Okay, first let me say I am an extremely shy girl. I never been on a date, I never had a boyfriend, I never even kissed a guy. Yes I have had crushes, but I have been too busy with my life to have any relationships.
However, I met this guy. this really sweet and kind guy that I can't seem to get over. Everytime he walks in the room I get really nervous. I try to the "flirty" things, like eye contact and I have talked to him a few times but I am just too nervous to hold my gaze or keep the convo going.
Another problem I have is, I honestly don't know how he feels about me. Yes he stopped be to talk before, he walked me out couple times, he sit next to be at times. But recently, I haven't seen him around and so I now feel a little distant. I want to go up to and talk to him again but I am too damn scared. More than anything, I really just want to go up to him and kiss him. Do you think he would be disgusted if I did that?
What can I do to grab his attention? And to get over my fear? Thank you!
2006-11-05 13:29:05 · 10 answers · asked by Maggie Jean 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just smile at him and he'll figure it out.
2006-11-05 13:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are in love or either you have HUGE crush that you feel that perhaps you are not good enough for this guy... it is normal for everyone to feel this way but maybe he feels this way too. You could start saying hello each time you see him and ask how he's doing... just having a simple conversation about anything can get you somewhere. The key is finding out what is his interests and trying to find a common ground which could give him hint that you do like him, and then gradually give him more hints as you go along the flow.
But first you must feel confident and hide that shyness of yours and realize he might be shy too.
2006-11-05 22:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jess3e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a low cut V shape blouse and low cut jeans or trouser..let him visualize your organs especially breast makes more attraction.be natural don't apply any make up.Just do only eye brow and use little eye liner.Rub your tongue on your lips until it gets smoother.he will stop by you very next to you and looks towards you often as where and how to start with you.He himself will shyness.
2006-11-05 21:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by precede2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm shy too, but I would suggest wearing something that would grab any guys attention like something showy and being flirtatious and playful around him.
2006-11-05 21:33:04 · answer #4 · answered by urashortie103092 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get aguy to notice you, you have to be yourself, confidence is the best thing. If your confident, he will notice. put on that little bit of extra lipgloss, ogo the extra step, and be confident!
2006-11-05 21:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by brunoottaviano 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have him at "hello" - it's that simple. All a guy needs is a tiny signal and he will take it from there.
2006-11-05 21:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by extraordinareality 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to overcome your fear and start talking to him to know if he really likes you or not.
Be strong.
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2006-11-05 21:33:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i have no advice cuz i am like u a shy guy so just try to talk wit him and relax thats wat i try i hope wateva happens it ios good for u
2006-11-05 21:32:49 · answer #8 · answered by joe v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go upto him and talk to him, complement him, and then ask him out
2006-11-05 21:47:50 · answer #9 · answered by Arad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be your self
2006-11-05 21:30:27 · answer #10 · answered by Blackdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋