My best friend Doris doesnt like my other friend Sami.Last yr(my freshmen year) Sami was really close 2 me then over the yr somethin happend & we drifted apart even thro that part Doris didnt like her.Well this year me & Sami r getting close again and Doris keeps causing drama over it. No i havent ditched Doris me & Sami just write notes talk on the phone & occasonialy hang out on the weekends.Well last friday during 7th hr Doris made a big scene yellin @ sami & of course sami yelled back.Doris got my out of class cryin sayin how sami said all this stuff about & just basically attacked her.Which ive heard from other ppl isnt true doris started it.She admitted to me she started it and the tears were fake 4 attention & that she hated me &sami gettin closer because she didnt like her i shouldnt either. Samis thinks ppl r gunna hate her & feel sorry 4 doris cuz of this.I dont wanna ruin my friendship w/doris but i cant take all drama shes causing.I feel bad 4 sam& mad @ doris!I
2006-11-05 13:45:09 · 2 answers · asked by Cassie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Make time for both of your friends. It appears Doris is jealous of Sami and is afraid of losing your friendship. She is probably a needy friend and prefers a one on one friendship. Some people can only maintain a good relationship with one person at a time. As for Sami maybe she misses your friendship. It can be hard to deal with this situation and you may have to choose before it is over with. Life is full of choices looks like you may soon be facing one of many. Good Luck!
2006-11-05 14:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by Sage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take a break to teel doris that youll still spend time with her equally with her like sami
2006-11-05 21:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by mochabrownie2010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋