if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this
hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .
so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?
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and then she just sent this message to him today
"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"
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i should also add that she has been calling/texting him since the begginning of july . . . he tried to get her back for 2 months after she broke up with him. . . they broke up for no reason . .. she just told him she wanted to date around .. . . and she texted him on what would have been there two year anniversary and reminded him of it
2006-11-04 07:07:47 · 11 answers · asked by osb2904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is totaly confused!
she broke up with him and know she regrets it.
and she is so blinded by that regret that she can't see anything else like you.
She needs to get over him or else she will regret rejecting you
and her life will just be a big regret
I understand who much you are worried and that you need to spy on her...
If I were you I would tell her that I know she is still attached to the other guy and dump her cause you deserve better that to be rejected...
But I'm not you so good luck with making the right choice
2006-11-04 07:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by KT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might still value the friendship they had, and trys every once in a while to see if he is ready to be friends yet. It sounds like she is keeping it light and maybe just wondering how he is doing. Girls like to know they have not left bad feelings behind. I think it is a woman thing. Or she might be trying to stroke her own ego by chatting up an ex. If that is the reason, I do not think she even probably realizes it.
He should tell her he really does not want to communicate anymore. That should put an end to it. If that is what he wants.
2006-11-04 07:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by yowhatsup2day 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok seriously, what the hell are you still doing with this girl? Has You listed at least 3 good reasons to leave here alone. Are you seriously just gonna wait around until she dumps you? Do yourself a favor and let her go.
2006-11-04 07:14:24 · answer #3 · answered by Chris D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes most of the time us females do still love you but we don't know how to tell you and were just trying to make are selves believe that we are happy with the new person. Sometimes we just want to know how you feel about us.
2006-11-04 07:14:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sometimes girls just want to remain friends with exes. I'm in a relationship now, but I still call my ex, even though he never calls me. I just like to catch up, but I would never want to get back together with him.
2006-11-04 07:12:34 · answer #5 · answered by skichamonix515 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry to say but she still have feelings for him. Dump her. She'll make you suffer in the future.
2006-11-04 07:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by cb56br 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you what bitches are crazy and they don't know what they want. They just like **** with our heads and make us think things. Head games suck and girls are masters.
2006-11-04 07:13:42 · answer #7 · answered by Cursive 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like she wants the best of both worlds
she wants u, but she wants to keep him chasing after her
she sounds like bad news, and u sound like u know that its already over
2006-11-04 07:11:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her.
2006-11-04 07:12:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you lost me after relationship. cant help ya. all i can say is follow your heart.
2006-11-04 07:11:31 · answer #10 · answered by Blondie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋