Family & Relationships - 5 November 2006

2006-11-05 13:42:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in high school...
Well, I really like this guy that is a couple years older than me but we are both freshmen. I think he is a little shy but I am apparently very shy. I can't get up enough nerve to talk to him..And I really Really want to!! HOw do I get over this annoying shyness??I get nervous everytime I see him and am around him. I haven't been able to talk to him b/c of shyness.
Can someone give me some advise of how to get rid of shyness?
please---I really want to talk to this guy!!!

2006-11-05 13:41:59 · 9 answers · asked by .::country gurl in a 4X4::. 2 in Singles & Dating

one".We're planning our future together,marriage,kids,etc(we're in our mid 30's) We're both hardworking, responsible, intelligent professionals. We both have strong beliefs, morals, values&similar opinions on nearly everything.I know I'm uptight about some things. He told me recently he occassionally smokes pot (once every couple of months) I was upset/hurt/disappointd. He told me I need to lighten up&accept it as part of him. I don't know if its a dealbreaker or not.Ive never done any drugs& was brought up believing its wrong. I've been around drugs& had friends that used.It didn't bother me when, I was younger, but now that I HAVE a teenager I feel stronger about it. He'd tell my son &raise our kids not to do it,never let them know he did or have it around. He doesn't drink/drive, nor would he when smoking. Its just every now&then. I'm torn between the stigma of pot I was raised w/ (right or wrong),the fact it's only once in a great while& that maybe I need to loosen up. Suggestions?

2006-11-05 13:40:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend recently died, and i would really like you to pray for me and my friends and his family. dakota died in a car accident.....because they were driving really stupid and he wasnt wearing his seatbelt. plz let that be a sign for all of you who dont wear seatbelts. its a really stupid thing not to wear it. we all miss dakota very much. he will remain in our hearts forever. our whole school will probably be grieving tomorrow. please do us a favor and pray for us. it would help alot.

and bubba....if your reading this right now...no that we love you, and miss you soooooooooooo much. why do the good always die young? just wanted to say i love you. and miss you. and i.....kinda used to have a ... crush on you...i wish now i would have told you. it will be really weird not seeing you at school tomorrow...and know you wont be coming back. its like that saying "you dont know what you've got will its gone". we all miss you. there will NEVER NEVER EVER be another boy like you dakota! ily

2006-11-05 13:40:03 · 3 answers · asked by britt 1 in Family

My ex and i are not together, he told me that he didnt know what he wanted.. there is this girl that is 10 years younger that he might like and he needed to figure it out... so i told him to call me when he did figure it out.. well he keeps calling and telling me that he misses me, but hes still hanging out with her.. the way he talks is that he wants to get back together, but he actually hasnt said that yet. I dont want to get my hopes up, its only been a week. people are telling me to ignore his calls and totally avoid him. but i dont want to cuse i love him. Its hard to hear that he is hanging out with her. I dont know if this is his way of trying to figure out who he wants to be with or if he is just stringing me along. what should i do.

2006-11-05 13:37:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I saw my husband's ex that he cheated on me with, she was SO ugly. I'm not just saying that because he cheated with her. I mean other people have said it too. I know of other people this happened to as well. If a man has a good looking woman, why does he go to the trash for something else?

2006-11-05 13:37:38 · 36 answers · asked by Angel2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok this guy in my spanish class be forever talking to me and i saw him at the gym and hes like you and me one on one and he hugged me the first time he met me and he be giving me hi-fives i know its weird......you think im jumping to conclusions

2006-11-05 13:36:50 · 9 answers · asked by Tired_of _the_games 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-11-05 13:36:17 · 20 answers · asked by Unknown 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, he talks to me all the time about random things. Does he like me? He is gross!

2006-11-05 13:35:19 · 5 answers · asked by Meme 2 in Singles & Dating

It disgusts me to look at him. I love him to death.

He's funny, charming, sweet, manly, and kind to animals.

But he's physically repulsive. He's at least 56 pounds overweight, and when we're having sex his big rolls jiggle all over me and I want to vomit. His face is hideous and his feet are so big and hairy I want to scream.

But i love him. SHould I tell him about this bothering me?

2006-11-05 13:35:18 · 21 answers · asked by Zero 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 13:35:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a Junior in highschool, and there is this girl that is a freshman that I really like and have been talkin to on the phone with and stuff, but is it ok? Im a Junior and shes a freshman. I don't have any bad intentions with this girl, i really do truly like her and just want to go out with her. is it ok, for there to be such a difference??? also, another problem, is that one of her, no wait, it is, her BEST friend is crushin on me i know it, the girl i like knows it and my friends know it. wut would happen if I went out with the girl i like and her best friend wants to go out with me, but i don't want to go out with her.

2006-11-05 13:34:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When these "titles" are used to refer to a girlfriend,boyfriend, or spouse...

I personally do not care for it, but I hear it quite a bit.

2006-11-05 13:34:36 · 18 answers · asked by rottymom02 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i think about it constantly. when i meet a girl i wonder how she would be in the sack if she is moderately attractive. i also aim to please. im not satisfied unless my partner has 2 orgasms and i wont stop untill i achieve that goal...... am i addicted to sex?

2006-11-05 13:34:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 13:34:13 · 6 answers · asked by jaimestar64cross 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i need alot of ways so take yout time,but try to name alot of ways.

2006-11-05 13:33:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was dating this guy who just came out of a serious relationship. But his ex was horrible to him, telling people she didn't really like him and controlling his every move. He was very happy to get out of it. While we were dating we were very close. But i did not feel the same way about him that he felt about me. So i ended it but we stayed very close friends. Then I saw him with his ex acting very friendly. I asked him about it and he denied it. All his friends and everyone agrees with me when I say they are dating again. But whenever I ask him he denies it. He recently told me they hooked up and now are just friends. And now he has been acting like we are dating again. I dont know what to do. I thought it was clear we were just friends. I dont want him to get back together with his ex because she is a horrible person but i dont want to be with him either.

2006-11-05 13:32:11 · 9 answers · asked by s_fhockey 1 in Friends

how can you get a guy to like you when he doesn't? my friend has a crush on this other girl, but i like him. what do i do?!?!?!?!?

2006-11-05 13:31:53 · 7 answers · asked by trey cool moi 1 in Singles & Dating

At checkers? Sorry I couldn't fit all of that on the question line. The large apes continue beating my niece at checkers, and she is getting really down on herself. I think they may be cheating when she looks away. Any tips?

2006-11-05 13:31:41 · 3 answers · asked by trans fat is good! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-05 13:31:18 · 18 answers · asked by akers_022 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, i like this guy at skool, he's really kool... we've gone out already though... and he doesn't want to go back out, because, he doesn't like me???! how do i get him???????!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-05 13:30:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 13:30:13 · 20 answers · asked by akers_022 1 in Singles & Dating

He's 24 she's 40 is that ok?

2006-11-05 13:29:20 · 7 answers · asked by Zero 1 in Singles & Dating

looking for anything serious? I am not looking for a guy to just date or have a casual sexual relationship with. I am looking for a man who has marriage as his relatioship goal but I know I can't just come out and say that or even mention it in my ad. I don't want to waste time on any guy who isn't looking for the same thing. I am over 40 and am ready for a committed relationship, not some perpetual causual relationship.

2006-11-05 13:29:05 · 3 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

Okay, first let me say I am an extremely shy girl. I never been on a date, I never had a boyfriend, I never even kissed a guy. Yes I have had crushes, but I have been too busy with my life to have any relationships.

However, I met this guy. this really sweet and kind guy that I can't seem to get over. Everytime he walks in the room I get really nervous. I try to the "flirty" things, like eye contact and I have talked to him a few times but I am just too nervous to hold my gaze or keep the convo going.

Another problem I have is, I honestly don't know how he feels about me. Yes he stopped be to talk before, he walked me out couple times, he sit next to be at times. But recently, I haven't seen him around and so I now feel a little distant. I want to go up to and talk to him again but I am too damn scared. More than anything, I really just want to go up to him and kiss him. Do you think he would be disgusted if I did that?

What can I do to grab his attention? And to get over my fear? Thank you!

2006-11-05 13:29:05 · 10 answers · asked by Maggie Jean 1 in Singles & Dating

I know for sure of it.
He knows that I know as well...
My friend (she) doesn't have a clue. What should I do?
Should i tell her (about this ******* that she is in love with) and break her heart? Or should I keep my mouth shut?
It is driving me insane!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What would you do?

2006-11-05 13:29:00 · 32 answers · asked by tanyasiv 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-05 13:28:06 · 14 answers · asked by julie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 13:27:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

OK, this is my deal. I'm 27, single mom, and confident (in most cases), have a good job, ect. But I find it hard to have females as friends. I have plenty of male friends and that's who I hang around, but sometimes I would like girl time. You know shopping, lunch, male strippers, that type of thing. But I have a trust issue when it comes to women. My daughter's father ended up marrying a friend of mine and since then, I trust women about as far as I can throw them. How can I over come this trust factor.

2006-11-05 13:27:05 · 8 answers · asked by vernise2679 4 in Friends

Last night at homecoming, this guy who I've been crushn' on for the longest time slow danced with one of my friends and I dunno, it may sounds totally immature and stupid but I REALLY liked him and I didn't get to dance with him the whole night and it was the last song. So can somone give me a song to perfectly describe my feelings and my situation?

2006-11-05 13:26:43 · 10 answers · asked by Hello,It'sMe 3 in Singles & Dating