I am attracted to women but i am scared to death of them especially those i like. I am 18 now and still trying hard to come out of my shell but it seems to be getting worse. I find it hard making a conversation with girls and i sometimes end up embarassing myself. Can anyone suggest what i can do? I would really appreciate good suggestions.
Thanx.
2006-11-04 07:42:52 · 13 answers · asked by Tim 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep trying. It like learning to drive, you are going to have accidents along the way, but you have to keep trying. You will get better at it. Also, no matter what your friends tell you, they are just as nervous as you are, they just hide it better. Remeber to be yourself though because this is the easiest approach for you.
2006-11-04 07:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the same way except you seem to be worse off than me. The only way that i have really been able to talk to girls i like it juts act natural and be myself i also try not to think about what could go wrong cuz if i do i seem to get more nervous than any other time.
2006-11-04 07:45:50 · answer #2 · answered by the machine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what i did to get into conversations and all with girls is talked to them with my friend, he was really good with girls and things like that (people called him the pimp of the 8th grade back when) I felt more confortabel doing that. Then i just got better and better till where i could talk with a girl without feeling strange.
2006-11-04 07:47:02 · answer #3 · answered by Shello 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you gotta make some friends that are women so that you can learn how to talk to them without getting nervous or anything like that. There has to be a female somewhere you know that your not attracted too that you can be better friends with so that you can learn how to talk, treat and act towards any girl.
2006-11-04 07:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by colera667 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm white and that i'm no longer petrified of black women people. If i'm apprehensive around a individual it relatively is by no skill because of the fact of their race. there is no longer something frightening approximately epidermis that's no longer an identical coloration as mine or good factors that don't appear as if my own. *shrugs* >If the persons on right here observed me strolling down the line, they might assume i replaced into some offended, mean Black female. no longer every person. in case you have been evident at people or behaving in a menacing way, this is one element. yet in basic terms strolling down the line? No.
2016-11-27 19:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls like shy guys. I know.. I do. I've always been interested in the ones that are so quiet, but when you get to know them, they've got so much to share with you.
Approach her, and be yourself. Say hi, I've seen you around school, or around work, or around the coffeehouse, and I just wanted to introduce myself.. I'm "......". Would you like to get a cup of coffee sometime?
Don't sweat it if you get turned down once or twice, eventually you'll run into one that has noticed you too, and would like to see what that would go with you.
Good luck hon!
2006-11-04 07:46:16 · answer #6 · answered by SunShineShoes 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have a good right to be scared. They will chew you up and spit you out. Be very afraid. There really evil demons inside.
Not all of them, just be carefull take it day to day. Good girls won't mind if you embarass yourself they actually like it just don't do it in front of a crowd.
2006-11-04 07:46:28 · answer #7 · answered by Just Me baby 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hmmmmm........Do your guys friends have any sisters you feel slighty more comfortable around? perhaps you could invite her and your guy friend to hang out somewhere public. Since she's his sister, chances are she won't put out girlfriend vibes...... toward her brother. Sometimes girls just need to see that you are open to the idea of dating. They might even come to you with out your concsious effort. if your guy friends don't have sisters just hang out with them when there are lots of girls around. Your confidence around your friends is attractive to girls, also.
2006-11-04 07:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by Mistro 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just ask women about themselves and be interested. Don't ask like you need to impress them. Just care about what they think and they will definitely like you.
Also, make friends with girls who you aren't intereted in. If they like you, then they will talk you up to their friends;
2006-11-04 07:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by overrated224 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that this sounds stupid but u could practice talking to one in the mirror. and like if u have a girl cousin or something practice talking to her. and it should work over time and when u finally get enough confedince to talk to them and when u do just be yourself. (just a tip...start out being friends)
2006-11-04 07:46:47 · answer #10 · answered by CaRoLiNe 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋