he got in really big trouble with his parents and they told him they were going to send him to another state to live with his aunt and uncle and when they were about to go take him to the bus station, he ran away and ran 10 miles to my house and now i dont know how to hide him... i have my licence and some money should we go away somewhere where nobody can find us or should i just give him up???
2006-11-04 07:36:00 · 18 answers · asked by Erikawithasmile 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my mom wouldnt care she hates me anyways
2006-11-04 07:39:29 · update #1
ok my huge problem is that i dont want to lose my best friend and send him off to another state for who knows how long...
2006-11-04 07:41:19 · update #2
WOW I hope everything works out for you guys and that you make the right decision and that you both know what you are getting into if you runaway somewhere.
God Bless.
2006-11-04 07:38:24 · answer #1 · answered by cavigirl17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would only be a temporary solution. Sure, he may avoid the inevitable for a while, but ultimately running away is not the answer.
Furthermore, you could end up in trouble with the authorities as well. Not to mention that the money will soon run out and then there's the question of where you and your friend are going to stay long term.
I think the best thing to do would be to have him live with his aunt and uncle for a while. It sounds like this is not going to be a permanent arrangement and he'll be back home in the not-too-distant future. I know you'll miss your friend for a while, but you should not go against his parents' wishes.
I don't know what kind of trouble he got into, but it's nothing that won't heal with time. There will be a reconciliation with the parents at some point and he'll be invited to come back home.
2006-11-04 15:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Police is going to look for him. You can keep him but is not going to be forever. Soon he has to face the word. If you run with him is way to nowhere. You did already a lot to help him. To live with aunt/uncle can be new adventure and people in his life, not just a prison or sleeping in the bushes. After few days he is going to face the reality and maybe because of his actions he can get some point of view on his parents, to change their mind?.
But don't be silly and complicate your life to hide or run away - no future.
2006-11-04 15:45:59 · answer #3 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that in this case you're best friend may be moved away, but you can't risk getting into such trouble by running away with him in your car. I don't think its quite kidnapping, but you could be in some trouble with the law for taking him away in your car.
The best thing to do right now is to tell your parents. If its something that they can talk to his parents about.. maybe that will settle things down to he won't be moved away, or at least so quickly. They need time to discuss and figure out what is best for their son, and honestly, moving away from his parents is probably not the best solution. A kid needs his parents.
I ran away several times as a teenager, but I came to realize how much I needed my parents, and loved them. It takes a lot of growing up, and a lot of years to get there, but it happens.
Yes, sometimes parents are wrong, but its more likely that your friend has done something to upset them, and they are just threatening him. Hey, my mom threatened to put me up for adoption at 15. Those threats tend to work.....
2006-11-04 15:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by SunShineShoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweety i ran away when i was 16 and i made it for about a week and then went home becuae there was no way i could survive like that maybe keep him hidden for a little while and slowly work him closer to wanting to go home eventually you will get cought but if this are hot right now wait for thwem to cool off and if they dont have him think about an alternative place to live llike some more family around the area or family freinds sorry but we cant run forever its too hard anymore
2006-11-04 15:39:45 · answer #5 · answered by americanhousewife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him up!if u let him stay with u then he'll never learn 2 take care of himself.let him face the world by himself 4 a change.besides,he'll come back sooner or later depending why he got in a big fight anyway.it is probabally because they are having financial problems or worried 4 his saftey and dont want him living that way and dont know how 2 tell or show him.
2006-11-04 15:41:52 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is a minor and you are caught with him, you and your parents could face huge fines and jail time for trying to hide him. Tell him to grow up and be a man and take the punishment that he has asked for by getting in trouble.
2006-11-04 15:38:56 · answer #7 · answered by colera667 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was u i would run away wit him n go out of the usa would b ur best bet but then u would have to get pass ports n stuff but if u wana stay in the usa then go to ny ca or fl!!! those r big states more places to hide!!! lol!! hope i helped!!
2006-11-04 15:44:07 · answer #8 · answered by BlondeCheerChick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think you are doing the right thing by hiding him, but his parents are prolly worried bout him. If you are a true friend, then you would give him up.
2006-11-04 15:39:03 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him up they are not sending him away for no reason. If that is what it takes for him to grow up then he needs to go to his aunts house.
2006-11-04 15:38:06 · answer #10 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋