change people's view of me?

2006-11-05 13:55:41 · 17 answers · asked by Mike89 2 in Friends

I am a newlywed and I always thought that my husbands mother and myself had a very good relationship.Before I met my husband, I had a personals account that I hadnt been on in over a year and is automatically taken out of my credit card,which I obviously did not pay attention to or I would have cancelled it.I live in an extremely small town so everyone knows everyone.Well, last week, my n-law called my husband and told him that there was a man in a nearby town that was thinking about asking me out because he had been talking to me via the internet on my personals account. This man, didnt know my name, but new what my career was and in what city I lived in and how many kids I had...this is all of the evidence that she had of this...now here is the funny part. we were in such a serious relationship via the internet..but he didnt know my name! I explained all of this to my hubby that it is easy to find out anything in small towns. Now his mother thinks im a cheater.

2006-11-05 13:55:38 · 20 answers · asked by Shana H 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to get a divorce from my current husband who is incarcerated doing a 10 yr sentence. He has7 more years before his release date. We were married 4 months after he was sentenced. We were married by proxy.How do I go about getting a divorce, without the high prices of attorney fees.If he doesnt contest the divorce, will it be a fairly simple one? We have no children together, and no personal property to dispute.

2006-11-05 13:55:14 · 4 answers · asked by Jessie1971 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-05 13:55:00 · 6 answers · asked by alpinegirl77 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i was wondering since my parents are divoreced and i have a step dad but will there be any long-term effects.like i live with my mom but i see my dad often..will there be any effects relating to relationships,insecurity or any of that without a dad being around all the time?

2006-11-05 13:54:33 · 8 answers · asked by beachcrunkxxx 1 in Family

especially when your getting your grove on.

2006-11-05 13:53:36 · 8 answers · asked by Kitty Cat 4 in Singles & Dating

You have ever done for your partner ?

2006-11-05 13:52:39 · 2 answers · asked by Geedebb 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

In my heart I know I want to have a big diamond (not less than 1,5 carrats) engagement ring.
I do not want to pretend to be modest (like most girls) and ecxept whatever I get ........ for the rest of my life....
I want that rock!!! And I know he has the means to get it easily (he is not a regular Joe).
Should I tell him straight about it?

2006-11-05 13:52:24 · 27 answers · asked by tanyasiv 4 in Singles & Dating

When I was four or five, my father used to stand me up in the tub and wash only my genitals. He told me that girls especially had to wash down there. Another time when he was changing his clothes, he asked me if I wanted to touch him in his private place, just to see what it was like. At first I agreed because I was curious, but as he guided my hand, I became reluctant and he became insistent. I also vaguely recall him pushing a rectal thermometer into my vagina so deeply that it was painful. However, he never raped me and these things happened when I was very young.

2006-11-05 13:51:10 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Today is his day off he works 4 days a week, 3 off . Its now 8:46 pm and he's been watching movies since 10:am. He does this everyday off. he's either watching movies all day, or on the internet all day and doesnt like any disturbance.He doesnt go anywhere with me and the baby. He doesnt do anything around the house on his days off, just sit there and ask me to cook for him twice a day. He gets so mad if me and the baby goes in the living room playing or making any noice. I get ignored all day everyday and i do everything alone. The only way he interacts with me is sometimes he'll come where im at and grab my boobs, or my butt......but no conversation, no nothing.All sexual...What could this be? Its been like this everysince we've had the baby. Shes almost a year old.

2006-11-05 13:51:04 · 12 answers · asked by Kristi A 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my dad is 43 and he has been "seeing" a girl that is about 30 yrs old and has 4 kids but the oldest is 18. I am 25 and for some reason he doesn't want to bring her to Christmas dinner at my house. So my question is why not? why doesn't he want me to meet her? also do you think it makes her "skanky" to have a son that old?

2006-11-05 13:50:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I say no !!! As there is not much in it as it is for a guy as it is....lol.

Its a way for a woman to immasculate her man.....

There's nothing more cheesy then names like:

Example: Mr. and Mrs. Hayworth-Kellerman

Just Stupid !

2006-11-05 13:50:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my wonderful girfriend have been datin for 6 months coming up next week.... i need some help on a date or something extra specail i can do for her... i make her dinner and take her out all tha time so i need somethin different from that .... and for her gift i was gonna get her jelwery... but her mom jus told me that she really dosent like much jelwery.... so how could i go about that one too... she is really laid bac and will love w.e. i do for her but i really wanna blow her away this time cause she has been so good to me and really diserves it. thanks for all ur help

2006-11-05 13:50:08 · 7 answers · asked by vinny 1 in Singles & Dating

you had been out 4 the night and your g/fs m8's b/f's m8 needed somewhere to stay so ya g/f invites him bak to yours. anyway you decide to go to bed and she says shes finishing her *** then will be in. you decide to get up 5 mins l8er see where shes got to. you open the door and hes got his trousers undun and she looks shocked. she says she wernt gonna do anything and said no would you belive her

2006-11-05 13:49:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .

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when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone

2006-11-05 13:48:39 · 5 answers · asked by lbsb2904 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 13:47:59 · 12 answers · asked by victoria 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-05 13:47:46 · 9 answers · asked by DNU 1 in Weddings

i know this girl form work and have been helping her to get things onto her computer. well she wants things but is vague about it so i tell her to come by and look on my computer for them. well shes set up 5 appointments and not shown up once and its always a different excuse. Today it was shes fighting with her ex and shes not feeling to social. so i call her and shes at her friends eating tacos (the food kind i hope). She gave me this crap about how she wants to be friends but after that i had it. i told her to lose my number.the question is why do I feel like crap for doing this?

2006-11-05 13:47:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband wants to get a divorce and we have a one year old together who I will never give up. We moved to a new place from VA to TX and I have no job, family lives overseas and do not know what to do now. Don't want to take my little girl away from her daddy but really have no future where I am at (moved less than a year ago) What is the best thing to do next ( legally and physically)

2006-11-05 13:47:43 · 4 answers · asked by Cherie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'd like to know:
1) How long have you been with your current partner?
2) How often do you have sex?
3) Would you say it's usually:
a) quickies
b) hot and heavy
c) making love
d) just sex

And no, I'm not a pervert, I just want to know if we're normal.

2006-11-05 13:47:38 · 7 answers · asked by Milana P 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a journalist *** a volunteer for social service. I do have to visit Kolkata -Delhi 4/5times every year for 2/3 days. I wish a friend for telephonic chat & if she agrees to do little shopping with me when ever I'm there. It could be wonderful to continue Chat friendship too.with best, Mansur, ogmansur at yahoo dot com

2006-11-05 13:46:59 · 1 answers · asked by ogmansur 2 in Friends

How do you show your girlfriend a great time...i wann express my love to her in a passionate way,not just dinner and a movie,more than that!! what can i do? Im 17,a senior in high school and my parents dont know about me,also i dont have a job or a car but a license!!! get at me

2006-11-05 13:46:45 · 11 answers · asked by Nikki D 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a gf and i really like her but i think im starting to really love her and i dont know how to tell her becaues i dont want to scar her a way and we only have been with each other for 2 months

2006-11-05 13:46:19 · 16 answers · asked by im that guy 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 15. Okay, Like I went to Disney World with my family two weeks ago, And I was having a lot of fun until my lil sister spotted Snow White and wanted to have her picture taken with her, And out of nowhere these big-headed mascots the Seven Dwarfs walked up to us, And my hands started to sweat...I felt my heart beat faster......I--I was getting scraed I cried real loud and totally embarrassed myself in front millions of people! my uncle looked at me wrong and told me that was ashamed of me! OMG! I felt horrible! I felt like cralwing to a hole! I don't know what to do!

2006-11-05 13:46:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-05 13:45:30 · 10 answers · asked by trainwreack99 1 in Singles & Dating

my little sister (14) told me that my friend who is suppose to be a preacher was on the computer showing her porn and telling her sex stories. should i talk to her myself or let my parents do it and should i confront him

2006-11-05 13:45:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My best friend Doris doesnt like my other friend Sami.Last yr(my freshmen year) Sami was really close 2 me then over the yr somethin happend & we drifted apart even thro that part Doris didnt like her.Well this year me & Sami r getting close again and Doris keeps causing drama over it. No i havent ditched Doris me & Sami just write notes talk on the phone & occasonialy hang out on the weekends.Well last friday during 7th hr Doris made a big scene yellin @ sami & of course sami yelled back.Doris got my out of class cryin sayin how sami said all this stuff about & just basically attacked her.Which ive heard from other ppl isnt true doris started it.She admitted to me she started it and the tears were fake 4 attention & that she hated me &sami gettin closer because she didnt like her i shouldnt either. Samis thinks ppl r gunna hate her & feel sorry 4 doris cuz of this.I dont wanna ruin my friendship w/doris but i cant take all drama shes causing.I feel bad 4 sam& mad @ doris!I

2006-11-05 13:45:09 · 2 answers · asked by Cassie 2 in Friends

wat are atleast six things i can put on my 2 sex dice?

2006-11-05 13:42:44 · 3 answers · asked by vinny 1 in Singles & Dating