Ok. What happend was is this girl named Jessie wanted to fight me(we are friends now)because she thought I was flirting with Erica's(her friend)boyfriend... Last year, me and Victoria(another one of Jessie's friends)had a dillema at school because we cheated on a test and she tried to work her way out of it and I told what really happend. Victoria is still mad at me from last year. So the night I came to fight Jessie at the skating ring, Jessie, Victoria, and a few other girls that didn't like me were standing behinde me. Victoria reached out and hit me. I did not know who hit me so I wasn't going to start anything with someone who iddn't hit me. Now, she is going around school saying that she hit me and I did nothing about it. How do I get her back without her knowing?
2006-11-04 07:46:06 · 17 answers · asked by pitbull_patrol31525 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Leave it alone. Revenge can be sweet, but it's not worth it.
2006-11-04 07:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't really get back at her just tell people the truth and if she don't understand the just ignore her. Even though she did something to you don't try to get back at her. That is just making things worse. I did the same thing this year and I now know that it was a HUGE mistake. Try to talk to her and figure things out just don't stab her behind her back cause' then you would be doing the same thing to her and she would know that you don't like it and will keep doing it to you.
2006-11-04 08:06:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth is that a bad thing? Its not like it even matters! Ok, to you it may, but be realistic! All she's doing is proving that she's an idiot. You were actually very mature for not hitting her back. Be the mature one now and don't get her back. The best thing to do is to blow her off. She can be violent if she wants, you don't have to be!
2006-11-04 07:50:48 · answer #3 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
here is an idea instead of dwelling on the idea of saving face and getting even, why not try to be friends again that way you both win and those people who were told you did nothing will see that you both did the most noble thing and they will forget all about the incident.
in this everyone wins good luck
2006-11-04 07:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by whizbang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave them alone it will work itself out. Just right about now you sound like you got punked and just stood around and watched. Paybacks are not the way to get back.
2006-11-04 07:51:12 · answer #5 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is a dish that's best served cold!
Give all involved the cold shoulder and move on with your life!
2006-11-04 07:55:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids game. Be just like nothing happened and have fun. If you're in her consideration you have chance she can go back to you.
Anger is no way to win.
2006-11-04 07:50:51 · answer #7 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask a friend to get her IM and then make a Sn but likke something guyish and like if u noe a rly hot guy at the skool then like pretend to be him and ask her out.
2006-11-04 07:58:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps by treating her with kindness, she will realize her actions were not kind. Retribution has a cost and the payment may be more than one can afford.
2006-11-04 07:49:31 · answer #9 · answered by david42 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Using violence is no way to solve problems. Get info from the source only, not they said, he said, she said. Oh, and grow up.
2006-11-04 07:49:37 · answer #10 · answered by beeotch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋