i have a gf and i really like her but i think im starting to really love her and i dont know how to tell her becaues i dont want to scar her a way and we only have been with each other for 2 months
2006-11-05 13:46:19 · 16 answers · asked by im that guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know, I really just don't get modern societies fear of the words "I love you". I mean, yes love is sacred and should be preserved for few people, but it shouldn't scare people away. I recently told someone that I love her, we've never been on a date or anything and we're still great friends. And thats one reason that I do love her, she's non-conforming and isn't afraid of little things like that. But anywho, I think you should tell her.
2006-11-05 13:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by Sam-Wise 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she feels the same way, My husband wrote me a poem. Do the two of you have a "song". say you need to tell her something real important , play the song when you tell her. or send her some flowers with a little note that suggest love. like " Just Wanted To Show You How I Felt" If you know her well then you'll know what she likes, use your imagination. Good Luck!!!
2006-11-05 22:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her and if u dont wnat to do that give her a gift w/ a card that says i love u. 2 months is a long anough time i bet u she feels the same way but is having the same problem u r but if u say it first i bet shell say it back if she really likes u
2006-11-05 21:55:23 · answer #3 · answered by kraus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love does not have a time on it. Plan a special evening and when the mood is right tell her how you feel. JUST DO IT!
Good Luck!
2006-11-05 21:51:18 · answer #4 · answered by Grown Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your actions will speak for you. Just go out, have a good time, be concerned and sincere. You don't have to say anything yet, until you are ready to make a permanent committment and by that time, she'll already know.
2006-11-05 21:50:19 · answer #5 · answered by dgm 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's probably wondering why you haven't said it already. If you're a chicken send her a note or a card with a pretty gift...maybe a shiny heart locket.
2006-11-05 21:54:18 · answer #6 · answered by DeborahDel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her when you two are alone. If you can't tell her in person yet, just wait awhile tell you are totally are comfortable with her. Start by just a casual conversation then her.
2006-11-05 21:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing about love is that it dont have a time. ask her about the way she feels about that kind of relationship. just hittin around to see how she feels
2006-11-05 21:49:54 · answer #8 · answered by lissa f 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Smoothly slip into your parting is such sweet sorrow ritual...Say I love you (her name) see you tomorrow.
I agree with an earlier comment, tell her via your actions.
2006-11-05 21:58:40 · answer #9 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her some candles - they are the new flowers. Tell her that your life is so much brighter and warmer with her in it :) She will LOVE that.
2006-11-05 21:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by extraordinareality 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋