why are some men so picky when it comes to women?? or they judge you when you have children and say that your easy? also i know that all men are not like that....but most men think that your easy if you have had a child at a young age......and i was wondering why.....but also how do i choose the right man for me and my children....i don't want my children to hate the man i am with,.....but of course they have to respect the person i am with.....i have more.......what about the men with children are we suppose to think the same way????and what about the men and women that have had multipule partners????what do you think of them?????and why are some men picky about how their woman looks????by the way they dress down to what they look like?????just wondering
2006-11-04 07:49:54 · 6 answers · asked by wendy p 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont know if you can put men exclusively in this category. I am a woman of 52 and some people call me picky. I am not picky at all, I am just not prepared to settle for anything less than what I know will make me happy. I think it has to do with your mindset. If you are confident, it doesnt matter what a man thinks, its what you think about yourself. If a man wanted me to dress down to suit him, I would tell him where to go. I am just as important as any man in my life. I am their equal, and if they want to pick me to pieces then I am obviously not the right woman for them. I dont need a man to mould me into what he thinks I should be. I am me...I am a very nice person, pretty good to look at, there is nothing wrong with me, and if a man feels to need to change me, then it is not going to work is it? A man has to accept you for who you are and that means everything. Sure, compromises have to be made to make any relationship work, but when one person wants to mould the other person into something they want, then they should find that person, not try to change the current person into what they expect. A woman who allows this will be in for a lot of heartache.
When you meet someone you get a feeling about that person I think and it doesnt matter what their past has been, it is how you see that person in the here and the now. A person's past should not really come into any new relationship. And if a man looks at your past and puts you down because of it then move on. Find a man who will love you for who you are, not what you have done. Deeds of the past does not define you as a person. Sometimes deeds of the past mould you into the person you are today. All the mistakes we make through life are the direct result of who we are now. It is not about a persons past, its not even about how another person thinks about you...it always has to do with how you think about yourself. Other peoples opinions, are just that...opinions. They are not fact. Only you know yourself, you know what type of person you are and if someone is so small minded as to categorise you because of your deeds of the past, then they are not worth the effort to please.
2006-11-04 08:03:09 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you consider when a girl fcuks up around and gets as many children as she can ?
Don't you think that is being more than just easy.
I would say getting fcuked up is being very easy but having children is way more than being easy unless you got them all from your ex husband.
If so my appologies. If not I reitterate again you are easy. Atleast we guys consider you easy and find you hard to trust and be with you.
You know what I am saying? It does work for a guy too. How do you trust a guy who is a player?
And yeah men are picky why not?
Are we supposed to date/sleep with / marry any girl that shows up?
No way!!
2006-11-04 07:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 06:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always thought it was the other way round...that women were more picky than men...humm dunno but I do have this to say, any guy who would turn you down someone really cool like you is not thinking at all! Good luck hon!
2006-11-04 07:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's good that we aren't. If we weren't you'd just call us sluts. Some guys will act like they like anyone so that they have hook up. At least these guys are honest about what they want
2006-11-04 07:52:27 · answer #5 · answered by overrated224 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well .. they want the best .. same as women
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2006-11-04 07:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋