3 adult kids from 20 to 25. Going through a seperartion of 5 mo. now, they are living with their mom, and refuse to have anything to do with me.
2006-11-04 07:43:03 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
talk to them. 5 months is a long time and they mite be just upset as you are. maybe they are waiting for you!
2006-11-04 07:50:13 · answer #1 · answered by jumanjifaceee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that they are living with their mum who is probably hurting just as much as you in the separation. They can see this and they obviously see you as being at fault. Recognise emotions that are very raw and just wait until things are settled down. Be supportive of everyone and show patience at the process of separation. Don't say or do things you may regret later.
And try and get some support from other areas of your life for now.
Good luck!
2006-11-04 15:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by hooverdamsel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at their age..i would think that they couldn't be focused on it that much..probably really want to stay out of it and backing mom..since that is where they live.since it has only been 5 months i would think that they aren't too sure where it going to end up..i would think this is only temporary..
2006-11-04 18:39:56 · answer #3 · answered by willowz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't talk to dad much if you want to talk to your kid 's just sit them down with you wife and tell them strait say how you fell and how you want to keep in touch and have relationship with them
good luck
2006-11-04 15:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by VKF Jr. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt talk to u either.... no offense but if i was them i wouldnt. thery're goin through alot. give them time
2006-11-04 15:45:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats sad. what did u do to make them mad?
2006-11-04 16:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by basketball24/7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋