Family & Relationships - 4 November 2006

i dated a guy 4 yaers ago that I broke up with (bcuz he cheated) he let me with a x-mas ring that he had given me. That was 3 years ago and I still have the ring, but I don't want it. I haven't talked to him in two-three years. Is it ok to pawn it? If not what should I do with it?

2006-11-04 07:44:31 · 4 answers · asked by do you know me? 5 in Singles & Dating

rite so theres this boy hes a year older than me live next to eachother i wanna ask him out but dnt have the guts i keep puttin notes in his bag and skl he is flirtin loads wiv me smilin at me the other day he was holidin ma m8s baby and he was just staring at me my m8 asked him if he fancied me and he said no , when he sees me he always smiles ,helps me loads wiv homework ,walks wiv me ,and comments on i look better wiv ma hair down ,comes to skl wiv me and i keep havin dreams about him being my boyfriend , is he just sayin he dosent fancy me cause his shy ,
please help

2006-11-04 07:43:26 · 4 answers · asked by attitude123 1 in Friends

3 adult kids from 20 to 25. Going through a seperartion of 5 mo. now, they are living with their mom, and refuse to have anything to do with me.

2006-11-04 07:43:03 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family

I am attracted to women but i am scared to death of them especially those i like. I am 18 now and still trying hard to come out of my shell but it seems to be getting worse. I find it hard making a conversation with girls and i sometimes end up embarassing myself. Can anyone suggest what i can do? I would really appreciate good suggestions.

Thanx.

2006-11-04 07:42:52 · 13 answers · asked by Tim 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is obessed with porn it seems.. we just moved in together and he spends all of his time on the computer talking to other people and playing his game. When I want to have sex with him he makes up some lame excuse and watches porn to get off to. I told him that I dont appreciate him doing that.. he has no reason to watch porn since he has an attractive woman that would be willing whenever.
what should i do

2006-11-04 07:42:15 · 10 answers · asked by Panda Baby 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for three years and we have an 8 month old daughter. The thing is when our daughter was only two months old my husband tried to have sex with my best friend and totally broke my heart. Well, I gave him another chance and took him back. My daughter is eight months old now and I still can't get over him trying to cheat on me when I just gave birth to his child. We have been to marriage counceling and every other kind of counceling and I still hurt and still can't trust him even though he's around me all the time except when hes at work and I just can't help but wonder if hes thinking of her or other women and I just don't know anymore if I should stay with him and just suffer feeling the way I do because we have a baby or if I should go and try to move on. I don't feel I'm in love with him anymore. He said he did it because I wasn't giving it up but, I was so tired all the time due to the baby any suggestions? I don't even want sex anymore with him.

2006-11-04 07:41:58 · 15 answers · asked by LKJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This happens everyday and I dont like it b/c its really anying .

2006-11-04 07:41:53 · 18 answers · asked by BRONx 2 in Friends

2006-11-04 07:41:48 · 4 answers · asked by DIPRFW 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i keep finding myself reminiscing about friends i've "dropped" along the way, maybe its cause here in the uk i've not made lots of new friends, i find the people of thurrock where i am, so...otherwise? (bar one or two) but back home in za, i had loads of friends, one of whom i dropped, she pretended to be a kind person, but she was shallow, but she was kind occasionally, but also painfully hard, so i dropped her. another friend in the uk, i was her little skivvy, when i asked her to move in cause i needed a place temporarily, she couldnt find a spare room in her 3 bed house (no kids) or her letting property...so, i blew it out, but i wonder if i coulda done it differently? do you have similar regrets, or is it just me :-/

2006-11-04 07:41:04 · 5 answers · asked by Wisdom 4 in Friends

We have been dating over 2 years, we started dating our senior year of high school and everything was fine.we decided to go to colleges in the same city, about 30 min apart. Over the past year she has been increasingly needy. She needs to hang out every/all weekend, she needs to have at least a 10-15 min conversation twice a day, not to mention a 30 min phone conversation at night before we go to sleep. if i am talking to her online, and stop paying attention to her (because i am doing a paper or something) she gets upset and gives me attitude, when we part ways after hanging out all weekend, she completely shuts off and becomes very negative and depressed. She gets pissed if i only give her a 5 min conversation. I have a busy life to lead in college, plenty of work and such, and if seems like she doesnt understand. Now dont get me wrong, i do loveher,we have alot in common, laugh alot. I take pride in how well i treat her, i give her loads of attention,love and time, shes 2 need

2006-11-04 07:40:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have met and fallen for a man online and he is 13 years my junior. My daughter is finding it very hard accepting that I would like to keep talking to him and eventually meet him (she's 13) She says she thinks I'm cradle snatching but I think there's a lot more to it than that. I'm really worried about this because I believe I've found my soul-mate. Please give me some good advice, I don't know what to do.

2006-11-04 07:40:02 · 8 answers · asked by kiwi_mum1966 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres this girl I met and im trying to have a conversation with but would'nt keep the conversation going by saying nothing or saying to little for me to keep it going. Im wondering about why is she behaving like this. PLEASE help my figure out.

2006-11-04 07:39:46 · 7 answers · asked by fine boy 1 in Singles & Dating

im hurt becuase my parents had a fight and they might get divorsed and im young and they said they are gonna go get new spouses.... & i cant handle that! i would rather die than go throught that! plz help what do i do! im scared for myself becuase i would kill anyone who my parents hooked up with -- i know that mean but i would want to! help me! =[

2006-11-04 07:39:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-04 07:39:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i found a girl that i have seen hundreds of times but she can only come like twice a month to church so when i saw her i asked her to come to this bonfire thing and she said sure so then i told her i liked her but sshe changed the subject anyways we hung out and she sat next to me four times in twenty minutes!!! she is three days younger than me literally. we are both 13. oh she has a twin brother and two weeks ago i told him i liked her and he told her that "one of his friends" liked me i am his friend so... she guessed it was me. at the bonfire there was this hayride and she sat with me going and coming. what my problem really is i guess how do i ask her if she likes me oh i can't date till im 18 and my parents know i like her and they sorta tease me about her. did i mention that my sister likes a guy named taylor and i like a girl named taylor... wierd. so just give me the best advice you can so have a nice day thank u al.l she is a strong christian so how do i ask her if she likes.

2006-11-04 07:37:23 · 14 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Singles & Dating

what happend after that

2006-11-04 07:37:16 · 6 answers · asked by mayo_girl_2006 2 in Friends

do you think love on the net is possible?do you think it is lust or love?

2006-11-04 07:36:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he got in really big trouble with his parents and they told him they were going to send him to another state to live with his aunt and uncle and when they were about to go take him to the bus station, he ran away and ran 10 miles to my house and now i dont know how to hide him... i have my licence and some money should we go away somewhere where nobody can find us or should i just give him up???

2006-11-04 07:36:00 · 18 answers · asked by Erikawithasmile 4 in Friends

Why when I say no dom people take offence?

like tonight, I got a text fro a friend asking me to have her pet when her kids come on the 17th

I'm keeping in mind that a member of the house doesn't like animals so I text back and said that this person wouldn't like it so she gets funny and won't let the kids come now

2006-11-04 07:35:36 · 10 answers · asked by Bea 5 in Friends

me and my friend are roommates. she complains to me every night about the same thing and stays on the subject forever. when she was going to meet her boyfriend's parents, she whined about out-there complaints for at least two hours. i stayed with her, telling her she's delightful and fun and that they will love her. but whenever i tell her something that bothers me, she just tells me i'm being emo and to stop being that way and then just goes and changes the subject. this bothers me so much because it makes me feel like i don't mean the same to her as she does to me, that i'm some daffy third wheel that she has to deal with. truthfully, i don't have the time to care, but how can i just not care about it?

2006-11-04 07:35:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a female and I smile all the time. People are always saying that I smile all the time and am always very bubbly. Is this a bad thing?

Do guys find that a turn-off?

2006-11-04 07:34:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does having sex in water decrease the risk of getting pregnant?

2006-11-04 07:34:15 · 17 answers · asked by Breanna W 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 07:33:34 · 17 answers · asked by hot_blonde_2952 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you think of a couple who is living together without being married? What would your parents, or older generation think? What would your grandparents think? What attitudes have changed? Are they changing still??

2006-11-04 07:33:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my girlfriend said that *we need to talk* are we going to break up im really nervous right now and im shaking

2006-11-04 07:33:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i.m talking about all kinds of guys from bad boys to mama's boys, from the most vain to sloppy...
does a girl, on first look have to be slim to be attractive?
by slim i mean healthy slim, not skinny tiny.
can an overweight ( size 16+) girl genuinly make your head spin and they wanna chat her up?
or does it put guys off?

2006-11-04 07:33:05 · 25 answers · asked by emboo 2 in Singles & Dating

Or his figure? Do ladies expect more from short men?

2006-11-04 07:32:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its jus i get told quite alot that i look like her and i don't know whether to take it as a compliment or not, for those of u who don't know who she is ive given some links so u can see her pics.

http://photos.lacoccinelle.net/82/31/78231.jpg

http://img80.echo.cx/img80/7035/reter1tw.jpg

http://photos.lacoccinelle.net/22/26/132226.jpg

2006-11-04 07:32:43 · 5 answers · asked by DaRkAnGeL 4 in Singles & Dating

my b/f and i have great, great sex and sometimes i can't stop cumming, is there anything i can do to kinda slow them down or make them go away..???

2006-11-04 07:32:18 · 7 answers · asked by ~broken~ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My good friend Sal is a compulsive liar, no ifs ands or buts. I came to terms with it, but lately it is just gotten out of control.

Whenever I invite him to parties or other things he lies and says he's hanging out with his "girlfriend." No one has met her, seen her, or heard him talking to her. Whenever I invite "her" to come too, they never can make it.

We're 21 years old, not 14, so isn't it time to stop the lying? I really feel like saying something about this to him because I will no longer consider him a friend if he keeps lying and declining my invitations.

What shoud I do?

2006-11-04 07:32:00 · 3 answers · asked by cutiewithabooooty 5 in Friends