omfg.....what do i do? she wont leave me alone!!! :(?

Question

on msn,i put a heart in my screenname. actuallyi have a crush,and thats why the heart was there.
as i signed in,this girl who was in my class last year,and is this year,too IMed me asking if I like someone. i said no. and she kept bugging me,and she made me give her a hint,so i gave her the first letter of my my crushes name. i cant believe that the first name she guessed was right-but i said no. i told her that i would email her the name in a couple of hours,because i had to go eat,and some other stuff.
she said that if I didnt tell her,she would make my life a living hell,and she will tell everyone that i love a guy(i dunno who she is gonna say). i havent emailed her anything yet.
im really shy,and i dont want rumours,especially since everyone in my school goes "ooooooohhhhh.....so-and-so is going out with soso" and they make a big deal out of everything.
she wont freakin leave me alone!!
she isnt really a friend,just a friendly classmate,but she told me we were really good friends

HELP!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

ahhh yes the wonderful years of jr.high .... well u dont do anything.. yes thats right i said nothing... b cool abt it. if does just say yea i have a crush on someone but its not him.....then lookat her really closely and say y are u soo interested in my life..is it becuse urs suck??now u do this if she says it in front of u.. if not just b kool.if u get mad or sumthing they will love it and u willl make a fool of ur self. but if u act as if u dont care her plan has backfired and u might get the guy u like to lik u back.

Answer 2

I'm sorry this idiot is buggin' you.

First of all you can tell her that if you both are "really good friends", then she wouldn't be threatening to make your life "a living hell".

Secondly, have you asked her WHY it's so important that she knows who you have a crush on? Maybe it's a good idea to put the pressure on HER for a change. Act like a shrink...keep turning everything back to HER - Drive HER nuts!

I think I'd just try to play mind games with her and tell her that you changed your mind...you don't really have a crush at all. If she keeps asking, say, "Who do YOU have a crush on?"

Answer 3

Nobdody cares. Seriously. Tell the girl to kiss your butt it's none of her business. You can block her from writing you you know. And if she starts some rumors, whether they're true or not, don't worry about it. Learn the power of the words "that's none of your business". If people bug you about "liking" someone, look at them and say, "I don't care what you think. It's none of your business." That is an important step toward maturity. You can't waste your time worrying about what other people are going to say or think. Just make good decisions based on what's best for you at this point in your life and stand by them.

Answer 4

Talk to your parents and tell them she is threatening you. Have them call her parents and talk to them.
Get your stuff off the Internet and don't take any calls from her.
Ask your mom to screen them. If she persists calling, you can put in a police report for harassment.Once she has to face the police she will back off. She is a pushy overbearing person and needs to be stopped.
DO not be afraid to talk to you parents.
This should be a lesson about putting personal things on the Internet.....You don't know what kind of person will come out of the woodwork . Also you never truly know a person until they want something that you have..... Talk to mom now...

Answer 5

tell your mother that someone is harrassing you online. this is how people end up in trouble on the internet. let your parents deal with it with you. let them help you come up with a solution. this is harrassment and it is illegal. the girl obviously has problems.

or, tell her that what she is doing is harrassment. don't put her off by telling her you will tell her later. she will just get worse. tell her that if she is a friend she will not push you. be up front. tell her that you have the right to privacy and she is invading it and that if she doesn't stop you will remove her from your im list. don't just let her intimidate you. i know school can be hell with rumors etc but they only last a few days and then people move on to someone else (been there) but the practice of letting someone bully you can be something that stays with you for the rest of your life. (also been there)

Answer 6

Ha ha ha I even have da comparable subject different than I even have 2 wrk wiv da 30 year previous dat fancies me like im in basic terms sixteen! i attempted tellin him that and that i had a b/f and he nonetheless didnt get the factor even once I instructed him 2 piss of and leaf me on my own yet a minimum of hes given up phoning me approximately 6 cases on a saturday nighgt after ive carried out a shift with him LOL u think of youve have been given issues get a woman pal to come again around and faux shes ur g/f dat could get the pint accross

Answer 7

You don't have to tell her anything. Tell her you don't have a crush any more. Then report her to the principal for making threats to you over the internet. She's being a bully. She needs to get in trouble for it so she'll stop-it. You're probably not the only victim. Can you print out her threats?

Answer 8

Dear, you are obviously very young. This is how we learn from lifes lessons. You should not have played a game with her or said you would email her with the name. Now, it might be wise to tell her that you were kidding with her and that there is nobody you have a crush on.

Answer 9

That sucks. lol.
Basically, dont care and dont get defensive.
You can always deny it. Just say that she dosent know what she is talking about, because you never told her.
But don't be a b**** about it. Just let it go.
The only way she kan make your life a living hell is if you care about what she says.

Answer 10

That person has issues. She definetly is NOT your friend. What is she jealous also, whats it to her, she shouldn't start rumors. I would tell her to stop harassing and threatening you or you will take civil action. She is also disgracing you.