I need help! ok well there is this one guy Sebastian hes a year older then me & Ive liked him for a while hes a football basketball and track hottie the star of all 3 hes got a beautiful smile and when i look at him&he smiles at me I just mealt We also talk on the phone constantly but,he is also talking to another girl at the same time as me and he says he likes to make me mad but when he does he appoligizes and trys 2 make me laugh afterwards also my mom doesnt really like him because he is black and she thinks they are all trouble which she doesnt know him so w/eOk this other guy Kirk goes to my church is exactaly a year younger and is a dork.But I like it.he plays basketball&football but hardly ever playsHe did before he moved up to serior high but w/e that really doesnt matter.but he doesnt know I like him and is constantly flirts with other girls.me&his friend has talked n he thinks he like me but i dont know.my mom likes him who should I pic?
2006-11-04 06:56:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like your mom is picking them based on the color of their skin.
So far neither one has picked you. Pick the one you like.
If you're not sure, tell both of them you like them and want to spend more time with them. See what happens. Try out one date each and see how you feel. You don't have to be exclusive on this first date, because you know that first dates don't always work out. Don't get too physical, because then you'll get a bad reputation.
Once you start dating, Sebaastian should stop talking to other girls on the phone. If he continues, he's just a player and you should pick someone else. SAme thing does for this other kid you like. Remember, guys will flirt a lot just so they can get someone.
2006-11-04 07:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 09:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by coats 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all dont ever let your mom pick someone for u!! yea she might mean well but this should be ur decision well i think if you really like sebastian then you should tell him how u feel so he can stop talking to other girls also on the other hand kirk flirts with other girls showing he might know his own mind now well really its ur decision look into ur heart and also be smart
2006-11-04 07:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no call to pick either. If you're old enough to date, date either or both and others too. Enjoy everybody's company. You're too young to be choosing someone. Athletic ability or your mom's permission aren't reasons to be choosing someone. Just have fun with anyone who makes you smile. You've got the rest of your life to settle down with one. That's why they call it "same-sex" marriage, all marriages are the same sex all the time. Good luck.
2006-11-04 07:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by David W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When in doubt trust your mother's advice because she's 'been there, done that'. She has some experience in choosing men before meeting the man would eventually be your dad.
2006-11-04 07:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by mrgoodbar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothings wrong with being a dork and not to be racist or nothin but MOST black people are trouble and moms are most of the times right but its your life not hers follow what your heart says
2006-11-04 07:01:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for the nerdy one. if u marry him he will be a better husband for you. the jock will just cheat on u and abuse you. plus all he will care about is sport and drinking and sex with other woman. think about it !! duHHH!!
2006-11-04 07:02:44 · answer #7 · answered by Roger S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like sbastian is doing you ok at the moment.
but if you think its going to get spoilt by your mums feleings towards his colour then maybe its best you avoid it.
go by your heart not your mind.trust me
2006-11-04 07:01:44 · answer #8 · answered by *~sWeet~DReAms~* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go with Sebastion, but i think you should follow your heart.
good luck and best of wishes.
2006-11-04 07:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by Blondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold this
2006-11-04 06:58:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋