Family & Relationships - 4 November 2006

my best guy friends name is austin i like him alot he seems like he likes me but im not sure he hugged me yesterday but thats normal for friends.RIGHT??. should i ask him in person or a note if so what do i say?????

2006-11-04 07:13:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

.....................................tELL ME!!

2006-11-04 07:13:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do i say to my friend whos older brother just comitted suicide? it feels really akward talking to her but i want to... HELP!

2006-11-04 07:12:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i want it to be kinda hott. but not desperate. he said he likes me.

2006-11-04 07:12:11 · 5 answers · asked by Still Doll << 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 07:11:04 · 29 answers · asked by samuel m 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this guy for about 3 months. He broke up with his girlfriend of 3 years right before moving here (we're at grad school). He says he loves me, but I can't get past the ex-factor. For some reason, I'm really intimidated by her because they dated for so long. Anyway, she sends him text messages all the time, and she calls him a lot, too. Over Fall Break, he went home, and told me he was going to see her for dinner (the first time since they broke up). I found a text on his phone from her that said she was at the airport trying to find his flight. He told me his brother picked him up from the airport. He says he's no longer in love with her and that he really loves me. In fact, he's always talking about our future, like what would happen if we got married. I know he still cares about his ex because she's a good friend. I probably shouldn't be suspicious, but I can't figure out why he wouldn't tell me she picked him up. Am I stupid to still love him? Help!

2006-11-04 07:10:13 · 8 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3 in Singles & Dating

It seems like the sexual activites are a routine after a while. Are there different ways to turn a guy (or girl) on?

2006-11-04 07:07:55 · 4 answers · asked by Angel in Practice 2 in Singles & Dating

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

Additional Details

34 minutes ago
and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

Additional Details

21 minutes ago
i should also add that she has been calling/texting him since the begginning of july . . . he tried to get her back for 2 months after she broke up with him. . . they broke up for no reason . .. she just told him she wanted to date around .. . . and she texted him on what would have been there two year anniversary and reminded him of it

2006-11-04 07:07:47 · 11 answers · asked by osb2904 1 in Singles & Dating

what does is mean if a guy says u looked nice tonight through txt. Is it just out of friendliness or what?

2006-11-04 07:07:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There this guy we use to have same homeroom for 9th &11th grade but we didn't talk to each other he was just a classmate. Until one day I was walking to my locker I needed to get some books out for class until he told to wait not to close the locker. We don't share lockers so I just looked at him. At first it looked like he forgot wat he was going to ask me he stutters. I asked "Wat do u want?" He said "Um can i burrow ur history book" I say "I don't have a history class" so he was just standin there and i say "how is it that u know my name?" he said "cus um u popular"

Ever since i seen him by my locker more often and i notice that i have him for a class.

What do u think?
What should I do?
Does this situation mean anything?
Just tell me ur opinion please

2006-11-04 07:06:49 · 8 answers · asked by ♥yessy♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

im really trying so hard at the minute to cope with everything thats going on in my life. i have moved to a new place ready to start uni, split with my partner, and me and my lil girl are still hurting so much. some of you probably know this from my previous questions, but at moment its really getting to me i think it does more at wkend anyway only good thing is i get to spend more time with the lil one who is so grown up for her age and we are so very close. which is part of the reason i am tormenting myself, but really bad, i feel like i have no escape sometimes and so alone but ive made friends up here even two lads that absolutly adore me and want to take me out all the time and ive had the opportunity and i just cant get my head round nothing at mo. i gotta admit kissed both blokes wen been pissed but was with my x last week wen i went home and he messed my head up again. you know wot though i dont wana feel like this. im such a nice person to eveyone. wot do i do do ?. help.x

2006-11-04 07:06:41 · 15 answers · asked by angelalways 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 07:06:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you are sad what do you want a guy to do for you?? Hold you or let you be?? Also: how far would you say is too far?? Would you mind if a guy came up behind you and picked you up?? Thanx!!

2006-11-04 07:05:34 · 9 answers · asked by Sakura 1 in Singles & Dating

on msn,i put a heart in my screenname. actuallyi have a crush,and thats why the heart was there.
as i signed in,this girl who was in my class last year,and is this year,too IMed me asking if I like someone. i said no. and she kept bugging me,and she made me give her a hint,so i gave her the first letter of my my crushes name. i cant believe that the first name she guessed was right-but i said no. i told her that i would email her the name in a couple of hours,because i had to go eat,and some other stuff.
she said that if I didnt tell her,she would make my life a living hell,and she will tell everyone that i love a guy(i dunno who she is gonna say). i havent emailed her anything yet.
im really shy,and i dont want rumours,especially since everyone in my school goes "ooooooohhhhh.....so-and-so is going out with soso" and they make a big deal out of everything.
she wont freakin leave me alone!!
she isnt really a friend,just a friendly classmate,but she told me we were really good friends

2006-11-04 07:03:07 · 13 answers · asked by vball.gal 3 in Friends

A girl who is super skinny, skinny, thin, medium, chubby, or fat? And do guys prefer big chested or small?

2006-11-04 07:03:06 · 15 answers · asked by Rawr! 1 in Singles & Dating

Well there is this guy that I have known scince 7th grade and I have liked him scince then. Latley he seems to notice me more. We are already close friends but I don't know. So my friend decided to ask him about it and he said to her that he had been thinking about it alot latley and he didnt know what he was going to do. So on monday she is hopefully going to ask him about it because she said she was going to check up on him in a couple of days. i just wanted to know whay you all thought on this whole situation.

2006-11-04 07:02:49 · 2 answers · asked by MaculaMaster 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Something really memorable...all ideas are appreciated! Thanks!

2006-11-04 07:02:03 · 20 answers · asked by Luvitall 3 in Marriage & Divorce

21 and in college...I have been secretly smoking for six months because I do not have the nerve to come right out and light one up in front of my friends...How do I do this...they would never suspect me smoking or believe I would...how to break the ice?

2006-11-04 07:00:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

An old friend of mine has been throwing her life away! She's 13 and has had sex,had pot,cuts herself for no reason(no,really,NO reason!)and she has decided that she's bi,but that's not what bothers me'the fact that she "touches" my other friend for her own enjoyment is abit over bourd.She won't listen to me,EVER.I'm tired of it,but I dont wanna watch her get her self killed one day! PLZ!! What do I DO!!???

2006-11-04 07:00:29 · 13 answers · asked by Brittany H 1 in Friends

I just met back up with this guy I like that I hadn't spoken to in five years and I'm obsessing over whether he likes me. Well we got together last night and ended up kissing for two hours. I had to leave just before we would have had sex and he seemed disappointed but was understanding that I had to go. Before I left we made plans to get together next week. He even said he would break plans he already had with his friends so he could spend Wednesday night with me. Does it sound like he likes me? Or is he just after sex?

2006-11-04 07:00:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i just moved to London, and after 5 weeks i still have no friends! this sucks.... please help!!

2006-11-04 07:00:13 · 1 answers · asked by Siri 4 in Friends

if she says : what's your best personality trait and worst one ? :D

2006-11-04 06:58:27 · 16 answers · asked by legend_of_falls 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This one is kinda tricky -- (1) We have both been married before -so the announcement can not start off with "The parents of DinaJ would like to announce...blablah" I mean I'm 26 and he's 35 so our parents arent announcing anything, we are. lol.
(2) Most engagement anncments end with what date the couple plans on getting married - well... we havent set a date - we're in no hurry to get married- we've joked about getting married in 2010. I mean it doesnt sound really romantic to put in the newspaper "They havent yet set a date".
Can anyone think of a way to word the announcement??Help Please!!!

2006-11-04 06:57:41 · 6 answers · asked by DinaJ 2 in Weddings

My husband says that he will always be unhappy in this marriage because I did not turn out to be the wife he thought I would be.He told his brother that he wants to be with a certain other woman because she can give him the financial stability he needs

2006-11-04 06:56:50 · 46 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I need help! ok well there is this one guy Sebastian hes a year older then me & Ive liked him for a while hes a football basketball and track hottie the star of all 3 hes got a beautiful smile and when i look at him&he smiles at me I just mealt We also talk on the phone constantly but,he is also talking to another girl at the same time as me and he says he likes to make me mad but when he does he appoligizes and trys 2 make me laugh afterwards also my mom doesnt really like him because he is black and she thinks they are all trouble which she doesnt know him so w/eOk this other guy Kirk goes to my church is exactaly a year younger and is a dork.But I like it.he plays basketball&football but hardly ever playsHe did before he moved up to serior high but w/e that really doesnt matter.but he doesnt know I like him and is constantly flirts with other girls.me&his friend has talked n he thinks he like me but i dont know.my mom likes him who should I pic?

2006-11-04 06:56:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm just asking hein....

2006-11-04 06:56:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A week or two ago I posted on here a question - read it before you lecture me about what I have to lose or what a jerk I am....
I am 33 married to my wife for 7 years, been with her for 11. She is the only woman I have ever had. The urge to be with another woman - for sex alone not a relationship - is becoming so bad I am practically in physical pain over it and cannot keep my mind off of doing some other woman - ANY other woman. This is clearly becoming a problem and I have begun seeing a therapist about it.
Well - now I have told my wife that I am going to a therapist and why - I had no choice first she wouldn't stop badgering me about where I was going when I had the appointments and then when I told her I was seeing a therapist for a problem she wouldn't stop badgering me about that. So, I told her. Now she is completely withdrawn and says she can't trust me at all and freaks if I so much as make a phone call and write an email she thinks I am "on the prowl".

2006-11-04 06:55:51 · 20 answers · asked by fucose_man 5 in Marriage & Divorce

It's not very healthy is it? My life is crap. I have no job. I have few freinds. The church I am trying to be involved in is making it really hard for me to join a small group. Tonight I'm meant to be at a party but I couldn't be bothered going as I won't know anyone and no one will speak to me. And my boyfriend was awful to me and left me with an abortion. I want to love a guy, but they've only ever used me. When I get tired of this I'll go to bed and wake up tomorrow and life will remain predictably empty.

2006-11-04 06:55:51 · 15 answers · asked by Josephine 1 in Friends

What is your image of your girlfriend now? How did you react? How do you cope with it?

2006-11-04 06:55:11 · 2 answers · asked by W294 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has found out that I have been having an emotional affair with someone. We have been having problems for awhile now but he never seemed to get it. He doesn't seem to see what is wrong. I have tried to explain to him but he doesn't get it. Now he is going to base the problems on my affair which is a bunch of bull.
I use to talk to the guy about my problems and he use to try and help me out. My husband says I can't have any contact with this guy anymore. I told my husband I honestly think we need a break from each other to sort out what it is we both want. Now that I have said that he is giving me the cold shoulder (which he promised he wouldn't do) Now he is making me feel guilty. I am not going to go back to him just because of that cause I know we will eventually end up right back where we are today. I still love my husband but I am not sure if I want to be with him anymore, but I would like to figure that out. He ? me everyday & that is not going to help.

2006-11-04 06:54:17 · 6 answers · asked by Lady Dee 3 in Marriage & Divorce