what do guy's really prefer?

Question

i.m talking about all kinds of guys from bad boys to mama's boys, from the most vain to sloppy...
does a girl, on first look have to be slim to be attractive?
by slim i mean healthy slim, not skinny tiny.
can an overweight ( size 16+) girl genuinly make your head spin and they wanna chat her up?
or does it put guys off?

Answer 1

There are a lot of questions on yahoo asking a similar sort of thing.

I am a bloke and I know.

Some blokes prefer blondes some brunettes there is no great preference either way

Again slim, or curvy, it all evens out, we just dont like extremes either way i.e. really fat or anorexic

I know 'large' and 'small' build women who make my jaw drop equally.

Breast size dosent matter, Jordan for example has over done it
and is actually repulsive. As long as its all in proportion

The same goes for clothes, they dont have to be slutty or makeup over done, it just indicates were more likely to get laid
and to be honest, there is more to life.

Please give us blokes some credit, we can actually see through all the makeup, slutty clothes, coloured hair and god knows what else and are not completely ruled by our organs.

Basicly, and to answer your question as long as you are a healthy weight (bit over \ under dosent matter) , dont have any ghastly disfugurement and a nice personality I dont think you have to worry.

Answer 2

Well darling Im not a bloke. Im 19 years old and a size 16 but quite tall. My friends who are a lot slimmer than me and attractive girls seem to find it more difficult to attract a bloke on anight out than I do. Im not a tart and I do not sleep around by the way. I try to dress as smart as possible and havnt found no difficulty in finding dates the past year. My boyfriend at the minute is attractive, succesful and could charm the socks off any woman but hes mine. So my answer is yes a size 16 plus can turn a guys head.Id never change the way I look. Hope this helps x

Answer 3

I would have to say that a hefty woman would not turn many men's heads. Sure, if you're married to her and she's let herself go, then you'd still love her, but you probably wouldn't have gone for her if she'd been like that in the first place. Sorry girls, but that's the truth for most men. A healthy looking (slim) girl does it every time. Throw in nice boobs and bum, nice smile and eyes and it's like Xmas!

Answer 4

Its the initial looks that attract men so, as long as a girl looks after herself and isn't too overweight then she will be OK. Its the secondary inspection that gets the interest going - How does she talk? how does she smile? Is she interesting with her conversation? What's her humour like? etc.etc.
Once you get really serious the man's brain stops seeing fat/thin etc. All he will see is a fascinating creature he wants to bed.

Answer 5

Yeah on first glance overweight does not turn many heads.
The volup[tous ones though turn a lot and I've heard them called overweight. Doesn't have to be a runway model.

But the most attractive women I have known have been slightly overweight. But I didn't notice them until we talked.

Answer 6

sexiness is a state of mind more than it is a physical appearance.
think Sophie Dahl naked in that perfume ad of years ago, very sexy and every bloke would have said yes! (she was size 18+ or something).
Get the confidence, dress and act like you've got the confidence and you'll exude the sexiness that will get the attention you're looking for (and probably some you're not!)

Answer 7

It depends on the guy or the body language of the girl realy, I dont mind as long as she makes me laugh and is comfortable with herself, The most important thing is to keep smiling even if you are rejected, after that, you wont have a problem pulling guys, at least thats what my sister told me, shes always bringing guys home with her and shes big xx

Answer 8

i think most guys have their turn on's and turn offs... especially in regards to weight

I'm no slim jim myself... but i wouldn't physically find a skinny girl attractive as i wouldn't find a morbidly 'cuddly' one.

I'd say in the attractive stakes your better to play it safe and loose a few pounds cos it can make the difference between a Brad Pitt, and an Arm Pitt.

Answer 9

Have just asked my husband - I am a UK size 14 BTW - and he says -

'As long as she has a nice ***, I will look agian, if the face is good I would look again, size does not bother me unless she is totally obese and obviously does not look after heself or seriously underweight - then she also does not care for herslef!'

Hope this helps

Answer 10

Sure. My gf used to be slim. She was a stripper and a darn fine looking one. She has quit that lifestyle and now is putting on weight. She is over 150lbs now ant I think she looks hotter than before. I dont want her that slim again. She is a veluptuous sexy babe now.