I am nearly 16 years of age and i am upset because i think my boyfriend cheated on me.Heres the story:
On halloween i kissed this guy called james who is gorgeous.he and this boy named michael who my best mate was with that day walked us home at 6pm.We told them we would be out later.
At 8 we met up with them i didnt think we were goin out until a girl asked me to be with this guy named john.I said i didnt no because i wasnt sure if i was with james or not,the girl turned to james and said are you going out with her and he said ye.
I presumed we were goin out then but today my friend told me he was with a girl i no that night.He told her he thought i didnt want to be with him and thats why he done it,he sais he wouldnt have done it if he new for definate we were goin out.I haven talked to him yet and im really upset.
If you want u can email me at winters_shona@yahoo.co.uk.
I could really use someone to talk to who was in a situation like this b4.Thanks.
2006-11-04 07:47:25 · 15 answers · asked by im_a_bad_ass_biatch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're kissing someone else and you're worried about your boyfriend cheating on you? you gotta be kidding...i would consider kissing other guys cheating as well...try talking things out with him, and watch yourself too. you waste all this time writing a damn paragraph to us, and you haven't even talked to him....
2006-11-04 07:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not on the whole inform you he loves you in some way like he did, then he was once ordinarily feeling responsible approximately dishonest and attempted to persuade himself and also you that the whole thing was once k. The method he talked, it makes me believe that he ordinarily did cheat on you. But who am I to speak? I've had beyond enjoy with this earlier than: If he cheated on you, you'll be able to ordinarily simply KNOW. YOUR instinct might be telling you he did. Do you believe that he did? Sometimes persons simply have a powerful feeling approximately it, above all with regards to dishonest. The subsequent time you spot him, pay concentration to how he acts. Does he act extra loving than common? Does anything appear extra far away approximately him? Good success to you.
2016-09-01 07:10:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get your education and then worry about james. Sounds like he is a player. One more word of advice. Don,t post your email for everyone to see.
2006-11-04 07:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by ladyrebel4real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have alot to learn before anything is considered "cheating" try dating a guy for more than few hours before getting so attached!
2006-11-04 07:50:41 · answer #4 · answered by elodie_uncensored 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sound like you had a boyfriend yet so no he didn't cheat on you. You presume too much. to cheat you have to have a relationship to start with. sounds like you didn't.
2006-11-04 07:52:11 · answer #5 · answered by Chuck C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheat (cht) KEY
VERB:
cheat·ed , cheat·ing , cheats
VERB:
tr.
To deceive by trickery; swindle: cheated customers by overcharging them for purchases.
To deprive by trickery; defraud: cheated them of their land.
To mislead; fool: illusions that cheat the eye.
To elude; escape: cheat death.
VERB:
intr.
To act dishonestly; practice fraud.
To violate rules deliberately, as in a game: was accused of cheating at cards.
Informal To be sexually unfaithful: cheat on a spouse.
NOUN:
An act of cheating; a fraud or swindle.
One who cheats; a swindler.
Law Fraudulent acquisition of another's property.
Botany An annual European species of brome grass (Bromus secalinus) widely naturalized in temperate regions.
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ETYMOLOGY:
Middle English cheten, to confiscate, short for acheten, variant of escheten, from eschete, escheat ; see escheat
OTHER FORMS:
cheater (Noun)
Thesaurus: synonyms for cheat
http://education.yahoo.com/reference/dictionary/entry/cheat
Does this fit any of the definitions of what cheating means?
Think about the definition of what it is to cheat, and read this article. See how it feels in your heart.
"What is Cheating?
I once got an email from a woman who stated that cheating only involved a man putting his sexual organ into a woman other than his girlfriend or his wife. That in essence a guy could do anything else he wanted - including hanging out naked in a hottub with another woman and kissing and hugging her - but that as long as he didn't have actual intercourse with her, he wasn't cheating.
That is, of course, quite wrong, and I've yet to find another woman or man who would agree with that definition. Because cheating is not about Person X putting Item A in Slot B of Person Y. Cheating is about betraying trust, and about not honoring the commitment that two people have made to each other. The commitment made between boyfriend and girlfriend, between husband and wife, between two partners, is a commitment to honor each other - to be fully trustworthy - to be honest and true. This is a commitment about how you treat each other, and how you respect each other. "
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2006-11-04 07:54:07 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs.Walker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow what Drama...sounds like an episode from Laguna Beach
2006-11-04 07:49:48 · answer #7 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, and since you can't even communicate with each other enough to know if you are making a committment to each other or not, you're not old enough to date.
2006-11-04 07:50:09 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well first is this friend a true one cause if they r maybe he is but if not its probly just a silly rumor and also it was one night girl relax
2006-11-04 07:53:56 · answer #9 · answered by gary s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just met- and hung out- that's not a boyfriend- that's not cheating.
2006-11-04 07:50:31 · answer #10 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋