Family & Relationships - 4 November 2006

From your marriage??Today i was supposed to have spoken to my hubby or tried to about our problems mainly no communication, ignoring me, we dont talk,and no sex in 5 months.He's a med. school student 23 yrs old i am P.R girl 22 and graduated from college already with degree in buisneiss. I work a lot and sometimes with long hours and with a hetic schedule.We never see each other most of the time he is studying or sleeping. I have tried a number of things nothing works he puts no effort into this relationship and its mostly me who is trying to reach out and reconnect.We have been married 2 1/2 yrs and he was not a med student at that time.When i bring up our problem he ignores me says i am being dramatic or blank stare.

2006-11-04 07:58:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ive known a girl on the internet from hamilton in canada for a year, and i grew really close to her, i know there was an age thing she 19 me 29. but i honestly built up an affinity with her. i didnt really tell her im dealing with mental health probs and low moods, but she seemed to like me for who i was, she saw me on webcam i saw her to. i originally met her on wares chat. and weve not spoken to each other for weeks, and i cant seem to let go...i keep visiting her myspace page to see what shes up to....im honestly so cut up about it. she even told me at one point shed be coming to england to study. and weve had alot of arguments to. and she always came back to me, but shes not this time and shes not even trying to email me either.....im a very lonely person and stay in my flat everynight because of high levels of anxiety and panic, although i never let her no that...im dedicated to get the treatment i need..... i see a psych this month. theres alot going on in mylife but i miss her

2006-11-04 07:58:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

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34 minutes ago
and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

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21 minutes ago
i should also add that she has been calling/texting him since the begginning of july . . . he tried to get her back for 2 months after she broke up with him. . . they broke up for no reason . .. she just told him she wanted to date around .. . . and she texted him on what would have been there two year anniversary and reminded him of it

2006-11-04 07:57:45 · 6 answers · asked by osb2904 1 in Singles & Dating

when i was still with my fiancee he bought me a 14 carat gold 1/4 carat diamond engagement ring. the ring cost about $500 US dollars. it was on sale, it was originally about $650. he also bought me a $100 necklace a week before he left me for another woman. we have a son together and money has been tight. he has not been contributing at all to help me. also i am now with a wonderful man. so i have decided to get rid of the trinkets of my past. how much do you think i will get for the ring and the necklace? they are about a year old, i hardly wore them. the necklace was brand new i wore it once. the ring i wore for awhile and then had it resized and cleaned around the time i stopped wearing it.

what do you think?
thanks all,

~Rikki

2006-11-04 07:57:14 · 7 answers · asked by 1 Hott Mami 4 in Singles & Dating

I have this women that likes me a-lot. Yes I am a women also. I told her I am not into her. That I don't date women. I don't have a problem with that its just not me. Plus I dated her newphew for 10 months. She knows nothing of mine and his relationship. We kept that a secret from everyone, we had personal reasons. anyways She works with me and she gets mad at everyone that talks to me including my boss. I think she is the only women that I have ever meet that thinks like a guy. She will not take no for an answer..She tells me all the time she loves me and if I don't talk to her she gets really mad. As if we are in a relationship. I tell her she can't talk to me like that. She will say she is sorry and that she can't help it because she loves me.Her newphew knows everything. Me and him will never get back together but we are still good friends. What would you do about the aunt???

2006-11-04 07:55:49 · 12 answers · asked by kira 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 07:55:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There is like myspace but there are very dangerous people on there that can do horrible stuff. I want a website that has like a backround check about people or that you know are safe. On myspace you can have just a friends list but that is what school, messenger, and a phone are for I want to meet new friends in my neighborhood and have pen pals.

2006-11-04 07:54:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He talks to me and we do flirt but this other girl who hates me is on to him(she can realy show those boobs) and he flirts w/ her a little to(he actually talks to me). He is cool and stuff(me, not so much cool) and I go to his house b/c im bff w/ his sisters and i wish i was not so shy. okay i no i sound pathedik but i realy reeeeeaaaaallllllllyyyyyy like him and stuf. i need real/serious answers here people!

2006-11-04 07:54:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Personal question but please answer!
Do you guys often compare your wife to other 'better looking' women?

2006-11-04 07:53:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi

I have only stronge feeling and True loylety
is that enough for make good realationship

I am not handsome
I dont how to dance
I have no money
I dont know to makes jokes

I only have one Heart

is it enough to make love

2006-11-04 07:53:19 · 4 answers · asked by james Smith 1 in Singles & Dating

I am serious about this it is ruining my life everytime i do it yet i keep getting urges to do it..I want to stop.

2006-11-04 07:52:39 · 18 answers · asked by red_nikes2010 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We were together for a week, and she broke up with me for this other dude. Please give me your thoughts.

2006-11-04 07:52:30 · 10 answers · asked by James H 2 in Singles & Dating

i have fallen in luv with my best m8 nd i dont no how to tell him plz can you help and give me an idea on how to tell him thanks

xxxx much luff xxxxx

2006-11-04 07:51:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well i broke up with my boyfriend after 6 months b/c he never had time for me all he wanted to do was hang out with his friend dave which i am ok with but i think that he should spend a little time with me soo i couldent take it anymore..his attitude also changed from soo nice to a jerk..he would call me yelling for nothing..now he wants me back even though he says he knows he screwed up..but all i wanted was friends and he is pushing the whole dating thing even afteri told him i would settle on friends and wont LEAVE ME ALONE!!!he comes to my job n everything....what should i do???? i want him to leave me alone...

2006-11-04 07:51:43 · 7 answers · asked by Becky 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 07:51:28 · 10 answers · asked by graciegirl 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been with the same guy for 8 months, we jumped into living together too quickly. I love him with all my heart, in the beginning he said he loved me but then he says he isn't happy now but cares for me. He said that he wants to keep trying. Has anyone been in a situation like this and it worked? What should I do?

2006-11-04 07:51:20 · 2 answers · asked by charlene 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 07:50:53 · 21 answers · asked by red_nikes2010 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay, my ex broke up with me a month ago. We never really argued and got along great. She is seeing a therapist because she has been going through alot with her dad dying 4 months ago and taking over the family business. When she broke up with me she said she was sorry and that everything sucked because of her. SHe said that she thought we had really good potential, but that the timing of everything sucked because of her. When she broke up with me I told her that I could not be friends becuase I needed time to get over her. But now I am thinking that friends may be okay and that maybe she would like to her from me every once in awhile, what do you think?

2006-11-04 07:50:28 · 6 answers · asked by Clrcut27 1 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I have to close my eyes...and walk away

2006-11-04 07:50:23 · 16 answers · asked by loofa36 6 in Family

Hi folks..I happened to check my GF'S email couple of days back.I have never done this b4.She knows that i know her password.She hasnt introduced any of her friends thru phone or the net.Now we have been together for 30 months,she has her own set of guy friends.I have never had a problem with that,i trust her completely.But bcos of some tensions we had been having lately....She seems to even keep our relationship as a secret from her friends,Its all this that prompted me to read her emails...i dont suspect her charecter or trying to abuse/control her....i just wanna kno her intentions.She had written to a friend that HER EYES R OPEN NOW,THOUGH SHE WANTS SOMEONE IN HER LIFE,SHES TOO TIRED OF IT. Now that i read this,i dont know what shes gonna decide or how to confront her.We had been very happy& now she dosnt wanna talk much abt our future together,infact shes not even givin me a clear idea of wat she wants.Im 30 & shes 26.Ours is a long distance relationship.I need to clearcut answer

2006-11-04 07:50:20 · 2 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

why are some men so picky when it comes to women?? or they judge you when you have children and say that your easy? also i know that all men are not like that....but most men think that your easy if you have had a child at a young age......and i was wondering why.....but also how do i choose the right man for me and my children....i don't want my children to hate the man i am with,.....but of course they have to respect the person i am with.....i have more.......what about the men with children are we suppose to think the same way????and what about the men and women that have had multipule partners????what do you think of them?????and why are some men picky about how their woman looks????by the way they dress down to what they look like?????just wondering

2006-11-04 07:49:54 · 6 answers · asked by wendy p 3 in Singles & Dating

i told one of my best friends(we'll call her cindy) i liked a boy @ school(we'll call him justin), and a few months later cindy decided she liked him too. Then i guess justin found out, then they were going out. then came football season. cindy, justin, and i would all go 2 the varsity games, but cindy was in band, so justin and i talked sometimes. he even made a comment on my brown eyes. and even though cindy's going out with justin, she won't admit to liking him, but she 'claims' him. Then justin told some people that him and cindy were only friends, and now cindy's mad at him, and she won't really speak to me either. this is all so confusing, what should i do??

2006-11-04 07:49:33 · 6 answers · asked by <--sk8r girl--> 1 in Singles & Dating

how do let a guy no i like him without actually telling him?

2006-11-04 07:49:30 · 7 answers · asked by confused_loved_hated 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this question has already been asked BUT he has many female friends... (he isn't a player, just one of those really nice guys) What does it mean when he sort of stares? It's not exactly staring, but looking at me every so often, and just focusing his attention on me, even if I'm not talking. But he doesn't talk to me, and seems not to notice me (or he just ignores me) whenever I'm around, (not purposefully, but maybe he just doesn't care..?) I'm not sure, but I know he knows I exist because when his friend asked who I was, he turned to me; he just never says hi, even though he looks at me when we're walking in hallways. (And let's pretend there's nothing wrong with me--like a booger or face defect--and I'm a decent-looking girl... my other guy friends consider "cute, funny, nice") I hope I'm being specific enough (just didn't want the "makeup" or "booger" explanation)...
Also, I am very shy, and some people have told me I look unapproachable. Can anyone explain why?

2006-11-04 07:48:38 · 7 answers · asked by Chocolate_swirls18 2 in Singles & Dating

i had a close relationship with this guy but we fought and never talked to each other. on the last day of school he stared at me for a long time without blinkin!!

2006-11-04 07:48:22 · 3 answers · asked by Julia M 1 in Singles & Dating

I am nearly 16 years of age and i am upset because i think my boyfriend cheated on me.Heres the story:
On halloween i kissed this guy called james who is gorgeous.he and this boy named michael who my best mate was with that day walked us home at 6pm.We told them we would be out later.
At 8 we met up with them i didnt think we were goin out until a girl asked me to be with this guy named john.I said i didnt no because i wasnt sure if i was with james or not,the girl turned to james and said are you going out with her and he said ye.
I presumed we were goin out then but today my friend told me he was with a girl i no that night.He told her he thought i didnt want to be with him and thats why he done it,he sais he wouldnt have done it if he new for definate we were goin out.I haven talked to him yet and im really upset.
If you want u can email me at winters_shona@yahoo.co.uk.
I could really use someone to talk to who was in a situation like this b4.Thanks.

2006-11-04 07:47:25 · 15 answers · asked by im_a_bad_ass_biatch 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy who lives around the corner what do i say to him ?

2006-11-04 07:46:13 · 7 answers · asked by George G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-04 07:46:12 · 34 answers · asked by smileychickhappy 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok. What happend was is this girl named Jessie wanted to fight me(we are friends now)because she thought I was flirting with Erica's(her friend)boyfriend... Last year, me and Victoria(another one of Jessie's friends)had a dillema at school because we cheated on a test and she tried to work her way out of it and I told what really happend. Victoria is still mad at me from last year. So the night I came to fight Jessie at the skating ring, Jessie, Victoria, and a few other girls that didn't like me were standing behinde me. Victoria reached out and hit me. I did not know who hit me so I wasn't going to start anything with someone who iddn't hit me. Now, she is going around school saying that she hit me and I did nothing about it. How do I get her back without her knowing?

2006-11-04 07:46:06 · 17 answers · asked by pitbull_patrol31525 1 in Friends

because he lyk hangs on me sometimes then sometimes he acts like he doesn't even like me then he tells his friends that he might ask me out?

2006-11-04 07:45:18 · 13 answers · asked by im a rebel not racial 1 in Singles & Dating