My boyfriend is fat and ugly....?

Question

It disgusts me to look at him. I love him to death.

He's funny, charming, sweet, manly, and kind to animals.

But he's physically repulsive. He's at least 56 pounds overweight, and when we're having sex his big rolls jiggle all over me and I want to vomit. His face is hideous and his feet are so big and hairy I want to scream.

But i love him. SHould I tell him about this bothering me?

Alright when we first went out it was a dare. I was at a bar with friends, and my friend was like "LOL look at that ugly mess over there. Five bucks says you won't kiss him." so I went over and kissed him and claimed my money.

Then he got all clingy and wanted to talk. So we did, and it was a dimly lit bar so I couldn't see how ugly he was. I was amazed by his personality.

Flash forward 2 years later, we're together and I love him to bits, but whenever I look at him I either squint or try to look at objects behind him so I don't have to focus on his face.

This hurts me.

Answer 1

Yes

Answer 2

Don"t You Stop That Hell Hi Is A Moron It's Clear Hi Don't Like You Hi Just Use You Fore His Work That's Not Mean BF/GF You Should Shut Up That Junk & Show Him You Are A Human & He Don't Have Right To Rack You You Shold Show him Your Power & Bravness

Answer 3

OM-Gosh.. That is too bad..My first thought is that when he looks at you while making love.. it must be hard to hide the look of disgust.. I wounder if he knows already.. Its hard to hide a facial expression of disgust..

Yes you should tell him..you gotta be open and honest.. but when you do you gotta be gentle.. this is a serious sensitive subject.. He may be quick with the defensive wall.. People don't need to be reminded that their overweight trust me he already knows.. He may put on the 'Happy happy joy joy' face but inside he's not a happy camper about this issue.

So let him know in fuzzy bunny delicate terms k

Good Luck

Answer 4

I think this question should be asked by HIM, not you. Like, why the hell should a great guy like him, be with someone as awful as you? He definately deserve someone better, so I think you should let him go because he deserve someone better than you. He may not look perfect outwardly, but being an ugly person inside like you is like a living cancer everyday. And hey, if everyone had the choice of how they want to look like, there will be no ugly people around earth. GROW UP!

Answer 5

i think your disgusting . im a woman myself and can you imagine if your bf said that you pysically repulsed him, you would be hurt and so will he. your bf has emotions and i dont think you saying that will give him any self esteem. and im sorry but just cos you say hes ugly to another woman he is gorgeous. women like you disgust me they have a great loving man and alls they do is complain. your bf is honestly too good for you, hes got a heart of gold and he deserves a woman whos actually got a heart not a witch whos made of stone. i can only imagine your certainly not perfect and thats why you have to put your bf down. ill tell you somthing now i can bet if you two broke up , youll be shocked to see a caring woman who will snatch him up, but you on the otherhand wil be left on the shelf because no man wants a nagging witch whos constantly tries to change him. i hope you look at what you have wrote and feel ashamed of yourself.

Answer 6

You should first search your heart, and ask yourself these questions !
1. What would you say if you were the one, fat and ugly. And 2. How would you feel if he said this about you! Then ether except him as he is, or let him go!!!!!! Good Luck!

Answer 7

You are so wrong!! don't tell him any thing just break up with him and let him find some one who wont post such nasty rude comments about him on the Internet.
If you didn't like the way he looks why have you been with him for 2 years.
SHAME ON YOU !!

Answer 8

You must be pretty good at hiding how you feel about his looks
if he's not picking up on it himself.

Makes me wonder about all those girls who back before Bill Gates was BILL GATES BILLIONAIRE said Get away from me you nerdy little geek!

Answer 9

What kind of a dumbass are you for dating him in the first place? If he didn't turn you on and yet you still dated him, you only have yourself to blame.

Answer 10

no, aren't you a heartless little *****! my goodness you'll just tear him to peices if you tell him that. Maybe you should suggest to him to go to the gym with you or ask him to help you with your diet by motivating you, which means he would have to do the same thing.