I was dating this guy who just came out of a serious relationship. But his ex was horrible to him, telling people she didn't really like him and controlling his every move. He was very happy to get out of it. While we were dating we were very close. But i did not feel the same way about him that he felt about me. So i ended it but we stayed very close friends. Then I saw him with his ex acting very friendly. I asked him about it and he denied it. All his friends and everyone agrees with me when I say they are dating again. But whenever I ask him he denies it. He recently told me they hooked up and now are just friends. And now he has been acting like we are dating again. I dont know what to do. I thought it was clear we were just friends. I dont want him to get back together with his ex because she is a horrible person but i dont want to be with him either.
2006-11-05 13:32:11 · 9 answers · asked by s_fhockey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To each, their own.
2006-11-05 13:34:48 · answer #1 · answered by twincerelymel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it now, you deserve to be happy and not to worry about something that is out of your control!
Maybe he told you lies so he could be seen as the victim and you'd feel sorry for the little man!!! Maybe she has some kind of strange hold on him.
If you are still friends, tell him you are just friends and that's all, be honest and try to help him get rid of physco girl!!! Never show any kind of a sign that you want to be his girl, let him know about this other guy you like, make sure that you are honest with him.
If you think it may be too much work, drop it and move on and find the man that you like all the way around!!!!
2006-11-05 21:48:49 · answer #2 · answered by whatsupwithhim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's playing both of you girls. Don't date him again. He will end up doing what he wants to do anyway. You can't controll your friends. If you dated him, he already knows how you feel about his EX anyway.
Save yourself and let him go.....if he dates his Ex, he'll have to live with the consequinces.
Don't get caught up in his drama. That's what he wants!
2006-11-05 22:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by together420yrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its not ur problem anymore who he wants to be with - he is old enough to know where he can find happiness - anyway u dont know the girl personally so its means u really dont know if she is really a horrible person or that guy u were dating was just misjudging and saying bad words against her so he can get ur sympathy and attention.
i think he just want to have fun with both of u - just stay happy and have fun dating others
2006-11-05 21:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by radha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He went back to his ex, because you dumped him. Then, when you confronted his friendliness with his ex, he thought you really cared about him so he came back to you. It's that simple. You are giving him mixed signals.
2006-11-05 21:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good friend is always good and honest. If he chooses to date someone you don't feel good about it is still his choice and a good friend will support a good friend. I think you should let him know exactly how you feel get his response and you will both know what to expect.
2006-11-05 21:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by BetsyF 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him make his own decision. If he didnt learn from you the last time he wont listen now. Soundslike he likes people controlling him. you have already moved on. let him be
2006-11-05 21:51:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him and tell him the truth may hurt now but better in long run
2006-11-05 21:35:23 · answer #8 · answered by Tazz Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you do
2006-11-05 21:34:39 · answer #9 · answered by Blackdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋